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14/f
So there's this guy, I don't really like him. I think I will be soon though. The thing is that he acts like he is all bad and stuff. But he's actually really nice. When I first started talking to him was last semester. But he talked to me by teasing me. So he always jokes around with me and makes fun of me in a playful way. I just don't know where to go from here. I just think that if he is so cool and whatever that he would never like me. I'm not like you know, really down in the social status or whatever its just I'm one of the average girls. He talks to me alot though. He'll like call my name or something and say something really stupid. I don't know if I would ever have a chance with him or if he would even like me. Thanks for any help!
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Well, the fact that he teases you and talks to you a lot is a positive sign. From what you have said here, I think that there is a good chance you likes you back. And just remember, that if a decent guy really does like you, he isn't going to care about social status. And if he does, then he's not a decent guy, and you shouldn't waste your time on him.
But to me, it seems like there's a good possibility he has feelings for you. For the next move, try the easiest thing: flirting! Wink at him across the room, or just ask him to go to a movie. If he's interested, he'll follow up and you'll be able to tell something's there.
Hope I could help! Good luck
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Thing you have to remember is that social status is not important, sometimes it just becomes a barrier for friendships and relationships in high school. The fact is, anything's possible. If you like him, then just be yourself and if something were to develop then so be it. Don't look down on yourself or believe that someone can't like you just based on so called "social statuses". Life is too short for that, be confident in yourself and love yourself. If he likes you for who you are, then he could be a keeper. Good luck.
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