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How to get over someone you love??
I unfortunately fell for someone who doesn't like me... in a relationship way.He told me were just friends... and I REALLY love him. I can't get him out of my mind!! I really need to get over him. I told him how I felt...he said he just likes me as a friend nothing more. So... I'm heart broken. I can't find anyone else... I really want someone special in my life. I can't find anyone who likes me . I don't understand why... can someone give me some tips on how to get over him? How can I find someone that likes me back?? Please... anyone give me some advice. Uh...I am 13...if that matters.
Thanks!!
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first remember everyone has different ways of getting over people. it might take you a while but you just have to deal with it because you can't force because you can't stop what you feel, right?
the fact is you're 13 and you probably do have strong feelings for this guy but its not the end. usually true love and real dating starts at least when you're 16 or 17. so you can't hold on. if it helps completely take him out of your life. that way you don't have to deal with seeing him.
and don't worry if right now you if you can't find a guy. use that energy in something else productive. like rebuilding an old freindship or making a new one. or picking up an activity you've always wanted to this way you won't even have time to think about it.
henaaa :]
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Getting over love is hard for anybody....but it's a little like falling of a bicycle, you have to jump back on and keep trying or you never reach your objective.
Do the things you like to do. Get involved with activities that center around your interests. You may find other boys there that like the things you like.
You are young. Try to have fun. Boys like girls that have fun.
GL TheMaster
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i really can relate to how you feel, but you are only 13 and you will have plenty of boyfriends. It is very hard to get someone out of your mind that you love,but just find fun things that you enjoy doing to keep yourself busy.Also, focus on having fun with your friends rather than having a boyfriend, you have plenty of time for that! You just havent met the right boy yet, and theres nothing wrong with that.When you meet the right person, you will know!
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gonna be famous is right. The only thing I would add is that you don't want to sound desperate in wanting someone, because that will scare them away. But you are only 13, and as grown up as you may feel (like I thought) you are not yet. Dont be in a hurry like I was. It was a big mistake. Just have fun right now!!
I hope I helped!
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Sweetie, you are only 13 years old. There are going to be so many other boys you will meet, and probably feel the same about, so don't worry! It happens to everyone and you will get over him soon. I remember when I was 13, the same thing happened to me. Its weird, because one day something just clicked inside my head, and I didn't obsess over him anymore. So just stay strong, because you are very young and I doubt it was love.
And don't go out searching for someone to like you, because that isn't the right way to get into a relationship. First, you need to find contentment in being single and just having your friends around for now. Eventually, you will find a special boy. But just a side note, relationships don't really work at your age. Most 13 year old boys are very immature, and girls are very emotionally vulnerable. Wait a few more years, once you are in high school. Just let fate take its course, and don't go looking for a relationship. It will eventually happen for you, I promise.
That is best boy advice I ever received, so now I am passing it on to. Hope it helps!
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oh hun, you're 13... when you're that age you sometimes think you're, like, rreally in love and you can only see yourself ever wanting that one person. but it will pass and you will feel like that about someone else... and you will realize that it wasnt really real love.... but honey, you're 13 an you have lots of time to find someone special and realtionships will be much more meaningful when you're several years older =]
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