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How does a woman knowns when she is having a orgasm or in other words coming. (link)
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physically your clit and vagina muscles will pulse a little without you haveing to try to make them, and there are different orgasms you can have, all feeling different from each other, so it is hard to figure out what it was. Usually the closer you get, the more tense your body feels, and the better it gets.
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My boyfriend thinks I'm dirty and weird, cos I like porn films and magazines. He thinks it's just for men. Am I dirty and weird, or is he being a prude? (link)
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Absolutly no your not dirty or weird. He may be put back by it i little. Men usually love it when a girl is into porn because they like to watch it with you.
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me and my boyfriend have sex alot, but i can never seem to have an orgasm. I was to be able to scream with pleasure. How can i have an orgasm while having sex? (link)
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It may be easier to get off while he fingers you. Your g spot is near the back, and up a bit. It's hard to reach sometimes with a penis. Also, right around the front of the vagina, are really sensitive nerves, A spot, that when he is penitrating you it helps to relax a bit, and also stimulate your clitoris. When he fingers you and hits your g spot, it may feel like you have to pee really bad, but go with it, if anything does come out its water based.
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is there any techniques to male masturbatio? (link)
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what ever feels good to you.
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So, my boyfriend and I have been dating almost a month, but we've been together for about three and a half. We've never had actual sex, but we are close. We hang out a lot, and we have a lot of alone time. I do a lot of sexual things for him, and he enjoys it. But i'm often let down, cuz when I think he's going to do something sexual for me, he doesn't. He almost never does, and I feel like i'm in a one sided sexual relationship. Not only that, but it makes me feel as tho he's not really attracted to me. At first he was really into it, but recently he never seems to want to do anything for me. I know I need to talk to him, but how do I start a conversation like that? What kind of things do I say to him? I just need help. Please? (link)
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It sounds like he is seeing someone else, or is bored. A good way to get him into you more is to make him jealous. Send flowers to yourself from some guy, and watch him wonder. If he doesn't than he probly isnt that into you. But be careful how you do it. Never ever tell him the truth.
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lately whenever i'm around guys, no matter how old, i'll try to look better; letting my cleavage show a lot more, more sway in my step, smiling, flirting, etc. today we had a substitute and i did the same with him. i have a boyfriend and i'm very happy with him, but why am i trying to get basically ever male i come in contact with to lust over me? i'm really not that self-absorbed. (link)
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A study was done, showing that women who were in a relationship, tend to be more flirty than when they are single. I think it is perfectly normal, as long as nothing goes further than that. Things that may or may not have happened to you in the past may also play a role in the mix.
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i want to wear my extensions when i'm going to have sex. wearing my extensions makes me just feel really hot and have alot more confidence. the thing i'm worried about is .. there clip in extensions so they could easily be pulled out,etc.
have any of you girls worn clip in extensions during sex and had them come out? pretty embarassing that would be .. but i'd really like to wear them.. (link)
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I have worn hair extentions during sex and I believe it is perfectly ok to wear them!! Men tend to need something different to look at every now and then, so maybe dont wear them all the time, but once in a while. If you like getting your hair pulled, tell him you like just a light tug neer the ends of it, that way he will never know your wearing hair extentions, and they wont fall out. Also, make sure you have them in right. Hope I helped!!
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im trying to lose 10 pounds
so for the past 3 weeks ive been working out reallllllly hard and eating well and whatever. anyways over the weekend my friends were in town and so of course we ate out at like every meal whatevvv so i felt really bad and fat after that. so after they left i got back on track and for the last 4 days ive been doing really well but tonight i ended up binging. well i felt like shit ive been doing all this hard work for me to just binge again? and i made myself throw up for like 30 minutes. i never want to do this again! i feel bad that i even did it. i dont have a eating disorder. but i was just curious how do you know when all your food is out of your stomach? cause after awhile iwas just puking up little bits of brown and i just wanted to make sure i wasnt puking up my stomach or anything?? (link)
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You say you are not bulimic. But you say "binge again" You are bulimic. I was too when I was 16. Im 23 now and now I have a severe stomache problem to where I cant keep any food down and have to have a feeding tube. I cant go out with friends. I cant even eat a strawberry. Is being skinny and bony mean more to you than having friends. Be happy that you can eat. A friend of mine just got into one of the best agencies in the world 2 days ago, and she is a size 14 and doing runway that is not plus size. I'm supposed to be a singer and had to turn down a record deal because I decided to binge and purge, and now I cant even hardly get out of bed. What kind of life do you want fro yourself? You are the only one who tells yourself that you are not good enough.
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I will start by saying that I am self diagnosed. as a child as young as 5 i remember staying up crying in bed because i thought I was dying and in the 80s when AIDs was becoming more known I was positive I had it (I was only 8).I am in my twenties now and I still go through periods of extreme paranoia and obsession with some life-threatening problem I believe I have. it most often starts out with something that actually is physically wrong but it escalates in my head a lot. (i.e cyst on my chest becomes cancer, chronic sore throat is throat cancer, heart palpitations is heart attack.) sometimes i get so paranoid that i convince myself i am going to die that night or by the time my son is five or whatever. Its ridiculous. the only things that can ease my mind is telling my boyfriend or bestfriend about whatever problems i have and then having them tell me they have had it or know that it is going to be okay. thing is, they are at the point they do not want to hear it anymore, and i don't blame them because oh man I am crazy. i love my life, i do not want to die, and i try every day to convince my brain that i am in good health and will live a long time. i need some advice on how to overcome this myself, because I cannot see a doctor for financial reasons (although i would love someone to talk to) and i am absoulutely against medication for any kind of mental disorder. (just for myself, i do not judge others), thanks (link)
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You do not need medication!!!!! They do not fix the problem, they cover the symptoms with all kinds of side effects. I used to be a very severe hypocondriac for years. I would go to the hospital 3 days a week just to make sure I wasnt going to die. I came across something called Brain wave. It is simply a cd that you listen to with head phones on. They have one for any kind of ocd, add, depression, and much more. You listen to it for like an hour each day, and it has various different sounds on it. When you have a condition like this or depression, its because the nurons in your brain have disconnected from one lets say "happy" nuron, and has re attached to an "unhappy" one. This happens like with depression, if you are unhappy for a long period of time it will attach the the "unhappy" noron and cause depression. Brain wave coaches them back to the "happy" state. After I used it, it took 2 months before I could really feel the difference, and in 6 months I didnt have it anymore. Im 23 now and havent been a hypocondriac for 4 years. I dont believe in medicine unless I'm really dieing. They all seem to give you more problems than what you had to start with.
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Can anyone tell me who originally sings Baby one more time? Thanks (link)
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Yeah i do believe it was Britany, And I think she is amazing!
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I'm 20, in college and also work. I'm considered the 'responsible' kid in my house, who always gets things done. My older brother is 25, and doing nothing with his life. He doesn't have a job, any motivation or ambition. He parties and comes home whenever, and my mom has kicked him out numerous times. It's stressful and aggravating! I know it's his life, but I also feel bad for my parents that are at their wit's end and don't know what else to do. Any ideas or advice on this situation? He needs to grow up and move out! (link)
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I know exactly how that is. Im 23 my brother is 28 and I am a singer and actress and he is doing drugs with no job and lives for free and is always in trouble with the swat team or cops. As much as he has put himself and others through, he always listins to me when I talk to him. Try not to judge him. There may be things going on on the outside that you don't know about that may be tragic to him, and he tries to hide it. If his parents don't understand him, and no one else does, he will feel uderly alone, and keep down a path of destruction. Its not as simple as he needs to grow up and move out, he sounds lost and probrobly needs someone to just listen to him without judgment. Istead of focusing on what he doesnt do, remind him of things that are great about him. Parents are not perfect either. They are so busy concentrating on the problem they are having with him, but not aware that there is something eating him away. inside.
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Okay so the school Talent Show is coming up and me and my friend need a fun, fast song to make a dance to. Or if you know of any popular movies with like a 3 minute dance scene in it, we copy stuff good. Not Napoleon Dyamite, we already did that. But anyways, it has to be funny. Thanks ! (link)
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This on is a little older but what about Super Star! I thought this was incredibly hilarious and I know most people have seen it!
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im not fat and really dont NEED to lose weight, but i would like to maybe lose 3-5 pounds of excess fat even though i look good for the most part. i workout about 5 days a week including strength training and cardio. i dont have a whole lot of time to eat throughout the day because im pretty busy most of the time. i usually only eat about 1000 calories and then come around around 8 or 9 and usually eat about 200 calorie dinner and then i usually get cravinggss and indulge in chocolate about 300 calories worth. so total im eating about 1500 calories but wil this make me fat? indulging in choclate every night?? even though i dont eat a whole lot during the day?? or will i maintain weight or lose weight because i am working out? (link)
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I believe that the 1000 calorie diet isnt healthy anyway. You are going to starve your body. When you work out as much as you do, you need to at least be on a 1200 calorie diet. Maybe that is why you feel hungry at night. Make sure they are healthy calories though. Its ok to indulge a little here and there. It really makes more since to be on a 1400 calorie diet. Dont worry so much about getting fat, concentrate on being healthy and fit. If you work out and eat right, you will stay slim. The night time is the worst time to be eating. That is when your body is resting and your metabalism slows down.
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What doyou collect or cherish the most? (link)
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Things loved ones touched.
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I unfortunately fell for someone who doesn't like me... in a relationship way.He told me were just friends... and I REALLY love him. I can't get him out of my mind!! I really need to get over him. I told him how I felt...he said he just likes me as a friend nothing more. So... I'm heart broken. I can't find anyone else... I really want someone special in my life. I can't find anyone who likes me . I don't understand why... can someone give me some tips on how to get over him? How can I find someone that likes me back?? Please... anyone give me some advice. Uh...I am 13...if that matters.
Thanks!! (link)
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gonna be famous is right. The only thing I would add is that you don't want to sound desperate in wanting someone, because that will scare them away. But you are only 13, and as grown up as you may feel (like I thought) you are not yet. Dont be in a hurry like I was. It was a big mistake. Just have fun right now!!
I hope I helped!
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I'm not really sure what section to put this in but I think health would be right. Is it normal to be completely disgustingly exhausted after 7-9 hours of sleep? If I dont get a good 11-12 hours of sleep, I'm so tired that it hurts. It makes me feel gross and lazy. Im 20 years old, female, idk whats wrong with me! I've been like this my whole life. Is it normal? Does anybody have any kind of opinion on this to help me out? Haha I'm so tired of being tired. Thanks! (link)
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You could be difficent in some vitamins. I suggest getting a blood test to first check for what. If you are an active person, you need to take extra nutrients for your body to run right. If you eat a lot of carbs, and are not active enough, this too will make you very run down and tierd feeling. I hope this helped a little!
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At the end of every day, I've been noticing that if I spread my legs (NOT THAT WAY! Like if I get up to walk or something) there's this really weird smell?? I cross my legs when I sit down all the time, and I guess that makes it smell weird? BTW this isn't just like from having my period or something, it happens a lot. Haha... awkward, sorry, but I'm just wondering how I can make it go away? Is this something I should be worried about? (link)
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I got this alot when I was around 15- 17 yrs old. Some girls are wetter down there than others, and even if you get a lttle "horny" it will cause the glands on the inside of the vagina to excrete discharge. Even if it doesnt come all the way out, it is a breeding ground for bacteria, which can cause a smell of fish, or even a sweet kinda smell mixed with sweat smell. After you are done washing, put some baby powder in your underwear or directly on yourself, it should help with the smell and keep it dryer.
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I have really intense abs and its easy to see but i have this layer of fat on top that needs to go. so prettty much how should i go about doing this?? I know its more diet than exersizing, but how should my diet be? im only 15, so im new at this... female btw (link)
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It is good to eat lots or raw veggies and fruit. If you dont like it, then eat smaller portions, and take a fiber suplement. Stay active. Remember, at 15 your body is still developing, and you need certain fats, and omega fatty oils in your diet. When you get to be a little older, Im sure that baby fat will be easier to takle, and may just go away on its own. I was known as the chunky girl until I was 17. I didnt change my diet it just went away.
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Well, is it true that people who smoke lose weight.... does it stop you from feeling hungry and stuff...? Coz most of my friends who smoke are friggin' skinny...I think I might start smoking for this reason... (link)
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No it is a myth. Actually, you are more likely to loose weight not smoking, because you will be able to get more oxegen in your body than with smoking, and this in turn regulates your bodies natural ability to sucessfully loose weight.
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what exercises target the flabby, underneath part of your arms? is that your tricep?
im a working-out beginner, so nothing crazy ha. and i hate push-ups =] (link)
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If you don't have dumbels, I use cans of soup. keep your arms down and even with your shoulders, and slowly stretch them stright out behind you and bob them up and down 3 reps of 10.
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