Gender: Female
Age: 19
Member Since: February 24, 2009
Answers: 35
Last Update: November 22, 2010
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I'm a female and I wanted to ask to see if anyone knew of some exercises to tighten my vaginal area. (link)
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Kegel squeezes,.. contracting the pelvic floor muscles... Squeeze the vagina muscles at the base, and contract like you're pulling a tampon up toward your navel... I heard something about vinegar in the vagina,.. to tighten it... : O ... Not sure if I would be putting that in there, but.... And I'm not sure how that works.. *scratches head*
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is excessive flatulence indication of any health problems? (link)
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It may be an indication of digestive problems or constipation... Drink warm/hot water of tea. And add lemon, it helps with digestion.
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What role does sex/masturbation play in balancing acne-causing hormones...? (link)
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I had masturbating as a way of releasing or regulateing hormones so it will cause less acne, in mind... xD ... I read that hormones/brain chemicals released after orgasm are good for your health, and orgasm increase circulation which is good for your skin... (some of this could be achieved with exercising, but I was trying to figure out if masturbating daily would be good for my health, or skin) :O .... :O
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soo me and my boyfriend have sex all the time. but sometimes i just get this guilt feeling afterwards like im doing something bad. and likee sometimes its not even during sex. like we'll just be doing sexual things and ill make him stop because i start feeling guilty. its nothing like my religion and it has nothing to do with him. i love him with all my heart. but i just dont understand why. any ideas? (link)
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Maybe it's because you feel like more of your relationship is about sex than you would like to be. If you see each other, and sex is a given, then it can take some of the romance out of the relationship... depending on how the individual feels about it... Maybe it's getting hard to know how much he would want to spend time with you if sex wasn't going to be involved. And maybe part of it is you feeling bad about not being able to control your own desires. I don't know if you plan on having sex with him every time, or if it just sort of happens like that; but if you aren't planning on it, it wouldn't be good if he expects it every time.
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Me- 19/f
Him- 21/f
How do I get a guy to stop seeing me as a friend? If it helps, I've known him a few weeks and we've hung out once, but he constantly makes it clear that we're just friends. I don't think the problem is me, as he's mentioned multiple times that he thinks I'm hot/pretty, would make a great girlfriend, etc. Is there anything I can do? (link)
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Maybe he is not ready for a(nother) romantic relationship (yet). Maybe he is still attatched to another woman; and he's not open to truly liking other women like that.
Or if he does like you in a romantic way, maybe he is emphasizing that you are friends because he doesn't want you to be put off by him liking you, if he believes you may not like him the same way; and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. I don't know if you made it clear to him that you like him like that or not... if so, maybe your clues were subtle enough to leave him unsure. And he may not want to assume you like him, or go out on a limb, to be shot down.
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My boyfriend says my cum tastes sour. Not like rotten sour, but like actually sour. Is this normal? (link)
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maybe it was just tangy. :p .. did he say he liked it..?
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Ok, I love my boyfriend to death. He is so amazing except for one thing; he's TOO honest. I know, I know it sounds stupid but I don't know...sometimes we play this little question game like if we're bored or something and we just ask each other questions. I know I probably shouldn't ask questions if I'm so afraid of the answers but I don't know...I guess I just expect him to answer all of my questions nice and sweet for some reason. Ok, for example: The other day I asked him if he thought he would get tired of me if he hung out with me for too long and he said "yeah, probably...I have to have time for hobbies and stuff" and it's like I know that logically, what he's saying makes sense, but would it have really hurt for him to just say "No, of course not!" or something? :( It just seems that he doesn't really think about how sometimes his honesty can hurt me...I mean part of me feels ridiculous for even being upset about this because all anyone ever wants in a relationship is honesty right? But on the other hand, this isn't the first time he's done this...and then after he says it and I explain that it hurts me, he's just like "Yeah, I can see how that would have hurt you"...I don't think he understands how much it hurts me? I don't know...what do you guys think I should do? Or should I just drop it? (link)
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I think you should just drop it hun. ;p.. You are the one asking him the questions, and you already have an answer in mind that you want him to say, and when he doesnt say it, you wish he lied.. Then what would be the point in asking the question if you didn't know what answers were real and which were kind lies..? Then you still wouldn't know, and you might say to yourself "maybe he just said that to sound sweet... did he really mean it..? or didnt he...? I don't know..!".. Then you're still unsure.. lol
If you wanted to know if he would get tired of you if he hung out with you for too long, just hang out with him for a long time and see ;p
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So, my boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long and we decided to NOT have sex for a longgg time down the road. Which I think is great! But we're young and live with our parents and stuff. I mean we do things like dry humping and touchy feely and things like that but I get soo paranoid that someone's going to walk in or say something. My opinion is we're not having sex, we are being responsible but we DO have hormones! What do you think? Do you really think our parents would freak out? Do you think what we're doing is okay? (link)
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Parents arent gonna be like.. "Oh,... you're just dry humping...? ... Just touching eachother's privates..? Oh, alright.. I'll just leave you crazy kids to it.." .... lol. I know my parents would freak the hell out. They wouldn't even let me be in a room with a guy with the door closed, and I'm 20.
They don't know for sure that you agreed to not actually have sex, and they don't know if that will change in the heat of the moment,so I would think, especially with a daughter, they would not even want it to get to that point, especially not in their house. If you're going to do that, do it at his house. lol
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how do you negate the munchies from weed?
i get so hungry and i hate eating when im high.
how do i control it? (link)
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umm.... stop getting high
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I cant help myself over liking my friend. Ive tried ignoring him but i always look @ him n try to talk to him i just love being near him. I thought about dropping him n telling him off for that joke he did to me but hes the type of guy who would look u in the face n laugh if u tried to talk crap to him. Hes one of those funny guys who probably wouldnt even be able to shut his mouth to save his life N the worst thing is i have in my gym class tomorrow y is it so hard to face him or get over him?! im so confused??? (link)
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hmm,... is playing jokes on you something he usually does..?
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17/F.
Okay so i jus started datin this guy from another school cause he asked me out n i like hiim so i said yes...well that was only a week ago but i dont like datin. at all. i like to be able to do what i want when i want to n talk to whoever i want. i like the "im not datin you but basically am" kinda thing bc it doesnt restrict. dont get me wrong i like my bf a lot but i dont know!! we talked for bout a month before we started datin n i saw some odd things he did but didnt think he was a weird kid. Well now im thinkin he might be on the weird side. ahh! i dont know some things he does is jus straight weird n immature n im thinkin really? the times i really like him is when its jus me n him wi no one else round cuz he doesnt do all that weird stuff. i mean if he does its not over the top. i have my weird side too but i dont want him to scare me away wi all of the weirdness if u understand what im tryin to say. Its jus not like me to date but i like him a lot n didnt wanna lose hims so jus said yes but now i dont know if that was a mistake. AHH! help please! (link)
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ok hun,.. I don't know what kind of weird stuff you're talking about that he does... =& .. it's kinda vague,.. maybe if you wouldn't mind giving some details... =&... have you talked to him about what is bothering you..?.. If you are willing to be understanding and accepting of him maybe you can talk to him and get him to open up more and trust you so he can be comfortable talking about his feelings.. I'm not sure of the situation but if it's about how he acts toward people it could be about a facade type thing and he doesnt want people to see the real him because them he feels vulnerable or something of that nature.. or maybe he just needs someone to understand him.. =&
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I was just wondering if there is such a thing as chakra. I know it may just be in Naruto and shows like that, but i was wondering if it's real. If it is, how do you know what type you have? THANKS
Janie93 (link)
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I'm not sure exactly what chakra applies to on Naruto, but in spiritual beliefs, there are 7 areas in the body labelled as different chakras; they are believed to radiate energy. They are assigned to the colors of the rainbow (R.O.Y. G. B.I.V., going up)... (red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo, violet) ... there is a violet crown chakra above the head, an indigo third eye chakra where the "third eye" should be, a blue throat chakra, a green (or some believe it is pink) heart chakra, a yellow solar plexus chakra, an orange spleen chakra, and a red root chakra at the base of the spine. There are beliefs that include meditation for the unlocking of chakras, or the balancing of chakras...
Although in the Naruto cartoon I'm sure that chakra has something to do with a projection of energy, and in that way it wouldn't be real; but for the spritual magick practitioners (those who practice witchcraft or something by a different name but is similar), I think that the beliefs of the awareness of the balance of the 7 chakras; which is probably primarily used for inner peace attainment and probably physical, emotional, and spiritual wellness; can come into play in projections of energy and "spell casting"; which wouldn't be how you might imagine (not like television, movie, or otherwise fictional depictions of it), but none the less, it a reality for those who are so inclined to use it.
ok,.. that was probably confusing... =p
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i wanna believe that wishes are real and can come true and i've found myself making alot of wishes lately. I'm finding myself getting into magic more and more lately. is that bad?
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I suggest that you look into "the law of attraction". It is basically a concept saying that anyone can have what ever they desire, as long as they believe. There is more to the concept and I think you may find it very beneficial to do a little research on it, and if you are still interested, there is and book and a dvd that you may or may not have heard of called "The Secret"... And also a book called "The Law of Attraction". But if you google the law of attraction you'll likely find some insight and information that may convince you that this "magical thinking" may not just be some silly thing that you should leave alone.
It goes into describing how "thoughts become things", or how when you entertain thoughts with strong emotion attatched to it, it actually emits energy out into the universe and manifests into reality under the proper conditions. Whenever you are happy, you are manifesting good things to come into your experience, and when you are sad you are atually attracting more of the same negative energy to yourself. Like if your day starts off bad and you think to yourself this is just a bad day for you, and things continue to go wrong.. it's because you are in a negative state of mind and you are attracting more of the like. And vice versa..
This philosophy is derived from sources; And I have adopted it into my own beliefs.
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um.....hey i have brown eyes omg but i soo dont know what to bring them out with i use eye liner well black eye liner and i dont know what else to put on and. By the way im 14years old i dont whant like to much make up on and ya thank you very much bibi (link)
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apply a subtle amount of light shimmery eyeshadow to that area at the inner corners of your eyes... and also apply it right under the eyebrows... supposed to help make eyes "pop"... =P
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i just got a little white male kitten today.. and i need some names. i want something silly.. not like snowball or any generic white cat name. one of my friends cats name is george w brooks because her last names is brooks and then her dogs name is buddy bo bongo. i want silly names like that=] any suggestions? (link)
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I have a white kitty. =]. Its a girl. Her name is Sisicoco...
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In the last 3 years ive had growth spurts of sorts with my penis. Im 25 and ive read that it stops after 17 but some say it grows until your thirties. Anyways it has happend four times within three years and it always happens after i start working out after a long period of no excercise. but it only happens when i start a routine not while im weeks into my excericse program. it gains more in girth then in length. Im not a meathead thats in the gym all the time, i go when i can. Is it the shock to my body that releases hormones that does it? Maybe because of the vitamins and im eatting more? Im not complaining, just a question. Thanks! (link)
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how long is it? ;P
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alright, this doesn't happen EVERYTIME, but sometimes when i pee, i feel like i have to go again, so i do, but nothing comes out or needs to.
it's just a weird feeling cus i keep thinking i need to go, but i really don't.
so, is this a problem or just minor? (link)
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I'm thinking this could be a result of not going to the bathroom often enough. Is that the case? I have a friend who I used to think silly because she would be annoyed by having to go to the bathroom and she would put it off. Like, she would say she has to pee, and I'm like "well go to the bathroom then!". And she wouldn't go. Then she would be busy doing other things and talking to people at our college, and she would walk past, like, 3 bathrooms and not go. She'll be like "I'll go when I get home".
Then we'd get in her car and go to her house and when we finally get there she'd rush to the bathroom, not bother to even close the door, and say "that felt gggood"...
And she actually had to go to the doctor and get this cream to put down there because she was complaining about a burning feeling and other symptom(s). And I said I thought it was from her not going to the bathroom enough, and it made her bladder weakened; that's why she felt like she had to go again right after she just went. And there was some kind of infection; not exactly sure why so.
And I told her to go to the bathroom when she needs to go, insted of hurting and damaging her bladder; but she was like "that's not it". But then one of her friends was telling her about things that they had to go to the doctor for themself, and she was knowledgeable about her condition; and she probably listened to her but not me. xP....
...So, that may be it, but if it's not then I don't know what it is. But I hope you feel better soon hun.
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I'm going out with this girl that I really fell for and I want her to really like me. I want something slick to say to her to make her smile and say aww. For example we were playing a question game where we go back and forth asking each other questions. She asked "Have you ever seen something that reminded you of something else?" I said "Yeah". She says "When?" I say "Today" She says "What and What?" I said "You an angel." May sound corny but she smiled and I know she felt good. She said "Aww your so sweet I love you." I want to have those all the time. I always want to have something to say, to throw it out there she says "I'm bad at this..." referring to being a girlfriend and "Don't get bored of me." A lot, so next time I see her it would be nice to have something to say, please help me with something sweet and romantic, I love her. (link)
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aww,.. that is so cute. I know you want to know what to say, and you might think that you may not be able to come up with the right things to say to this girl; but despite your want for rehearsed lines, it is best to say what comes to you at that moment. Girls don't always like those corny little lines all the time. They come out as cliche phrases that don't sound very genuine. You should get the girl to like you for you. That means she will like the things you say to her and know that that is really you; Not something someone told you to say or something you got from somewhere else. Use your own way of telling her how much you like her instead of reciting artificial lines. She has to know yyou, and not admire things that aren't really you.. things that you desperately use to impress her.
Don't try too hard to impress her. Good luck hun. ;)
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f/ 15Okay so My boyfriend and i have been together for almost six months. He is seventeen. I am the first girl he has EVER had feelings for. like at all. I do care about him, dont get me wrong.BUtttt Theres this guy, Whos nineteen. And hes suchhh a sweetheart. He doesnt want me for sex, and we flirt all the time I really like him. I dont want to break up with my boyfriend, but i also really like the other guy. I am so confused because i really like them both. help me please? (link)
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hun, u don't need to be in a relationship with a 19yr old guy just yet. ;)
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Hi, im 17 years old going on 18 this summer and i am trying to loose weight aka get abs before this summer and i try doing sit ups i have an ab coster and an ab lounge but yet i still cant loose this baby weight i had a baby in march 2008 and ever sense then ive been trying to loose weight ive tried a weight loss patch called the pink patch, a weight loss loly pop and weight loss tea but nothing is working i have some stretch marks on my stomic also that are almost gone but yet there still visible i need help and fast i dont know what to do i feel awful about my stomic i hate how it is everytime i look in the mirror i cant even look at myself naked in the mirror and its really sucks i used to weigh 116 pounds before i had my baby and now i weigh 120 pounds thats bad somebody please help i need it badly. thanks for reading this. (link)
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try doing these things that are like instead of doing sit-ups and using the upper part or your body, you lift your legs. You can do it one leg at a time, or wth your knees bent. i hope that works. And also you can do a lot of these stomach wave thingies where you contract the upper part of your abs, then the bottom, and you could smooth out the motions and that is good for ab toning. hope i helped =]
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