I'm Katheryne and i'm bisexual but dont let that judge me! i'm very smart! so just come to me with any kind of qeustion and i pormise to write back a.s.a.p
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hey i have this confusing thing going on...i got to know this guy,very cute,great personality,different then so much other guys and he wants a relationship and i dont know how i feel towards him..ive never fallen in luv or been in a relationship before or do i know how it feels like to fall in love..
this is exactly what i think and feel
im happy and scared when he goes online,when he says sweet stuff to me and how he wants a relationship i feel so happy and when he talks of his girl frreinds i feel angry
but then when hes too sweet and into me i start thinking although hes the perfect guy...i dont know if ill be happy if im with him...it happened once that we werent gonna get together and it wuz geting complicated and my freinds told me to forget him and when they did i fealt depressed....when everything wuz ok again i wuz happy then....i wuz like confused
i like him SO much one day,next day im just confused and i realllly dont know what im feeling =[[[
i listen to slower romantic music now,smile when i think bout him and think bout him alOT....but i dono =[[[[
is it a crush,like or love??? (link)
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dear is it love,like, or crush,
It could be you either liking him alot or it really could be love!!!
you dont have to be dating someone to love them it is all about feelings and your friends cant tell you how you can or do feel!!!
Dont listen to people while trying to make up your decision on going out with him or not!!!! I think you should go out with him because you seem to either really like or love him!!!!
Its your decision and i hope this helped you!!!!!
Kathryne!!!
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okay so i just got out of a relationship and i still have feelings for the guy, but thats normal. he treated be badly and was a terrible bf. i keep daybreaming and thinking about what it would be like to have a good bf that i like alot and he lieks me and he treats me really good. i want to meet someone like that but i dont know how...is this normal? (link)
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Dear i like someone i dont know kinda,
This is very normal expecially for girls. We all want the perfect boyfriend and you can find one but he wont be perfect he'll be as close as there is. Guys are stupid but we still love them. I know how you feel before the boyfriend i have now i just dated any guy i thought was cute and then i realized that i wasnt actually atracted to them only my body was. Have you ever thought you liked a guy then realized you were only like sexually attracted or maybe you just liked it when he touched you?? well thats how i felt and then i stopped dating and just kept thinking and seeing the perfect guy for me in my head but then i realized that it wasnt helping that i was thinking of the guy that didnt exsist. Now look at me i'm ina great relationship and i love my boyfriend. SO yes what your doing is normal and i know your not really over your ex but instead of sitting around go out and have fun and who knows maybe you'll find that perfect guy while your doing it!
Kathryne!
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Ok so my jeans that i have to buy for my waist are always baggy in the legs because i am short so does anyone know a way to make my jeans tighter in the legs so they do not fit so baggy like thanks (link)
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Dear baggy jeans,
I had the same prblem because i'm also kinda short i'm only 5 foot and i'm 13!!!! but if my jeans were too baggy around my legs i would wash my jeans alot!!!! it shrinks them around the legs.Or you can go to some stores and if your looking for skinny jeans look for your size and if they say tall or regular or short get the short ones and you may want to try 1 size smaller and the size you actually think you are that way you have a choice. (like if your a 3 get a 1 to try on to)!!!! hope i helped
Kathryne!!
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so i straighten my hair alot because it's curly, does anyone know anything that can make my ends from not splitting and frying so easily?
whether it's a certain straightener, type of shampoo or anything! i'm in desperate need of it. help! :( (link)
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Dear haaaair!
I have the same problem all you have to do is when you put the conditioner in your hair leave it in for atleast 5 minutes it conditions your hair and makes it stronger so it fights heat problems. ALSO you might want to try a straightening gel or spray it tames heat and straightens your hair at the same time.the one i have is in an orange trianguler bottle witrh a pink top and it sprays. You just spray it evenly through out your hair before you dry it then blow dry and straighten and your hair will be alot healthier including the conditioner trick i said earlier.
So try these tips for more healthy hair. alot if girls have this prblem so dont feel bad!
kathryne!
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im so confused.
this is kinda long.
im stuck between two guys and the thing is, i cant decide who i'd rather be with.
ok so guy number 1 i have liked on an off since last year. The thing about him is, there will be times when he talks to me, hints that he likes me, and goes and ignores me for a while. This had been happening on and off until a couple of weeks ago. I dont know how it happened, but he ended up telling me that he liked me. And then we pretty much totally opened up to each other. He told me all this stuff, for example
"Your pretty nice and attractice i think your gorgeous and you have a nice body"
he also said some other stuff like that 2.
however it seems like hes a totally different person while texting. in school he will sometimes walk right past me without saying hey and he doesnt seem like he is interested in me in when i see him. this was a week or 2 ago. then we started not texting as much and it seems like the whole cycle is starting over again....
except i will catch him staring at me sometimes and he will come up and talk to me again just when i convince myself hes not interested.
guy #2
ive been best friends with him for a couple years. only this year i started to actually like like him. i feel really comfortable when im around him not kinda awkward like i do with guy #1. and he is a great guy, and has an AMAZING body (not that that matters that much but still) i went over his house and we like flirted the whole time and it really seems like he likes me. PROBLEM, one of my best friends also likes him and they had a thing a while ago and she broke it off not him so im not sure if he would like her again. but it really seems like he likes me only i dont know for sure if he does. but he does text me a lot and wants to hang out again. and i have a feeling he does. only, i cant stop the feeling i have for guy 1. and i have a feeling if i went out with guy 2 then he would be really mad even though he doesnt make it seem like he's interested.
i really like guy 2 but i cant stop thinking about guy 1. and theres the whole thing with him and my friend
what should i do?!?! (link)
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Dear torn between 2,
I know exactly how you feel, i have been in this situation. Guy #1 is a player most likley and he probably feels in controll of you its like he's a couch potato and your the remote or tv he can change you or turn you on and off whenever he wants. I feel like you have a better shot at guy #2 because he actually knows how to treat you and i would hate for a sweet guy like him (guessing) to get his heart broken by you if your going to get your heart broken for no reason and i think you know that your friend will be a little mad at first but just try to work something out but whatever you do even if you get mad dont say well he likes me and not you so i should be able to go out with him! because i dont think you want to lose your friend and its a stupid guy that you dont even know if you"ll last with but all i know is Guy#2 is more of a match for you and plus guy #1 is just going to do even meaner things to do while your dating! Guy #2 is way better to you and for you please even if your thinking about guy #1 just try and start thinking about guy #2s hot body!!!!
ITs your choice now and i hope i helped you in some way!
Kathryne!!!
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last week i went on a school trip, skiing, and there i met this guy; nothing happened. but now, i can't stop thinking about him!!! and theres no way of contacting him or anything. but i can't get him out of my mind!!! do have anything you think i could try to get him out of my head? (link)
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Dear cant stop thinking about him,
Maybe you cant stop thinking about him because you like him or you could just be sexually attrackted to him and it has to be hard not to be able to stop thinking about him. but you need to atleast try like really hard because most likly you wont see him for a long long time! so idk but meet new people is all i can really say.
love
Katheryne
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Since middle school (I'm 19 now), I've always developed crushes on cute, male teachers who are obviously much older than me. The little schoolgirl crushes though sometimes turn into full blown fantasies. When I got to high school, I used to daydream in class about whatever teacher I liked then. Now, I have a thing for really older guys! I had a crush in college on a 50 year old professor. It wasn't even innocent either, because sometimes I would wear revealing stuff to class and then stay late to talk. Where is this all coming from? (link)
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Dear crazy teacher crushes,
I can see what your talking about but sometimes we girls like people we cant have and i think thats what your going at. The teachers we're to old for you and that may be why you wanted them because they we're untouchable but it could just be the way you are. Are you mature for your age?? if so then that could also be why because when your more mature you seem to go for people at your maturity level so ya. i hope you figure it out by this answer i hate not being able to help people.
love, Katheryne!
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okay everyone always tzlks about how sex hurts the first time but what about the second time? Is it painful or pleasurable? just somethingIm curious about... 13/F (link)
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dear first?--->second?
i get that your curious and i totally understand and even if you do want to have sex that is your business and you don't have to tell anybody. By the way just to kinda answer your question half way, sex the first time doesn't always hurt,it all just depends it can be pleasurable. The second time again all just depends most likley it will be pleasurable but it really all just depends on you and positions and stuff like that. SO ya but i love how your so curious young people should come out about there curiousity like you.
Love,
Katheryne!
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