Question Posted Wednesday February 25 2009, 1:05 pm
last week i went on a school trip, skiing, and there i met this guy; nothing happened. but now, i can't stop thinking about him!!! and theres no way of contacting him or anything. but i can't get him out of my mind!!! do have anything you think i could try to get him out of my head?
Maybe you cant stop thinking about him because you like him or you could just be sexually attrackted to him and it has to be hard not to be able to stop thinking about him. but you need to atleast try like really hard because most likly you wont see him for a long long time! so idk but meet new people is all i can really say.
maddiec123 answered Wednesday February 25 2009, 3:34 pm: Try to figure out why you are fixating on this person you've known for a few days. Are you making him what you are wanting in a guy ...are really seeing him as he is, or how you WANT him to be? Are you in love 'with the idea' of him?
Unless this fixation is keeping you from living your life, then fantasy is harmless and will gradually fade. Don't pass up what is under your nose and real for what never was. Live in the moment. [ maddiec123's advice column | Ask maddiec123 A Question ]
life_luv_music16 answered Wednesday February 25 2009, 3:17 pm: Just try and keep yourself busy. Eventually you will forget about him. Just spend extra time with your friends, maybe take on a hobbie or something. You WILL forget about him, dont worry! :^) [ life_luv_music16's advice column | Ask life_luv_music16 A Question ]
cuteblondegirl94 answered Wednesday February 25 2009, 2:41 pm: You'll forget about him soon.You could do something fun-like dancing,going to the gym,listening to music,reading,etc.Use that to keep your mind off of him,that helped me when I was in a similar situation.Hope it helps you too. [ cuteblondegirl94's advice column | Ask cuteblondegirl94 A Question ]
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