Hi! I'm a 14 year old freshman. I like to read books, hang out with my friends and i also love to cook! I love to also decorate things!!!! I love music and movies too! Some of my favoriet bands are Linkin Park, One Republic, Nickel Back, and 3 Doors Down. I really hpe everyone likes my advice!
Gender: Female
Member Since: February 5, 2009
Answers: 35
Last Update: March 13, 2009
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I am trying to combine two words together: human and vampire and I can't seem to come up with the right word that makes it sound like it is crused. If you can think of anything that would be really great, if not that's cool too. (link)
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Lets see...... how about humire? Or you could jut say Immortal Human. Hope that helps.
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Ok so im in my 1st year of college and i live on residence with 3 other girls.
The one girl is in my program and at the begining of the year we have been realy close. But now, she wont even speak to me. She tries to exclude me from everything possible. Ive even heard her talk about me behind my back to one of my other roomies and some classmates. Its not even like something was said or we got into a fight shes just gotten into some mood.
I cant talk to her becaus she wont give me the time of day and i have to live with her for another 2 months.
What do i do? (link)
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Maybe you could confrount her when you are both alone and make it impossible for her to leave without speaking to you (but without it being creepy like dont grab her or push her) or you could ask one of your other roomies to confrount her when your away and ask her if shes mad at you or something. But if nothing else works just say in a calm firm way that you dont know why shes mad at you but if you did anything to upset her that your sorry. Then after that just dont try to talk to her anymore until you or her moves out. If she starts talking to you again then calmly ask her why she was mad. I know it hurts to lose a friend but you did your part for apoligizing and you dont even know if you did anything or not. I hope things get better for you both.
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So I am getting a car for my birthday tomorrow and I wanted to know what kind of things that aren't kind of obvious that I should keep in my new car other then like oil, jumper cables, an ipod converter, and a cell phone charger?
It's a 1999 Camaro if that helps (: (link)
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What you should do is prepare for ANYTHING! Get a small box and put together sort of an emergancy kit. Like put in a flash light, if you live in a town where it snows than get an ice scrapper, spare key, things like that. Also keep a spare tire in the trunk. If your insurance covers a pop and lock service incase you lock your keys in the car, than put their number in your cell. If i think of anything else i'll let you know. :^)
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I've been really depressed lately, because I have less friends than I did last year, and I feel really ugly/
my family is broke, so I cant afford and clothes that are cute, and every one tells me Im bad at dressinggg :( cause my only clothes are from the beginning of the year.
And I just feel really REALLY ugly and everything! I need help :( Im so depressed about how I look, and my teeth, and hair, and makeup and clothes (mostly) (link)
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I'm so sorry about the way your feeling.
If you dont have to the friends you had last year, than its probably for a good reason. If they didnt bother to stay your friend, than they arent good friends in the first place.
There are different ways to make your clothes and accessaries like new again. you could try layering your tops. If you have like a casual strapless dress you could turn it into a high waisted skirt. You get what im saying? :^) A few years ago i HATED with a passion how i looked. I thought i was fat, had the worst clothes imaginable, and i had very low self confidence.
Now what can help your hair is to experiment with it. I'm not saying cut it super short or dye it pink. But like, for example, if you wear it in a pony tail all the time, then try waering it down or if you have your hair parted in the middle try parting it to the left or the right. With make-up, you dont have to wear a whole bunch to look decent. What makes you eye color pop is if you wear the color of eyeshadow thats opposite of your eye color. Like if you have brown eyes you could wear blue shadow.
I hope my ideas helped you but whats most important is that you realize that inner beauty is far more important than outer beauty. What can help you to feel better is to read this scripture in the bible 1 Peter 3:3, 4. Your personality is what matters most. The people that tell you that your bad at dressing yeah they may have the best clothes but their inner beauty isnt looking so good. I hope this helps you in anyway! :^)
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In two weeks I will be staying in Florida for 10 days.I have never been there before, i know its warm but i am still not really sure what all to bring. I will be staying at a resort along the ocean. what all should i pack?? (link)
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Well thats cool that you get to go to florida! I've never been to florida but i lived in the south ALL my life up until 3 years ago. Some things you should bring are....
-Bathing Suits (bring more than 1!)
-Tank tops
-Short Sleeve t's
-SHORTS! (or capris)
-Sandals
-Extra cash (you have to go shop!)
-Beach bags
-mp3 so you can listen to music. Also if you can get some portable speakers to plug into the mp3 if you have friends going. :^)
-Goggles if you plan to swim
-Camera (if you want to take pix under water, get a waterproof disposable camera!)
-Sunglasses
-Sunblock
-Beach Towel
-Cell Phone
-Cell Phone chrager
-And probably a hat. It will look good. I hope you have fun!!!!!!
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I'm trying to find a babysitting job but I don't really have any expirience with young children. I got a response to babysit a 2 year old boy from 9-5 3 days a week and I don't even know how to take care of a 2 year old! Do they need changed? Do they eat normal food? Do they talk? Please give me tips so I don't sound stupid asking the mother questions like that. (link)
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Some 2 year olds are potty trained and some arent. Usually the mother tells you things like that. Some do eat normal food though. Like cheerios and stuff like that. You could ask the mom what his favorite foods are. A lot of 2 year olds do talk. They are still learning to speak though so i suggest trying not to curse or say any words that the mother wouldnt like around him. He could easily pick it up. if you have more questions, dont hesitate to ask! :^)I hope this helps.
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i absolutely LOVE it when an awkward moment comes along.
unfortunately, my friends and i are too close to ever have anything be awkward.
so what are some things i can say to ANYONE that would make a situation akward!
please hurry, and give lots of examples!
thanks! (link)
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What you can do is go to someone that works in a store and just stare at them. When they ask if you need any help just calmly say "no". DO NOT LAUGH!!!!! If i think of anymore, i'll let you know! :^)
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I really want to go to bording school. My mom and dad think I'm really mean and I am, but it's beacause of my school. I hate it. The people are mean and bring out the worst in me which make me come home and be mean to my family. I really want to go into acting when I'm older. So what are some bording high schools in the U.S that are really good for not only school, but for theater. Thanks!
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Idk. i havent rally looked into bording schools but you can try and look up performing arts schools. A perfroming arts school ALWAYS has theater, or atleast they should. Hope i helped.
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14/f
Ok so I need more things to do with my friends. I mean on weekends. Like the most we do is go to the movies and then go over to my house or something afterward. What else could we do? We've had bday parties and pool parties and some movie thing where they came over and we watched movies. I don't always want to go to the movies. Sleepovers won't really work if we want to include everyone since we have guy friends too. I don't really want to spend so much money either. We usually go to a movie where its cheap like 7 dollars. Is there anything else we can do? Thanks! (link)
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For an average weekend you can do somethign a little different like do laser tag or go bowling. What you can also do is have a party with a theme Like the 70's. Everyone dresses up in 70's outfits and have 70's music and constantly play That 70's Show on your T.V. What you can also do is go roller or ice skating. You dont always have to have to have your guys friends with you. A sleepover is always fun. Have Fun!
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I HAD a problem. since i was 12 i started cutting. I dont know how to explain it to people that dont do it becuase its something you have to have gone through to understand. its like a drug i was addicted for 4 1/2 years, slowly killing myself. anyway everyone found out and i had to stop.
the question is like what am i supposed to replace it with. Ive tryed running writing (which is my passion) and everything in between. I just need some good advice as how to stop.
Please help, anything will be appreciated. (link)
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I know how cutting can be a drug. It is a drug actually. Someone i know used to cut when they were 5 years old.They stopped but its even hard for them now. If writting is your passion the you should that. Or you can take up a new hobbie. Also talk to someone you trust (like a parent, older sibling, mature adult). Have sort of a support system. That should really help you. You CAN beat this. Just belive in yourself. :^)
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14/f
I'm a freshman and I didn't do too good in middle school. Well I pulled it all together at the end and promoted to high school. I'm so scared that I'm gonna fail. Everything is easier said than done. But seriously, I've been so stressed out because of math. Mainly math and biology. If you look at me, people think I'm an A+ student. My grades aren't THAT bad but still. I had A's in PE and health. And English and French I had B's. But math and biology I have D's. I'm barely pulling this off and if I don't get this together I'm so afraid. For one thing, I'm afraid of my future. That's what scares me. I don't think I'll be able to amount to anything. I have low self esteem but I don't really feel like getting into that. I would talk to my teachers and everything but its just so confusing. I'm in the basic math, algebra, and second semester is always harder. I have these headaches and I'm pretty sure its coming from stress at school. I think I'm overreacting but everybody in school talks about their future, what they want to be, college, ect. I have no idea whatsoever. I don't know if I can make it to college. That's what I'm scared of, if I don't go to a college that my life wouldn't be as good as it could be. I know I'm in 9th grade but I don't want to go to summer school. I would try tutors but I never have the time. I have issues at home and really wouldn't make it after school. My biology teacher is so confusing, even if it was one on one I couldn't get it. Please help, thanks. I'm stressing too much over this. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel.I'm a freshman too and i did horrible in Math in middle school. But just because your not good at math and biology doesn't mean you wont amount to anything. Just do your best and i know this is the worst thing you can imagine but, Ask your teachers for help. I do and it helps you so much. Dont worry, you will be fine! :^)
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17/f
my boyfriend has been having some health problems this week with his heart and he's been in an out of the hospital and can't go back to school for a while but in the meantime he's stuck at home and has run out of things to do. He's tired and can't do any real physical activity so all he's been doing is sleeping, eating and watching tv and hes bored. I've been to his house everyday just to keep him company and watch movies with him.
I want to come up with some things for him to do.
Any activities that don't require a lot of movement or energy?? (link)
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I'm sorry to hear about your boyfriend. :^( I hope he gets better. Well, theres always video games. Some that are pretty addicting and VERY calm are Sims2 for PC, Havest Moon for Game Cube, and Animal Crossing for Game Cube. You both can also learn something new together. Like you can find a websute that teaches you how to play an instrument. Like you both can learn to play guitar or something. Thats all i got right now. Hope that helped. :^)
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ok i listen to acoustic and alternative stuff
for example , all time low and augustana and dashboard confessional
can someone help me out and give me good songs with one of these topics:
someone telling you your beautiful
being under the stars ?!
liking someone who lets just say isnt your boyfriend
loving someone whose far away
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That song 'Your beautiful' um i dont remember the guys name though. The song goes ' Your beautiful, your beautiful its true. I saw you face, in a crowded place. And i don't know what to do, because i'll never be with you.' Its about this guy who is in love with this girl that he saw once on a subway and he thinks shes beautiful. I hope that helps :^)
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im 16/f and share a room the size of a closet (when it has 2 occupants) with my 6 year old sister. thats a bit of a difference. i need my own room before i go crazy.
my mom says if i can give her $10,000 she''ll give the rest to make me a room.
how do i make 10,000 dollars ASAP?
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Well, um thats a lot of money. One idea is to get a job and dont spend 1 cent of the money you make and you should get the money in about a year. Make sure you find a job that pays $10,000 a year or more. Or what you can do is maybe think of other rooms in the house. Is there a basement you could use? Or an attic? Maybe you could save up some money to fix up those rooms. I really hope this helpes you any way possible.
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I've been searching the net for the easiest way to earm money for three months now, but i haven't found any. It's either i am not eligible or the offer is not available in my country. Please, isn't there any way i can earn money as a teen, without having to pay a cent, from my country, Nigeria? (link)
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Hi. First of all, i think its cool that i am giving advice to some one in another county! I'm from The United States of America. Anyway, i don't know what teens usually do for work in your country but in the U.S.A. teens usually watch other peoples children for a fee. Also we run errands for other people like going to get their groceries or maybe just picking up an item for them. I'm sorry to say this but most of the time there is no easy way to make money. Oh! Another thing you can do is tutor. You know like if you are good at a particular subject in school you can help others for a fee. If i come up with more ideas i will let you know. I hope i helped in anyway! :^)
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last week i went on a school trip, skiing, and there i met this guy; nothing happened. but now, i can't stop thinking about him!!! and theres no way of contacting him or anything. but i can't get him out of my mind!!! do have anything you think i could try to get him out of my head? (link)
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Just try and keep yourself busy. Eventually you will forget about him. Just spend extra time with your friends, maybe take on a hobbie or something. You WILL forget about him, dont worry! :^)
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17/F
I have known "Ashley" as an acquaintance for a couple of years. Last semester, we had an art class together, and we gossiped and talked a lot because we didn't know anyone else. I was never really close to her at all. However, at the beginning of the semester, I was very kind to her and invited her to hang out once in a while. I don't know how it happened, but now she won't leave me alone!
For instance, I invited her to my friend's swim meet, and she keeps calling it 'our thing' and she acts as if it had always been our thing (even though i used to go alone). She's constantly inviting herself to places with me. Like, today I had a movie date with my best guy friends, and she tagged along without bothering to ask any of us. I don't mind, but sometimes I'd like to bond with my best friends and when she feels left out, she mopes and tries to drag me around and play the pity card when she shouldn't have invited herself in the first place. My guy friends are getting annoyed with her too, because she's constantly trying to be their friend and tries too hard. One of them said, "It's actually creepy how much she tries/wants to be like you." She also has crazy mood swings and when she feels left out, she thinks everyone's out to get her and that everyone's being bitchy towards her (when in actuality it's more of a "don't tell everyone someone's private business" sort of thing)
I'm getting SO annoyed, but i don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but she is not giving me enough space and I feel suffocated, and I'd hardly consider her a close friend. (link)
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This is going to be hard but when your going to do something with a friend and you don't want her to come you have to just tell her no. You have to let your YES mean YES and your NO mean NO. So you need to tell her that you just wanted to hang out with your guy friends, mean it. If she thinks your beng mean, just tell her in a polite but firm manor 'Just because i want time alone with my other friends doesnt make me mean.' If she doesn't want to be your friend then that might be a good thing for you. Hopefully she'll get the message and stop following you around. When she invites herself places just tell her agian that this was planned for you and (your friends name) only. I hope this helps :^)
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I'm in high school and back in middle school there was this girl who i really wanted to be friends with. i got lucky and in 7th grade she was in my homeroom. we got to be real good friends and hang out. now we're in high school and i haven't really talked to her a lot in years. I really wish we could be friends, but i don't see her much in school. Is there anything I can do? I don't want stupid answers like "talk to her" or "go say hi". (link)
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What you can do is watch which way she walks down the halls. Then one day just walk there and make sure she sees you. Then say enthusiasticly ' HEY! It's (say her name) right? long time no see! How have you been' Then go from there. Sometimes just saying hi or going to talk to her are the best ways be friends. Hope this helps! :^)
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well there are triplets that are all my friends. they have two girls and a boy. i like one of the girls a little better and when i want to invite just one on a sleepover i feel like i have to invite the other one because they'll know about it. what do i do? (link)
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Think about what you both like to do and what the others don't like to do. What you can do is ask the girl you like most if she wants to go do one of those things. That way the others automaticly don't wan to go! I hope this helped in any way! :^)
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i am a 14/f and i was wondering what are some things to do or say when people make fun of you or crack stupid jokes or try to make you feel bad?? like something that will make it seem like i dont care or can laugh along with it rather then something that will make me sound or look bitchy or like a total idiot (link)
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Being made fun of is no fun. But when you show signs if being hurt or like you want to cry, that just makes them feel like they accomplished what they wanted to accomplish and it will just continue. When someone says something mean(like you hair looks stupid) what to do is just roll your eyes and say 'Whatever'and walk away, like you didn't even acknowledge what they said and that you don't care. If you cant walk away (like if your in class or something)then ust turn the other direction and just ignore them. Seem confident, like what they sid didnt even bother you. I hope this helps you. :^)
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