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torn between 2!
im so confused.
this is kinda long.
im stuck between two guys and the thing is, i cant decide who i'd rather be with.
ok so guy number 1 i have liked on an off since last year. The thing about him is, there will be times when he talks to me, hints that he likes me, and goes and ignores me for a while. This had been happening on and off until a couple of weeks ago. I dont know how it happened, but he ended up telling me that he liked me. And then we pretty much totally opened up to each other. He told me all this stuff, for example
"Your pretty nice and attractice i think your gorgeous and you have a nice body"
he also said some other stuff like that 2.
however it seems like hes a totally different person while texting. in school he will sometimes walk right past me without saying hey and he doesnt seem like he is interested in me in when i see him. this was a week or 2 ago. then we started not texting as much and it seems like the whole cycle is starting over again....
except i will catch him staring at me sometimes and he will come up and talk to me again just when i convince myself hes not interested.
guy #2
ive been best friends with him for a couple years. only this year i started to actually like like him. i feel really comfortable when im around him not kinda awkward like i do with guy #1. and he is a great guy, and has an AMAZING body (not that that matters that much but still) i went over his house and we like flirted the whole time and it really seems like he likes me. PROBLEM, one of my best friends also likes him and they had a thing a while ago and she broke it off not him so im not sure if he would like her again. but it really seems like he likes me only i dont know for sure if he does. but he does text me a lot and wants to hang out again. and i have a feeling he does. only, i cant stop the feeling i have for guy 1. and i have a feeling if i went out with guy 2 then he would be really mad even though he doesnt make it seem like he's interested.
i really like guy 2 but i cant stop thinking about guy 1. and theres the whole thing with him and my friend
what should i do?!?!
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Dear torn between 2,
I know exactly how you feel, i have been in this situation. Guy #1 is a player most likley and he probably feels in controll of you its like he's a couch potato and your the remote or tv he can change you or turn you on and off whenever he wants. I feel like you have a better shot at guy #2 because he actually knows how to treat you and i would hate for a sweet guy like him (guessing) to get his heart broken by you if your going to get your heart broken for no reason and i think you know that your friend will be a little mad at first but just try to work something out but whatever you do even if you get mad dont say well he likes me and not you so i should be able to go out with him! because i dont think you want to lose your friend and its a stupid guy that you dont even know if you"ll last with but all i know is Guy#2 is more of a match for you and plus guy #1 is just going to do even meaner things to do while your dating! Guy #2 is way better to you and for you please even if your thinking about guy #1 just try and start thinking about guy #2s hot body!!!!
ITs your choice now and i hope i helped you in some way!
Kathryne!!!
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Here is your answer based on my own guy experience(I am a guy that is)
Guy #1 thinks youre cute and only wants you for your body.
Guy #2 is genuine and likes you. Go for him. Fuck Guy 1. (not litterally, i mean just dont go for him.)
Look at what you just wrote: "Your pretty nice and attractice i think your gorgeous and you have a nice body" There are 5 compliments there: and 4/5 are about how you look.
Yea, Guy#1 can go eat a dick.
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Forget about guy 1. Trust me if he just walks by you like that then he will so much worse in a relationship.
Guy 2 sounds better. Go to your friend and talk to her. Be honest and tell her how you feel about him and ask if she would mind. Then try to go out with this guy and get to know him better and then later on tell him how you feel.
If she nothing happens with guy 2 then I would start a new search.
Good Luck!
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Guy number one seems like a fake, no offense lol... If I were you, I'd go with number 2. But before you go with number 2.. talk to your friend. I know there's a girls rule of never dating a friend's ex.. but just ask her for her opinion, on whether she still likes him.. spill it all... and see how it goes. Good luck =]
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