okay so i just got out of a relationship and i still have feelings for the guy, but thats normal. he treated be badly and was a terrible bf. i keep daybreaming and thinking about what it would be like to have a good bf that i like alot and he lieks me and he treats me really good. i want to meet someone like that but i dont know how...is this normal?
babybword21 answered Monday March 2 2009, 11:33 am: Dear i like someone i dont know kinda,
This is very normal expecially for girls. We all want the perfect boyfriend and you can find one but he wont be perfect he'll be as close as there is. Guys are stupid but we still love them. I know how you feel before the boyfriend i have now i just dated any guy i thought was cute and then i realized that i wasnt actually atracted to them only my body was. Have you ever thought you liked a guy then realized you were only like sexually attracted or maybe you just liked it when he touched you?? well thats how i felt and then i stopped dating and just kept thinking and seeing the perfect guy for me in my head but then i realized that it wasnt helping that i was thinking of the guy that didnt exsist. Now look at me i'm ina great relationship and i love my boyfriend. SO yes what your doing is normal and i know your not really over your ex but instead of sitting around go out and have fun and who knows maybe you'll find that perfect guy while your doing it!
Samcia answered Sunday March 1 2009, 4:37 pm: It is very normal to set expectations for your future love. Otherwise you would not know what you want and could get packed into a relationship that you don't deserve. Respect yourself and be careful when giving someone the power to hurt you. Try to use good judgement.
You will meet the right person eventually. Probably when you are not even searching for them. [ Samcia's advice column | Ask Samcia A Question ]
Lynn_lushh answered Sunday March 1 2009, 4:17 pm: yes it is normal, and you are not alone there. there are many many great guys out there who will be able to treat you they way you want them to, but it isn't like they are just going to show up in front of your face the second you want them to. so don't rush, your prince charming is somewhere out there. there's a right place and time to find one. give it some time and eventually some time in your life you will find someone just perfect for you and one who will make you happy.:) [ Lynn_lushh's advice column | Ask Lynn_lushh A Question ]
coconutcatastrophe answered Sunday March 1 2009, 1:56 pm: hey i'm sorry things weren't good for you. yeah of course its completely normal...everyone deserves a good relationship. the best advice i can give you is try to get all of it out of your mind the best you can, and i swear the best things come when you least expect it...trust me on this one. [ coconutcatastrophe's advice column | Ask coconutcatastrophe A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Sunday March 1 2009, 1:15 pm: perfectly normal. especially girls who just came out of abusive relationships, some tend to start daydreaming about meeting "prince charming" and they especially after the bad relationship, have a yearning for a good love.
so yes. thats normal. and im sorry things were so bad for you. :(
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