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first?--->second?
okay everyone always tzlks about how sex hurts the first time but what about the second time? Is it painful or pleasurable? just somethingIm curious about... 13/F
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I lost my virginity oh, about 6 years ago. Personally i thought it wasnt a big deal. I was 16. But for me it hurt for the first 3 or 4 times. When the time comes for you take it easy. And make sure you have a nice caring guy and KNOW that you're ready.
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dear first?--->second?
i get that your curious and i totally understand and even if you do want to have sex that is your business and you don't have to tell anybody. By the way just to kinda answer your question half way, sex the first time doesn't always hurt,it all just depends it can be pleasurable. The second time again all just depends most likley it will be pleasurable but it really all just depends on you and positions and stuff like that. SO ya but i love how your so curious young people should come out about there curiousity like you.
Love,
Katheryne!
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If you want a completely honest answer, sex will not be "pleasurable" at age 13. I don't say that to be mean, its just that sex, like most things, is better with experience. Most 13 year old guys only know how to please themselves. Pleasing their partner is something they learn with experience. It most likely will not happen anytime soon.
First time sex is not always painful. A lot of the pain girls do experience is because they think it will hurt so they tense up. If a girl still has a hymen intact, it may hurt a little. Usually it is over quickly and not bad pain. Most girls have had their hymen broken already without even knowing it.
After the first time, while not necessarily pleasurable, it shouldn't hurt. There are cases where a girl with an extra thick hymen may not have had it completely torn away the first time. causing some pain after the first time. That is a rare thing though.
Always be sure a guy wears a condom. Having a baby, now THAT is painful! :)
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Don't have sex until you're ready and won't regret it, and are in deep love with someone!
Ha, sorry, I had to say it.
Sex wasn't unbearable for me, the first time. It was a little uncomfortable, but I didn't feel like I was dying or anything. It all depends on how 'warmed up' you are. After the first time, he got increasingly better with everytime I had sex.
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