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Getting out of the friend zone


Question Posted Wednesday September 29 2010, 11:39 pm

Me- 19/f
Him- 21/f

How do I get a guy to stop seeing me as a friend? If it helps, I've known him a few weeks and we've hung out once, but he constantly makes it clear that we're just friends. I don't think the problem is me, as he's mentioned multiple times that he thinks I'm hot/pretty, would make a great girlfriend, etc. Is there anything I can do?


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Additional info, added Thursday September 30 2010, 2:14 pm:
* I know for a fact he doesn't like anyone else and is over his ex, etc.

* I haven't told him I like him because quite honestly I'm shy and scared.
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nikz answered Thursday September 30 2010, 2:33 pm:
i understand exactly what you're going through because at the moment i'm going through the very same thing but if he made it clear to you that you guys are just friends then maybe you should stick to just being friends or if that won't do then try to do something pretty with your hair, get a new outfit or something like that and make him notice how attractive you really are try being sexy around him flirt once in a while and if he responds to this and shows you signs that he has feelings for you then thats your chance to tell him how you feel

good luck:)

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DoveBear9 answered Thursday September 30 2010, 1:55 pm:
Maybe he is not ready for a(nother) romantic relationship (yet). Maybe he is still attatched to another woman; and he's not open to truly liking other women like that.

Or if he does like you in a romantic way, maybe he is emphasizing that you are friends because he doesn't want you to be put off by him liking you, if he believes you may not like him the same way; and he doesn't want to ruin the friendship. I don't know if you made it clear to him that you like him like that or not... if so, maybe your clues were subtle enough to leave him unsure. And he may not want to assume you like him, or go out on a limb, to be shot down.

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