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is he interested? or am i just another groupie?
ok. so last week i went and attended a gig in a club, in which a small local band was playing. i had been talking to the lead singer since the week before the gig and he told me to make sure i came up and said hello. but once i got there, and he was on stage and we were looking at each other i realised just how nice and gorgeous he is. i kept saying to my friend "hes so out of my league.." anyways i went up and danced, he came down off stage and high fived me ahaha not even high fiving my friend next to me who had her hand up. anyways we went to the bar and we were standing there looking and smiling, but i started blushing so i turned around. nerves get the better of me i guess. Then my friends came over and i went outside. i told myself if he comes outside that i will go up and talk to him. i was in direct view of the staircase leading to the outside. The guy walked halfway down the stairs, looked at me and walked back inside. he continued to do this 3 times. i was confused as to why he didnt walk down. anyway we left, me still not having said a single word to him. i sent him a message on twitter that night saying "sorry i didnt come talk, i was waiting for you outside" to get a message back saying "aww im sorry too, i was trying to come outside and say hi but i get to nervous around pretty girls hehe next time for sure though?" now im going to his gig tonight and i am absolutely freaking out! because i dont know if hes interested and what not. it will be interesting because i told him i couldnt make it but now i can, i havent told him ill be there now so im using the element of surprise. so when i go up and get the guts to talk to him atleast i can say i had a change of plans and could make it :) do you think i should go for it? he seems so nervous and set on me making the first move. but im even more nervous! help?
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Aw band guys are my favorite!:) anyways, it defineitly seems like he is interested in you and wants to get to
know you! Be confident and talk to him, it sure seems like he wants to get to know you and is a shy nice guy. I've felt with band guys before. Since he's local, he isn't realy famous yet and probably doesn't really have a large fan base or groupies yet, and band guys who are only looking for sex, are straight to the point. They'll tAlk to you for a little bit, and then be like "hey wanna come check out the tour bus" sadly, my friend and I have both had this happen to us, but it's whatever, it happens. Usually only bigger bands will have the balls to do that. Bu local guys usually they don't. He seems nice, go for it:)
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