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Member Since: February 24, 2009
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Last Update: February 24, 2009
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so im 15 talking to a "school" counslor for my first time. she comes out for me on fridays and we talk. well i dont know what to say. i mean i requested her for my cutting and family crap and my doing things that i dont know im doing. so what should i do? thank all help is needed! (link)
I know how it feels talking to a school nurse for the first time about cutting or family problems. It feels scary at first because you have all these questions going round in youre head like what is she going to think or what is she going to say. But you tell her what you feel comfortable about and its not that scary when you get talking. When you have talked to her you will walk out feeling like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. Its not that scary believe me x


I HAD a problem. since i was 12 i started cutting. I dont know how to explain it to people that dont do it becuase its something you have to have gone through to understand. its like a drug i was addicted for 4 1/2 years, slowly killing myself. anyway everyone found out and i had to stop.
the question is like what am i supposed to replace it with. Ive tryed running writing (which is my passion) and everything in between. I just need some good advice as how to stop.
Please help, anything will be appreciated. (link)
Hiya,
I know exactly how you feel. I use to be a cutter myself and eveytime i look at me scars i think why did i use to do that but then i think i had problems. It is like a addiction i couldnt stop even when i had couciling i didnt stop. You have to try your hardest not to want to do it think of the people that care. I use to write poetry whilst listening to music and just write a poem how i felt. I thought that really worked. Try and find a hobby to do or when you feel like you want to cut just find a friend to talk to or distract yourself. I know its hard but i believe in you. Thats all i can say. You Can Do It!!




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