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hey one of my best friends recently told me that he liked me and i like him too and we always tell each other evrything and we always stay up talking so anyways he told me he liked me and i like him too! but he is my best friends boyfriend and he told me before he told me he liked me that he was gonna breakup with her and now he's telling me he wants to go out with me and so do i but i mean if we go out my best friend will hate me! what should i do??
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You might want t see if it's ok with your friend. Just ask her permission, to see if she's alright with you going out with him. If she says no, then you should probably wait a while and ask again, if you still like him.
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Best friends BOYFRIEND? Dont go there, ever. If you're friend finds out you knew he was going to break up with her, you'll lose her. Better to keep them both as best friends rather than risk losing them!
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i think you should explain this to the boy that likes you and to your best friend and see what they say because this is a decision you have to make
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You should talk to your best friend, and explain that you REALLY like this guy. Maybe she doesn't even like him that much. But if she says she still likes him, always remember: chicks before dicks!
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you have to think if this guy is worth it. you got to think is this guy really worth wasting a friendship for?? in my opnion MY FRIENDS come first then my CRUSH.... you need to back off this guy because he is (for the time beenin) ur best friends boyfriend. i mean i dont think you would like it if you were goin out with a guy and ur bestfriend liked him and he liked her and he broke up with you to be with her. i know that would get you very mad...hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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i was in the exact situation you are one time...me and my b/f had just broken up and my bestfriend made her move...we didnt talk for 6 months finally we started emailing eachother and i wrote her a poem about how we shouldnt let guys come between us...best friends last forever but boyfriends come and go
-kT
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Just tell him to wait for about 2 months. That is enough time for your best friend to get over the shock. After that, go out with him, and your friend, if she is your friend, will accept it as is. That way, it doesn't seem like you stole him from her.
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Hey,
This is what you should do. You should first tell your friend how you feel about him and if she doesn't feel like it's ok or if she still has feelings for him y'all should just remain friends until further notice. Tell the boy how you feel about him when you're done talking to your friend.
Good Luck,'Advicegodesses2
P.S.Write back and tell me how my advice was and if it helped.
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well, you could always tell your best friend the truth about how you feel about him. I mean if you REALLY like him it shouldnt matter whether or not your friend likes him becuase you obviously do. Another thing you could do if you dont want to lose your friend is to just not go out with him or wait a couple weeks after the breakup and then tell your friend how you feel and then see what she says.
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