Okay, I'll be honest here: I'm so jealous of a friend of mine. She has something that makes everybody like her in SOME way.
All the guys like her, which is one of the prime reasons I'm jealous. A guy I like always hangs around her and I think that he likes her (She knows I like him; She doesn't like him like that).
It's so frustrating, because I'll be hanging around her and then everyone will swarm around her and ignore me. It makes me feel so inferior to her, and it's come to the point where it's hard for me to hang around her anymore. What can I do? Thanks!
pyromaniac911 answered Friday October 7 2005, 12:46 am: No offense, but your friend sounds like a conformist. Nobody can be liked by EVERYBODY. When you feel like you're being ignored, try to find some other person to talk to until the swarm of people leaves her. [ pyromaniac911's advice column | Ask pyromaniac911 A Question ]
emster812 answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 5:36 pm: I have this problem to. DO NOT try to be an exact copy of her just so boys will like you. Pretty soon you will get tired of putting on the act and you feel guilty b/c he doesn't know the real you and you are being a fake.
Be yourself- someone will come along, just be as unique and independent as you can be in your own way.
You should also talk to your friend about it. If the other twqo things dont work for you, you might try asking for some tips from your friend if she has anything to say.
Ta- Ems ;) [ emster812's advice column | Ask emster812 A Question ]
KraziMisty15 answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 5:03 pm: i have those problems all the time, i get wicked jealous. what i do is don't let it bother me, or i talk to her..most of the time i try to be like her...but it doesnt work so dont try thatt one! just try to talk to her or dont let it bother you. theres really no way you can change the way other people think of her. sorry. well i hope i helped a little.
aDrii_bAbiix7Ox answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 4:47 pm: i think that you sould deff hang out with her one day and talk to her. tell her that you dont like it when she ignores you when people come to her.
if you cant even hang out with her..you should think about your relationship with her. ask yourself questions like...
----should i be friends with her if she ignores me?
----should i tell her how i feel?
stuff like that.
inbox me if you have any more questions!
hope i helped..
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