Gender: Female
Location: Dracut
Age: 15
Member Since: April 28, 2005
Answers: 28
Last Update: May 11, 2008
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so i have a girlfriend, and i just moved in like december. i met this girl and i kinda liked her but not really, alot of people said she was a slut. she got into trouble for fighting in school and she cant come back for a while, and .. now she's moving to a different state. i hangout with her bestfriend in school alot, and not for long after school. i dont know if i want to tell her or not because i dont know how she'll react. what should i do? (link)
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well if you have a girlfriend it doesn't really matter how this girl reacts or if you tell her at all because you clearly don't want anything with her. and you say a lot of people say shes a slut, but how do you know for sure if people are just saying this stuff? you can't always believe what everyone says.
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So, this guy really likes me, and I really like him a lot. He's amazing, and instead of him calling me "hot", He tells me I'm beautiful, incredible, amazing ect. And I love it, he makes me SO happy.(: But, he always asks "Wanna hang out?(:" and I always say yes becuase I really do, but then at the last minuet, I find myself making up things to get out of it. I still don't know why. My friend asked me the same thing! And I just realized, I have no idea. She thinks it has something to do with my dad leaving when I was like two, and I never got to know him. But I have no idea. Help? (link)
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You're probably just nervous and you're not ready for commitment, your always probably worried that if fall too hard for this guy, then he might get up and leave like your dad did. I have the same problem, I'm always scared I'm going to get too close to someone, and they'll walk away from me just like my parents did. It's a scary thing but all you can really do is open up to this guy and hope for the best.
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How do you know when a girl gets horny or not (link)
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How can you not tell? She'll most likely be wet, some girls even twitch around a little. She'll move her hips around, probably be all over you. It honestly depends on the girl.
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15/f
so me and my guy wanna fool around in his car. like no sex! but like fooling around. but these are the questions i have
-where should we park the car
-in the front or back seat
-what types of things should we do?
thank you guys! (link)
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you honestly shouldn't have sex in a car, because cops drive around and even if the car is foggy they will come up to your car and you can get into a lot of trouble. trust me i'm 15/f also, and its happened, i had to have my guardian come get me and it was really embarrassing sitting there naked with the cops watching you get dressed.
if your going to do it, be reallyy careful where you chose to it, try to do it where there are a lot of trees around, and its dark out.
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ok so i have 2 guy friends. and i like both of them a lot. A LOT, A LOT. and they both like me back, allegedly.
and so i really dunno which one to choose. i like them both equally. and i can see myself staying with both of them a real long time.
so how do i choose which one? cuz both seem pretty upset that i cant choose. and they both no that i like both. and im afraid that they are going to gain up on me one day and be all "choose between us, now!"
:( (link)
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You need to stop playing with these guys heads and chose one of them or neither of them, it's not fair to either of them.
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so I'm going to try to make this as short as possible...here it goes:
there are two guys guy #1 and 2...
#1: He is nice to me, incredibly sweet (although none of my friends or family like him and he's not very attractive), but in school (and outside of school) I never see him. So, when we are passing in the hallway or see eachother at lunch it is sooo awkward because we only talk on AIM and text, and we just like don't say anything. Well, he asked me out once, and then told me he liked me another time, and I told him I liked him too (because I do) and then he asked me if I would ever go out with a guy like him...and I said not until things becaome less awkward for us. sooo he dropped the subject and it's been weeks since he brought it up. I flirt with him a lot on text, but he can be a liar. so anyways, he brought up the subject again, but I might be liking another guy now.
#2. He is more attractive than guy #1, I talk to him at lunch (in school and on text) my friends like him, my family does too, but we nver hung out outside of school. He is tall and makes me laugh, and my friends are trying to set me up with him,, telling me how cute we are and everything, but he sends mixed signals. and I don't think he likes me as a gf, just a friend, but I'm not really sure. It's really confusing. We never talked about our relationship and whatnot, so I don't know who to like.
Can anyone help me out? comments and opinions would be greatly appeciated. thanks a bunchh. (link)
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How can you possibly not understand who to like? Guy #1 seems like a really huge asshole, and completely immature, and if your only going to talk to guys at school and through AIM and text than your probably not ready to commit to a REAL relationship in the first place. You need to hang out with these guys more and not make things so awkward because those are the reasons why they are. If your family and friends don't like the guy you like then he's obviously not good for you, they're the people that know you the most and they should know whats good for you, which he's clearly not.
sorry its the truth!=)
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ok im 15 now and i don't know if theres something
wrong with or what because ive only dated people on the internet its like nomatter what i do i can't seem to get a boyfriend . its not like i want to date someone o just be with someone i only want tto date people who care about me and are interested in what i have to say. so my question is why isnt any guy interested in me ?
because im like outgoing and stuff im in the 9th grade now and im gettin worried that i'll never find a guy so if anyone can give me any tips or anything that would be great thankies. (link)
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Stop trying to look for a guy, and let him come to you. You won't be single for the rest of your life, and dating guys on the internet and the stupidest thing you could ever do. Theres no point in it and it's also really dangerous because they could be 40 years old. If your outgoing than a guy will realize that one day. Stop worrying so much.
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me and this boy have been mates a long time - we started gettin realy close around xmas. about 4 weeks ago we were out with some friends and me and him went off because he was upset so i followed him - he told me he really liked me and we kissed. the next weekend we were out in town with everyone again and me and him went off and kissed again n sepnt lots of time alone together. during the week after that i found out him and this girl he used to like but they fell out were friends again - i asked if that was it and he said yes just friends - then i found out the next weekend they were together and kissed etc. he told me he didnt know who to choose. in the end he said he just wanted tp be friends. the next week at a party i got drunk and got upset because he was there and i was crying and he follwed me n talked to me tried t make me happier but also said i had to try get over him. later that night me and another guy got together. the guy i like later said we needed to talk - he said to be careful with the guy i got with that night - i asked why and he said he was jelous, then he kissed me. the next mornin he said that what happened that night between us had to be forgotten. so over the next week i tried to get over him and i thought i had - i sa whim yesterday and relised i havn't we were talking etc like friends but i really like him and i do not know what to do!!!
sorry for the essay there but i really need help and i really really like him!! what can i do??
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If this guy is going to go and kiss you, then the next few days go and kiss a girl that he used to like why would you still like him? He's not a good guy, and he's trying to play both of you. You need to confront the girl he used to like and tell her that you two kissed and that he said he was jealous of the guy you met the night you were drunk. You can't just forget a kiss, it doesn't work that way. You two clearly can't just be friends if you keep falling for him again, and end up kissing. It's not fair to the other girl, or you.
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I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance? (link)
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Why would you ever even think about giving this guy another chance? YOUR WHO YOU ARE! This guys a completely idiot not to mention younger than you! You should be telling him how it is! If he's not happy with how you are then don't bother! He's not worth your time!
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ok there is this guy i like a lot and we went out in like 3rd grade ;but this year he went out with one of my best friends and he promised me if they broke up he would ask me out but then he went out with my ex friend but he told me that he still loves my friend after i told him how i felt about him so ypu think ypu could help out a lil??? (link)
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Okay, what grade are you in? You and this boy went out in 3RD grade! That means nothing now, and if a boy promises to go out with you and that makes you happy then there's seriously something wrong there. This boy seems like an immature 10 year old player, and if you keep chasing after him your no better than he is. He clearly can't make up his mind about which girl he likes, so why bother with him if he's going to treat you like that?
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so there is this girl in all my classes that im not really friends with.well shes been going with this boy for like a year who went to our school last year but left this year.they still go out but i swear she doesnt act like it.there is this boy in one of my classes that she always use to ake to pick her up(like a hug).well i started to like him and he deff didnt like that girl as more then maybe a friend.i asked him out and he said yes.so we go out now and the hugging between them has stopped ofcoarse.now she keeps making these comments like he was my man first or he told me he liked me better then you and all this other crap which ofcoarse isnt true.then on valentines day she comes up to me and tells me that my bf got her a valentines gift and its her locker and i was like whatever you say!then she was like no im serious he did(which he didnt)!then i just walked away!well the other day my bf tells me that way before we went out she had put her hand on his penis.he jumped up all shocked and she just laughed!i was just like what a slut!!!i mean she has a bf and i just wish she would stop messing with mine!!!i just feel like telling her off the next time she makes a comment about my bf again.i just so badly want to say"dont you have a bf,well then why the hell do you keep messing with mine"!!!its just so fustrating!can someone please tell me how to deal with this before it goes to far!!!thanx!!! (link)
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From the way it sounds, this girl is REALLY immature. You should either tell her boyfriend about what shes been doing, or you need to do something yourself. Stop thinking about it so much, and stand up for yourself and your boyfriend. This girl is ridiculous and is trying to mess up your relationship or start stupid immature drama that you don't need, and you need to say that to her.
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I've been in this relationship with my boyfriend for nearly three years now. I'm 18, he's 22. I'd like to call it serious, but it's the first relationship I've had that I would even consider calling it serious, so I don't know for sure.
My question is this: when, if at all, would be a good time to talk to him about the future? I mean it's pretty obvious we're going to be together a long time. Since we're both in college now, I feel like it would be a good idea to at least have some general outline for the future of our relationship, as in whether we're going to get married or not and basically what our future goals are.
Of course I don't want to put things in stone, but I've wanted to talk about this with him for awhile and I just don't know if it's a good time.
Early in our relationship, like pretty much all couples do, we would talk about our house and kids and stuff, but only in a cute way and I don't consider that as being serious.
Advice? Similar situations? (link)
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If this guy feels about you the same way you feel about him, than he is probably thinking the same exact way you are, and any time is right to talk about the future. The future is always a day ahead. Just bring it up, it's not like he'll leave you for talking about it right? What do you have to lose?
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Okay, now most people who are going to read this, i dont really know how to word what im saying, but hopefully you'll be able to understand my situation.
now my problem is i feel weird around my parents, when im getting closer and closer with the boyfriend that i have, that they dont know about.
let me fill you in about my relationships with my parents & boyfriend. okay with my parents- im closer with my dad. hes really cool, like he's protective and cautious, but he knows when he needs to just lay off. he also is really smart, and helps me with alot of sticky situations. and my mom, im usually in that "mom leave me alone, im not in the mood. go away" phase, but shes pretty cool. but she can also be a little to noisy, and protective.
& my boyfriend, he really likes me. more then i like him. which is okay, i guess. hes extremely sweet, and respectable.
okay, back to my problem.
i feel kind of weird when we talk about our feelings for each other, like im kind of betraying my parents. i love my parents, but for some reason i just do not want to tell them i have a boyfriend. its just weird. and i do not want to tell them. so whenever my boyfriend and i get closer and closer, i just get a weird feeling like i shouldnt be with him. i dont know why i get that feeling, so i was hoping you could tell me what you think. i need some really good advice here, i dont know what to do.
i feel weird when it comes to boyfriends-family.
help?!
thank you guys (link)
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I'm not going to lie, by how you explained your situation, I think your a little too immature to even have a boyfriend if you can't tell your parents about him. It's not fair to your boyfriend or to your parents, and if you really liked this boy, than you would tell your parents about him. If your really that worried about what your parents are going to say than don't even bother being with him, because you clearly don't care about him that much.
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Im moving in the beginning of June to another state hours away. The main problem (besides everything else!!) is that I'm leaving my boyfriend. We have been best friends for a couple years and recently started dating. We really love each other and I think i might even be falling in love with him! i dont know what to do because i cant imagine leaving and being single because i would still love him. we dont want to go long distance in case it messes up our friendship so we were going to break up but how can i do that when i love him? Soo what would you guys do?? we are in high school so its not like we can just go see each other-i would only see him a couple times a year. But if i were to go and date other guys in my new state how would i do that and be fair when I still loved my ex? And how would i deal with not dating him when i love him? I knowim young but he and i just really have a great friendship and relationship and we are in a serious relationship. I want to be with him for months to come and June is coming too, too soon. Please help! thanks in advance :) (link)
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You honestly can't do anything about it, besides move on. If I were you just stay single for a while, keep talking to him, and both of you will move on eventually and realize that its actually not the end of the world without each other. Your only in highschool and you are going to meet a lot of other boys. Especially at a new school full of guys that you know nothing about it. If you look at in this way, it could be really exciting. A whole new world of boys that you can find a new one in. You will get over him eventually, I promise.
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In life, I like to be polite to everyone. This has become a problem because whenever I hang out with my guy friends. At least one of them starts to like me and think that I like them back. I really try not to act flirty but its getting to the point where I'm losing my guy friends after having to turn them down. Its really bothering me, I miss just being friends with them. What do I do? (link)
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It's not your fault that they start to like you, you should also try not to flirt with them because they probably take it as your leading them on then just changing your mind. You need to tell them that thats not what you were trying to do, and all you want is to be friends with them.
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hi my friend thinks she is pregnant and i dont know what to do or to say to her and she is 1 of my best mates plz help me (link)
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You shouldn't worry about it until you know for sure, and you really can't say anything specific besides that your there for her.
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well there is a guy that likes me and i like him back. we are both 16. but he wont do anything about it and im not really sure what to do about it either because i like to play hard to get and i think it is the guy's place to go after the girl but at the same time i really like this guy so i dont know what to do. this really hasnt happened to me before...we arent that close, but we have a few of the same friends and we talk just as friends whenever we see each other (link)
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you can't always have the guy chase you because sometimes the guy plays that game too. if you really like this guy you should go after him first, switch it up a little. if you go after him, maybe you can play hard to get after you already have him. and if you have some of the same friends, that works out even better because you guys can all hang out together!
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im 14/f, and i really like a few guys. So:
guy 1- he is nice, sweet, funny, has a job (DJing) easy to talk to and hes adorable. I liekd him for a year and asked him out before, but he said no, but that was like two years ago. Well i was crushed by him, but i got over it and now were really close but im starting to like him again and my friend tells me he likes me but idk because he always liked this girl, but wont admit it.
Guy 2- Hes sooo cute, funny, fun to flirt with and be around, and he just takes my breath away. The problem is my friend told me he told her he likes her, but i dont believe my friend because shes always lieing but i dont want to be a bad friend and be like wtf i bet he didnt.
Guy 3- He is cute, funny, and called me beautiful. He doesnt really hang out with my group and i'd be his first gf, but hes adorable!
Guy 4- hes funny, but kinda annoying and really lieks me, everyone thinks so, and he is cute.
so those are the reasons i like ALL these guys.
I dont want to like 1 because im afraid to get hurt. I dont want to like 2 because of my best friend. I dont want to like 3 because i would never see him (dif friends and classes). I dont want to like 4 because a lot of my friends hate him. Which one should i use all my attention to, and try to get to go out with? i know you dont know them, but i really want a bf, and dont want to spend all my time thinking about 4 guys and losing them all. THanks!! (link)
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As for guy 1, if your honestly THAT scared to get hurt, why bother taking the chance? & how do you know he's always liked this girl if he never admitted it? You can't always believe what you hear.
Guy 2, honestly, if your bestfriend is always lying to you, she's clearly not a good bestfriend. Why would she lie about something like that if she knew you were thinking about having something with him?
Guy 3, if he doesn't hang out with your group it might cause problems because your friends might not accept him, so I would think about that a little more before you get any further into it. Also, it's always hard being with a guy who has never had a girlfriend, then he doesn't know how to act, or how to be in a relationship.
Guy 4, if hes annoying theres no possible way you could be in a long term relationship with him because you would get sick of him.
In my perspective, take a chance with guy number one. Good luck!
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Ok there is this guy who really likes me and wants to get to know me. I am not really interested in to him but I would like to be just friends. But when I am just friends with a guy who likes me, I always flirt. And I can't help it. I don't know when I flirt and when I want to I don't. It is just how I am. The guy always thinks I like him so then he asks me out and I say no cause I want to be just friends. So they are confuesed. But this guy is nice and funny but I want to be just friends. I know I will flirt but how do I get him to know I just want to be friends but without huring his feelings and stuff? (link)
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The only thing you can do is tell him. Tell him your just a flirty person and you don't want him to take it the wrong way.
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My girlfriend and I broke up today. We are both 15 and have been going out for over 11 months. To me that is a long time to have a relationship with someone then just break up. The break-up itself happened with her dumping me, but later on she wanted to try to make things work, and make things better again. The problem is i kindof rejected it. I love her still, and i would be happy with going back out with her. But i look into the future and say to myself,"once the begining of this break up is over and the hard times are done, i know i wont have to deal with any girl problems, i can do whatever i want, etc. NO problems period". Right now i am deciding to take my own advice and keep broken up. Its hard. So, advicenator viewers, PLEASE HELP ME ON HOW TO GET OVER HER, PLEASE GIVE ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO GET THROUGH THE HARD TIMES. AND ALSO REMIND ME OF THE BENIFITS OF FINALLY BEING OVER HER. Please just tell me the things i want to hear, but that are true at the same time. Also, she is hurt that i rejected her trying to get back together, which also makes it hard on me. I dont like the fact that i basically broke her heart......Thanks to all that help me out:-) (link)
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I noticed that you didn't give a reason why you broke up so if you did that would help a little more. I was just in this position, and the only thing you can really do is move on to someone else, you don't want a girlfriend, so just fool around with other girls. Maybe gain feelings for someone else, and it will help you not think about your ex as much.
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