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Moving!
Im moving in the beginning of June to another state hours away. The main problem (besides everything else!!) is that I'm leaving my boyfriend. We have been best friends for a couple years and recently started dating. We really love each other and I think i might even be falling in love with him! i dont know what to do because i cant imagine leaving and being single because i would still love him. we dont want to go long distance in case it messes up our friendship so we were going to break up but how can i do that when i love him? Soo what would you guys do?? we are in high school so its not like we can just go see each other-i would only see him a couple times a year. But if i were to go and date other guys in my new state how would i do that and be fair when I still loved my ex? And how would i deal with not dating him when i love him? I knowim young but he and i just really have a great friendship and relationship and we are in a serious relationship. I want to be with him for months to come and June is coming too, too soon. Please help! thanks in advance :)
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You honestly can't do anything about it, besides move on. If I were you just stay single for a while, keep talking to him, and both of you will move on eventually and realize that its actually not the end of the world without each other. Your only in highschool and you are going to meet a lot of other boys. Especially at a new school full of guys that you know nothing about it. If you look at in this way, it could be really exciting. A whole new world of boys that you can find a new one in. You will get over him eventually, I promise.
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wow...this is a really heartbreaking story! so let me tell you what i would do... i wouldnt give him up...if youre in love why lose it just cuz ur moving? if its real you guys will make it through! but you both gotta want to...you both gotta WANT to make it work long distance...
i go to school in wisconsin and my boyfriend lives in california! its so hard being away from him and im sad that i can pysically be with him but we have phone, internet, texting... and i cant imagine my life without him in it... and i think the distance is actually making us stronger! i think its really good for the relationship! i love him so much and i just know that if youre really truly in love you dont want to just give up because of distance...you want to work at it because you want him...and if its meant to be, things are going to work out in the end :) but most importantly, do what your heart is telling you to do!
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