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I broke up with my girlfriend......
My girlfriend and I broke up today. We are both 15 and have been going out for over 11 months. To me that is a long time to have a relationship with someone then just break up. The break-up itself happened with her dumping me, but later on she wanted to try to make things work, and make things better again. The problem is i kindof rejected it. I love her still, and i would be happy with going back out with her. But i look into the future and say to myself,"once the begining of this break up is over and the hard times are done, i know i wont have to deal with any girl problems, i can do whatever i want, etc. NO problems period". Right now i am deciding to take my own advice and keep broken up. Its hard. So, advicenator viewers, PLEASE HELP ME ON HOW TO GET OVER HER, PLEASE GIVE ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO GET THROUGH THE HARD TIMES. AND ALSO REMIND ME OF THE BENIFITS OF FINALLY BEING OVER HER. Please just tell me the things i want to hear, but that are true at the same time. Also, she is hurt that i rejected her trying to get back together, which also makes it hard on me. I dont like the fact that i basically broke her heart......Thanks to all that help me out:-)
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I noticed that you didn't give a reason why you broke up so if you did that would help a little more. I was just in this position, and the only thing you can really do is move on to someone else, you don't want a girlfriend, so just fool around with other girls. Maybe gain feelings for someone else, and it will help you not think about your ex as much.
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Generally, if you were in a good relation ship and it sounds like you were, it takes about half the time you two were going out for you to get over her. That's the average.
The best way to get her off your mind? Occupy yourself by doing the things you like.
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Honestly , We cant give you advice because getting over someone will most definatly take time. Maybe its not time to move on . Personaly i think you should give it another time. Maybe she just had an off day , atleast she tryed to make things better. Yes , you wont have GIRL problems but you'll find your self missing her and wishing you had a girl [ i bet you ] . Its just something that you have to make the choice on your own.
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