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So Confused I Really Like Him and Don't Know What To Do?
me and this boy have been mates a long time - we started gettin realy close around xmas. about 4 weeks ago we were out with some friends and me and him went off because he was upset so i followed him - he told me he really liked me and we kissed. the next weekend we were out in town with everyone again and me and him went off and kissed again n sepnt lots of time alone together. during the week after that i found out him and this girl he used to like but they fell out were friends again - i asked if that was it and he said yes just friends - then i found out the next weekend they were together and kissed etc. he told me he didnt know who to choose. in the end he said he just wanted tp be friends. the next week at a party i got drunk and got upset because he was there and i was crying and he follwed me n talked to me tried t make me happier but also said i had to try get over him. later that night me and another guy got together. the guy i like later said we needed to talk - he said to be careful with the guy i got with that night - i asked why and he said he was jelous, then he kissed me. the next mornin he said that what happened that night between us had to be forgotten. so over the next week i tried to get over him and i thought i had - i sa whim yesterday and relised i havn't we were talking etc like friends but i really like him and i do not know what to do!!!
sorry for the essay there but i really need help and i really really like him!! what can i do??
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If this guy is going to go and kiss you, then the next few days go and kiss a girl that he used to like why would you still like him? He's not a good guy, and he's trying to play both of you. You need to confront the girl he used to like and tell her that you two kissed and that he said he was jealous of the guy you met the night you were drunk. You can't just forget a kiss, it doesn't work that way. You two clearly can't just be friends if you keep falling for him again, and end up kissing. It's not fair to the other girl, or you.
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ok to be completely honest, is that drinking and getting drunk is not the solution to your problems. whether you were stressed or not. and another, is that you need to forget him. why be with someone who is just going to cheat on you and then play stupid mind games and keep running back to you? hes stupid. just leave him alone.
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I completely understand you, but you do need to try and get over him. Being that its hard to remain friends with him, while still having feelings. You should let him know how you feel and that you're in pain every time you're around him.
See what he'll say. If he really cares, he would let you know that you two shouldn't communicate anymore, or at least until you're completely over him.
If he wants to still be around you, you must let him know that the friendship can not be as serious, or spending to much time together.
Do you see what I mean?
I hope you do get over him, that other guy is who you should be focusing on right now. So what if he's jealous, you're no longer together. You have every right to move on.
Go on girl, move on...
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