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dating/boy trouble
ok im 15 now and i don't know if theres something
wrong with or what because ive only dated people on the internet its like nomatter what i do i can't seem to get a boyfriend . its not like i want to date someone o just be with someone i only want tto date people who care about me and are interested in what i have to say. so my question is why isnt any guy interested in me ?
because im like outgoing and stuff im in the 9th grade now and im gettin worried that i'll never find a guy so if anyone can give me any tips or anything that would be great thankies.
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theres nothing wrong with you except for the fact that your trying far to hard. stop searching for a reletionship. when its meant to happen it will and for the meantime the whole interent dating probally isnt the best way to go. but the fact that those are the only reletionships you've had says a lot. most likely your probally just self-conscience about the way you look and you just feel more comfortable talking to people sitting behind your computer screen rather than face to face and intill you can accept yourself for the way you are, your probally not ready for a real relationship anyhow.
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Stop trying to look for a guy, and let him come to you. You won't be single for the rest of your life, and dating guys on the internet and the stupidest thing you could ever do. Theres no point in it and it's also really dangerous because they could be 40 years old. If your outgoing than a guy will realize that one day. Stop worrying so much.
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In order to see your personality they have to see past ur looks. Weather you are ugly or pretty. but being pretty you will be apealing to guys so they will take interest in you. boys your age dont really think about personality. So if i were u i would make sure i look good when i go to school and then when a guy takes interest in you then you can show him your personality. when you get older it wont be as hard because guys wont be as immature but for now thats what you gotta do.
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May I offer some advice, ifI'm correct, u r 15, in 9th grade and are worried about dating. the problem I see, is there is nothing wrong, save one little thing, these things take time. you must learn to be patinet, there is many fish in the sea, if you don't find someone today, then look tomarrow, keep on doing this till come to the end.
I'll give my voice of warring, do become desprite. when that comes one usely falls into something they'll regreat 4 the rest of their lives.
in High school, just have fun, don't worry about having a relationship, I knew I guy, spent all 4 years and never really and a gf, so don't worry, he was the one of the happiest kids in the school.
I wish the best 2 u
Sinserly Shadowfox
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trust me nothings wrong with you. i'm in 10th grade and i haven't had a boyfriend at all. it is ok to like want someone to be your boyfreind and for someone to want to listen to you. You probally think that nobody is interested in you but they might be shy and not want to admitt the fact that they like you. People get scared and they don't wnat to tell the people that they like. So if you see a guy lookin at you or giving you some signals then just go up to him and start a conversation and see waht happens. And trust me, there is a guy out there for everyone, just it happens faster for people then others. Good luck and i hope you find someone soon!!
~sealgirl~
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My advice: Stop worrying.
Honest. When you excessively worry about this, it shows sometimes and that can be a big turn-off for guys. Sooner or later the right guy will come along sweetie. You just have to be patient. It's nothing to beat yourself up over. Just be flirty and true to yourself and you'll be fine.
Here's a website that gives you some flirting tips:
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Good luck with they guys!
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Take your time, it might not even be you.
Most guys are not striaght forward, while others are still trying to decide who they see themselves with.
Keep enjoying your life, you're still young. Enjoy your freedom while you still have it, being in a relationship can stop you from doing certain things...
Mostly, worry about school, getting a job, etc. Then maybe you can figure out what to do after that.
Sometimes its also where you meet a guy? That happens a lot, so start chilling in different locations.
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