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torn. so damn torn.
ok so i have 2 guy friends. and i like both of them a lot. A LOT, A LOT. and they both like me back, allegedly.
and so i really dunno which one to choose. i like them both equally. and i can see myself staying with both of them a real long time.
so how do i choose which one? cuz both seem pretty upset that i cant choose. and they both no that i like both. and im afraid that they are going to gain up on me one day and be all "choose between us, now!"
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I do this when ever I can't choose between two things. Lie to yourself and say your going with one guy and see how you would feel, and then act like your choosing the other guy and see how you would feel.
Hope I helped
♥Massie
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who would blame them if they wanted you to choose? put yourself in their position, how would you feel if the person you liked claimed they like you back but before settling down would like to explore other options first, possibly even with your friend? you'd probally feel pretty confused and they have ever right to be upset. your toying with their heads and their emotions.
and after looking at it from their prospective, you should probally seriously think about what or who you really want. are you really ready for a reletionship with either of them when youre having to put this much thought into who you want more? and if you still feel you do, think about the certain qualites one may that the other doesn't and what initially attracted you to both of these guys in the first place. and as lame as it sounds, you could maybe even try a pro/con list, which guy has more pros than cons? and after you have really put some serious thought into this if you've still yet to decide i suggest you should just talk to each of them about how you feel before you lose them both.
goood luck!
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Ok I feelz you girll because I've been put in soooooo many situations like that. So i'm not going to tell you to just pick neither because I can't tell you what to do, it's your decision, but what I can suggest is that you sit them both down one at a time and ask them how they feel about. Then hopefully you can make your decision based on their answers. Hope I helped
keep me updated :-D
-Courtney
Oh also. The guys below me need to shut their faces! Haha they probably never been in a situation like that!. :-D Lame-Osz
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You need to stop playing with these guys heads and chose one of them or neither of them, it's not fair to either of them.
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Maybe you should chose neither. It's really unfair of you to put these guys through this. How would you feel if they were doing this to you? Say they couldn't decided between you and some other girl? I think it would hurt your feelings. Just give that some thought.
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There's no easy way for you to get out of that situation. You could always just go with the "whoever asks first" theory... or you could agree to hang out with both, to see if you want to get more serious.
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