So this kid found out that i thought he was hot about a few months back. we never really talked in person but he asked me to hangout, but we never really did and stopped talking within like 2 weeks. (and he had a new girlfriend like the next day). Now, for about a little over a month, hes been talking to me again. and like aims me ALL the time and still wants to hangout and shit. i see him in school and smile and say hey whats up and stuff, but we dont really have time for conversations.
At first i thought he only wanted to like hookup, and i told him i was cool by that, but just tell me what he really wanted so i dont start liking him and get hurt. but it turned out he wants to date me.
However, he still trys to talk to sooo many other girls. so i dont know if hes only talking to me to get some because he cant find it anywhere else, even though he's trying so hard to talk to all these other girls?
im sooo confused. he seems really nice. i asked him why he wanted to date me if we could just hookup instead, and he said because "we have alot in common, get along great, and because hes really attracted to me". he said he "wants to do right by me" haha what does that mean?!
i have no clue how to take this, like, why is he still trying to talk to so many other girls then?
then i thought he might just be using me, because he thinks like im in the "in-crowd" and he has like no friends, soo i have no idea. what do you guys think? should we end up hanging out? or no? thanks!
Umm. Well you wouldn't really know if he's using you or not until you give him and chance and find out, but if he does then he's just a jerk and needs to get BEAT UP! Haha
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hi my friend thinks she is pregnant and i dont know what to do or to say to her and she is 1 of my best mates plz help me
Well, you can only say one thing to her. Which is GO GET TESTED. :-D
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I'm a 16 year-old girl and my 15 year old (first) boyfriend says that I should change myself COMPLETELY just for him. And when I asked him why he's still with me and why he doesn't go to someone else he says it's because of all the sexual things he wants to do with me. I'm like..wtf..You don't respect me. You want me to change for YOUR sick pleasures...Well, I'm not going to change. It upsets me...because everything I seem to do, he's not happy with. The way I dress, act...He LOVES the way I look. And that's about it.
I'm on the verge of breaking up with him. We've been together for a month and 2 weeks. Do you think I should give him another chance?
No I don't think you should give him a chance either because he wats to change you to something you're not! If he doesn't like you for who you are then he doesn't deserve you at all. So tell him to hit the road. :-D
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ok so i have 2 guy friends. and i like both of them a lot. A LOT, A LOT. and they both like me back, allegedly.
and so i really dunno which one to choose. i like them both equally. and i can see myself staying with both of them a real long time.
so how do i choose which one? cuz both seem pretty upset that i cant choose. and they both no that i like both. and im afraid that they are going to gain up on me one day and be all "choose between us, now!"
:(
Ok I feelz you girll because I've been put in soooooo many situations like that. So i'm not going to tell you to just pick neither because I can't tell you what to do, it's your decision, but what I can suggest is that you sit them both down one at a time and ask them how they feel about. Then hopefully you can make your decision based on their answers. Hope I helped
keep me updated :-D
-Courtney
Oh also. The guys below me need to shut their faces! Haha they probably never been in a situation like that!. :-D Lame-Osz
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15/f
I have fallen extremely hard for this guy. And my friend did too. I now realize it isn't going to work out between him and me, and he really isn't that great of a person anyway. The problem is, I just can't seem to get over him. I still think about him non-stop, and I always end up feeling miserable because I know I can't have him. I really just want this to end. So how do I get over him?
Also, I'd really like to find someone new, but I don't even know when to begin even more. Can I have some ideas on how to do that? And something other than join a club please, because I plan on doing that already.
The only thing that I can think of is that you would hate to see him th your friend or with someone else because you probably THINK that you like him a lot. You can only figure out a way to stop thinking bout him because no one can really do it for you. So don't try to find another boy just to get your mind off of the other boy because he's only going to be a replacement. Hope whatever I said made sense and help
-Courtney
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Ok, I don't know if I am depressed or not...
I am tiredd all the timee
I eat all the time, but never put on weight
And I have periods of eating all the time, and then not eating like at all
I have two horses, and they used to be everything, and now they aren't
I have cut myself before, and think about it all the time, but haven't in about 5 months
I have had many suicidal thoughts...and think about it every day, almost like planning
This is lamee but, I went online and took about 6-7 tests, and they all said that I have moderate to sever depression
And I don't know...
It might also help to know that I don't talk about my feelings, keeping them all inside.
All advice is welcomed =]
well I go through the same exact thing . you are depressed . you probly don't even know why you feel this way . deppression isn't a one day thing . you cry , you eat (alot) , sleep a ton , and a lot more . but the cure isn't to take pills or anything like . you have to find something you love to do . see people you love to be around . things like that . and I really hope what I said helped
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ok so i was wondering whats some things that drive guys crazy and make them want you reeeally bad? And we arent sexually active and we arent going to third so please nothing involving us touching each other 'down there' :P thanks. Some ways to tease him and turn him on and get him hard? Thanks soo much! :)
You can strip tease him. ;) Not like actually STRIPPING but like taking off your top and having a tank top under it to make him THINK that you're goin to "flash" him. That'll have him turned on O_o haha
-Courtney
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Is it possible that the guys's penis won't fit inside the girl at all? I mean, my friends were fighting about this yesterday and today. And one of them said that happens to girls only if they're, i forgot the word,is to small? And the other girl said that is a "total lie". so who's right? I know, stupid question, but they're both right beside me and they want to know what other people think. haha
Yes it is possible that they won't fit, but it's not that it won't go in at ALL!. It's just tha it won't fit at the moment, and once it starts to move inside it's reaalllyyyyyy PAINFUL for the girl more then it is for the boy, bu there's a saying and it goes something like the more it hurts the girl the better it feel for the boy. :-D so I hope I helped. Please give feedback and keep me updated for whenever you need advice.
-Courtney
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My best friend is so much prettier,smarter,and BETTER than I am. She is so popular she has guys hitting on her ALL THE TIME. She is forever complaining about boys being all flirty with her. I am jealous because she makes the best grades,and she is so beautiful,tall,slim,and such. I'm always jealous of her,and I must show it because she sometimes gets mad at me for it. I get all untalkactive,gloomy,and uncaring when I feel that way, which is so different from my outgoing,active,extrovert,and happy friend. She has the nicest parents,and she has everything.She is friends with everyone. Also,my crush for three years just broke my heart rejecting me by saying, "Eww,gross,not you,you're so ugly and fat." Then,I found out that he liked my best friend. And yes,and I very fat,and I have everyone calling me fat,ugly,and weird,and a horrible singer. I am not confident,and have no self esteem. I'm short, 4 feet nine inches, and much over 132 pounds. I am good at nothing,and get D's and F's. Can anyone help me boost my self-esteem?
Well I can't boost your self esteem because only YOU can do that, but what I can tell you is that 132 pounds isn't really a lot. I weigh at least 140 and i'm more then happy with myself, cause you never kno there's probably some person who WISH they were your weight. So don't be too hard on yourself. Also, don't feel the need to be jealous of her because deep inside she's probably not as confident as she might seem. EVERYONE hides something from the world. Another thing is don't worry about the boys, cause they're only after ONE thing. So what i'm saying is you will find someone who truly likes you for who you are, not what you seem to be. Goodluck and keep me updated please. =)
-Courtney
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I was really into this guy, Michael. He invited me to hang out and hook up, but I thought it'd just be making out. He got forceful and mean and really pressured me into giving him head. I tried to kiss him but he just rejected me and kept telling me to give him head. Well, I did. I'm so ashamed that I acted so easy. The whole time he held my head hard and wouldn't let me breath until he was finished.
I feel so ashamed and embarrassed because I really like him. And now I don't know what to do, what if this gets around school?
Well what the person below or above me said is one way to take it and I have another way to handle things. Just try to write things down or talk to a close friend about it so you won't keep it bottled inside of you. Ok, what you should do about him is to just stop even seeing him. I know you're ashamed of it but it's already done and over and charging him isn't going to take back the fact that it happened, it also isn't going to stop him from doing that to other females. So just try to look on the bright side :-D
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This is absoutly killing me, and I'm sorry If It's too long but I'd appreciate lots of responses beacuse all of my friends think different and I just dont know. Here it goes-
I'm a freshman (girl) , he's a junior. At the begining of this school year one of his friends (junior, girl) came up to me and told me how hott he thinks I am. No big deal, I laughed it off. Then one day he IMed me (beacuse he wanted to tell me not to go out with one of his friends who liked me) but thats beside the point. Ever since then he's IMed me ALMOST everyday and texts me a couple times a week. We dont asociate too much in school beacuse we barely see each other but sometimes he'll wait outside my classroom and I'll skip class and I'll walk through the halls with him for a bit. (He makes fun of me if I dont, and says I'm too scared to skip class). He drinks, and smokes pot occasionaly (I dont, not even drink I'm not like that) But some of my friends do and It's no big deal. He makes fun of me (in a cute way) beacuse I'm not as "badass" as him. We flirt a LOT btw. So a couple weeks ago he asked me who I liked and I told him I didnt like anyone, and he said if I told him who I liked he'd tell me the two girls he has crushed on. So I figured okay, I'll just tell him. I was bascily like welll I kinda have a thing for you, (and this other kid but that doesntmatter ) And he was just like oh, and he told me he had a crush on this senior girl (gorgeous btw) and someone else but he couldnt tell me. So maybe that girl was me? I dont know. I tried to get it out of him forever. We've been talking since the begining of the year and he always makes little comments like, "I'm glad you appreicate our friendship" Or , " Haha , whatever you loveeee me" . But he told me he liked another girl? So maybe he doesnt like me. Maybe he thinks I'm an immature freshman. I'm not cocky not at all but.. I can usually get who I want. I dont know how to tell if he likes me. What do you think?
Really sorry about the length of this, haha.
xoxo
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-Haha well youu go girl! :)
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Hello Everyone,
I'm going to get straight to the point. I met this guy, Luke. He is 15 and he my kind of guy. Well about two weeks ago, we started dating. You know we hung out, late at night outside,Kissed under the stars and everything I loved this guy so much. I couldn't believe I was actually dating this guy, he was so perfect, I always looked at it as "oh, I'm to ugly to get him" kind-of thing. but I was wrong, but not for long, Two days later he broke me heart in two. He told me that I was young (13) and its hard for him to say "i love you" to someone and really mean it, so he broke up with me. We still talk sometimes on the phone and he sometimes calls me just to make sure I'm ok. He tells me I can tell him anything and everything, but I think to myself "why would I want too? you broke my heart" but anyways.. just today we hung out it was me and my best friend and of course him, he had liked my best friend in the past they were flirting sometimes but he still payed attention to me too. but, I cant get over this dude. And the thing is we only dated for four days. He says he will always have feelings for me and stuff and I'm sure I will too.
so? what do I do now? do I need to tell him how I feel? do I need to just let him go? be friends?
I have no idea. =[
please help me.
thanks much love.
Summer.=]
Heyy Summer I do think you should tell him how you feel. Because if you neverdo you would never know what would have happened if you did. So be sure to tell him and ask him if he's ever gotten his heart broken, usually when it's hard for a boy to tell someone that they love them it's mostly because they've gotten their hearts broken or they're scared of commitment. So just sit him down and talk to him one-on-one. You'll be surprised with the results. Hope everything works out. Be sure to tell me about it girl, =) bye
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hey there, the other day me and my gf were fooling around, and we've gone too far. both were naked and i was rubbing my penis over her vagina.. but only 1 or 2 times, a very very slight interaction happend. maybe 1 inch in not more and maybe for 5 sec only.. am scared if there was precum there and if that could get her pregnant. am not sure if i ejaculated before we did this. is there a possibilty that she get pregnant ? if i ejaculated before or not ? eventhough she is still virgin and this happend after 15 days from the end of her period. HeLp!!!!!!!!!!
Don't worry hun because the only virgin I heard of having a child is the virgin mary, but anyways if I were you I would really be cautious about your "sexual" actions with your girlfriend. Yeah I get it, it's your girlfriend but if you don't want little toddlers running around I would reeeeeaaaalllyyyy be careful. :)
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im a girl in high school
so theres this boy who i have a major crush on. hes a grade above me and the only class i have with him is gym (which is embarising becasue im so not a gym person)...i've texted him a few times but its always initially me texting him and he's always the one who says he has to go...so i feel like im bothering him...he doensn't have a sn so i can't talk to him that way...any ideas/suggestions? thanks!
Yes I have a couple of ideas. I know exactly what you're talking about and if he didn't like you i'm sure he would say so. If he didn't then he must likes SOMETHING about you. So try and joke around saying litte things like "my friend said we make a cute couple" or something like that and I GUARANTEE it'll break the ice. Also try to find out his interests. You never know, ya'll could have lots in common.
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Okay, first. I am 17/f. Last October my best friend,lets call her Katie, stated dating this boy, lets call him Mike. Mike is the biggest jerk in the history of the world and he completely hates me for no reason at all. Since she fell head over heels for him we stopped hanging out and talking since then pretty much, not including the fights every once in awhile. Okay well, so. Supposedly they’re completely in love, although he calls her a slut, treats her horribly, and breaks up with her every other week. Last weekend she found out he is moving this weekend halfway across the country. Messed up, right? So, I really want to talk to her and make sure she is okay because supposedly she hasn’t eaten in days and is like totally depressed. I still love her and im really worried about her but she really hurt me when she started ditching me for mike. I want to forgive her and all and help her through this but at the same time I want her to apologize before I forgive her. I am afraid she wont apologize for awhile and when she does it will be too late for me to help her. I don’t know what to do.
Ok what they're telling you is not wrong but I want to add something to it. She probably thought she needed his love to complete herself and yes, he is a bitch for treating her that way, but you shouldn't wait for her to say she's sorry. The reason is what if she thinks that you're through with her and decides that she doesn't have any purpose on this earth. If she takes it to far you will NEVER get a chance to tell her how you felt about it. So I wish you the best of luck hun and just try to make ya'lls friendship work. :)
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