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I thought wrong
I was really into this guy, Michael. He invited me to hang out and hook up, but I thought it'd just be making out. He got forceful and mean and really pressured me into giving him head. I tried to kiss him but he just rejected me and kept telling me to give him head. Well, I did. I'm so ashamed that I acted so easy. The whole time he held my head hard and wouldn't let me breath until he was finished.
I feel so ashamed and embarrassed because I really like him. And now I don't know what to do, what if this gets around school?
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You liked him. He took advantage of that. He may have a lot of nice qualities but its important to remember that he is a bully and a creep for doing this to you.
Even if you did it willingly to make him like you, he shouldnt have got forceful in the first place.
I understand that you feel ashamed but try to take this as a lesson that will make you stronger. Next time you are in a situation like this you will know that you should trust your instincts. Hit and bite if you need to.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
I would tell somebody that you can trust about this. Preferably somebody older with more experience.
Remember - if somebody forces you do do sexual things to him it is sexual assault. Do you really want to be around him?
Try to remember that you are not easy. You didnt do it willfully.
Deal with school when and if it comes to that.
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Well what the person below or above me said is one way to take it and I have another way to handle things. Just try to write things down or talk to a close friend about it so you won't keep it bottled inside of you. Ok, what you should do about him is to just stop even seeing him. I know you're ashamed of it but it's already done and over and charging him isn't going to take back the fact that it happened, it also isn't going to stop him from doing that to other females. So just try to look on the bright side :-D
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If this got around school they would soon know he is a creep who took advantage of and assaulted you. If you said NO repeatedly and he pushed you around and forced you it's not giving in or anything to feel ashamed of.
What he did is wrong and it is a form of sexual assault. He needs to be punished or he will keep doing it to other girls. Odds are there already are others who haven't come forward about what he did to them.
You have a responsibility to tell your parents what happened and that you said no and he forced himself on you or forced you violently to do it. They'll know how to handle this and get him charged which he should be.
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