Member Since: January 20, 2008
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Last Update: September 14, 2008
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heyyy everytime i eat i wanna be sick its been 2 days... i eat then an hour later i feel soo ill that i want too be sick but i cant.... when i go too bed im in soo much pain i cant move my stomach... what could cos this ? (link)
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i think you should GO to the DOCTOR. we cant possibly tell you whats wrong with you here... s/he could give you some pills and it could go away in a few hours/days instead of you going through this pain...
i hope you feel better soon!
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He loves me but he needs space. I don't know how to do that. I seriously can't stop...it is like an addiction. I love him so much and can't just stop talking to him. I am so worried that I am going to screw this whole relationship up if I don't stop!!!
Help me stop!! (link)
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Ok ive been through this. What you have to remember is that even for your own sake, you both need time apart.
Try to remember what you liked "pre-bf". Listen to music, go shopping, gossip with your friends... Catch up on things that bf doesnt like to do with you. Dont make the mistake that most of us girls make - abandoning your friends when you have a guy. Keep in contact with them because they deserve it.
Men need space more than us, and its a blessing in disguise. Keep somethings just for you, "your own". I know its tempting to want to share everything with him because you love him so much. But in the end you will just lose yourself and it wont be fair on you.
He deserves to watch football and do the manly stuff he wants to too. I know you love him enough to do what is best for him too.
Start slowly, try to call him less. Try to go out with your friends. You can do it! :)
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I'm a 20 year old female. I don't really masturbate often but when I do, I'm fairly certain that I do pee. Once during sex I think its happened as well. I've heard about "female ejaculation" before, but I don't think thats what it is. This liquid has a strong smell and has a yellow tinge. Is it possible that it IS in fact pee?? It feels really good when I do "pee" but I'm thinking maybe I'm really weird... Is peeing during sex/masturbation normal? (link)
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lets just say you're peeing (i dont know if u are). if you like the feeling, and your partner doesnt mind does it really matter? what is normal anyway? everyone is different.
it may be female ejaculation after all, but i dont know anything about the subject, so maybe you should just check around on the net.
hope this helps.
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My family is always arguing and yelling. Once my parents were fighting and my dad almost left, I was in my room crying. But of course I think everybody would be. Well then they worked it out and he stayed but lately they have started fighting again and then my little 11 year old brother is getting in trouble everyday. Which makes my mom always yelling at him and then sometimes things come in with me and I start yelling because everybody else is. I hate it! I have cryed every single night that I can remember. I have cut myself once but not badly. I also promised myself I would never do it again. So that isn't much of my problem. I have tried talking to them about it but they are never happy and they never want to talk to me. I know for a fact they love me though. I try to get away from home as much as possible too. Also if no one is fighting then they are complaining. I hardly ever yell, I just stay in my room and try to block it all out or call my friends or go online or something. There is no abuse or anything so its good there. So if anyone can give me advice on what to do, thanks so much! And sorry it was long. (link)
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Your parents are obviously having issues at the moment. I can understand the hell it is to live with fighting parents. Ive been through it too.
Its not your fault and its not your responsibility to fix their problems. However, you and your brother shouldn't be suffering like you are. They are the adults and should put you first, but unfortunately when people are stressed sometimes they forget that.
I can understand that you want to be out of the house as much as possible. Just be careful where you go and what you do to forget. Try not to get into trouble and to create even more problems for yourself.
Try to open up to other family members like granparents, aunties, uncles and maybe even older cousins if you have any. Family members will understand and will make your parents see what they are doing to you.
Living with a close family member that you trust for a while might even diffuse the situation.
Maybe you could even write a letter to your mom and dad telling them exactly how you feel. Tell them about everything. Maybe that will wake them up.
Maybe in the letter you could even suggest family therapy. Or maybe even therapy for you and your brother only if they don't want to go. Your brothers acting up shows his distress - its a sign of pent up anger. Try to talk to your brother as well. Take care of eachother. You need eachother more than ever now.
If nobody listens to you I suggest talking to a school counsellor. They will be able to guide you as well.
Remember that talking is the best thing to do at this point. It is hard to keep all this pain inside your heart. You are a good person and dont deserve this.
Please remember that this will pass. Just try to keep yourself and your brother as happy and healthy as you can till it does.
Take care.
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I was really into this guy, Michael. He invited me to hang out and hook up, but I thought it'd just be making out. He got forceful and mean and really pressured me into giving him head. I tried to kiss him but he just rejected me and kept telling me to give him head. Well, I did. I'm so ashamed that I acted so easy. The whole time he held my head hard and wouldn't let me breath until he was finished.
I feel so ashamed and embarrassed because I really like him. And now I don't know what to do, what if this gets around school? (link)
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You liked him. He took advantage of that. He may have a lot of nice qualities but its important to remember that he is a bully and a creep for doing this to you.
Even if you did it willingly to make him like you, he shouldnt have got forceful in the first place.
I understand that you feel ashamed but try to take this as a lesson that will make you stronger. Next time you are in a situation like this you will know that you should trust your instincts. Hit and bite if you need to.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
I would tell somebody that you can trust about this. Preferably somebody older with more experience.
Remember - if somebody forces you do do sexual things to him it is sexual assault. Do you really want to be around him?
Try to remember that you are not easy. You didnt do it willfully.
Deal with school when and if it comes to that.
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Ok, I don't know if I am depressed or not...
I am tiredd all the timee
I eat all the time, but never put on weight
And I have periods of eating all the time, and then not eating like at all
I have two horses, and they used to be everything, and now they aren't
I have cut myself before, and think about it all the time, but haven't in about 5 months
I have had many suicidal thoughts...and think about it every day, almost like planning
This is lamee but, I went online and took about 6-7 tests, and they all said that I have moderate to sever depression
And I don't know...
It might also help to know that I don't talk about my feelings, keeping them all inside.
All advice is welcomed =] (link)
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You do sound like you are depressed. Don't worry most people go through it at one time or another in their lives.
There is a way out. You can get better. The best way to feel again is to talk about your thoughts/feelings. I recommend going to a professional/doctor because they have heard it all before and will be comforting and welcoming.
I know you will be fine in the long run. Just make the effort to talk. You will feel a weight lifted off your shoulders. I guarantee it.
Take care.
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Is it wrong not to go out with somebody because of their religion? I like this guy, but he doesn't believe in God, and it pisses me off! I don't want to force him to believe in what I believe in, but at the same time I would like somebody to have the same views as me. I'd probably even prefer to find a boyfriend in the church. Is that wrong? (link)
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I dont think that ultimately religion should matter BUT if it matters to you then its important.
If it is already an issue than i dont think you should go out with him. In time maybe you could come to care for him more and it will not be an issue.
It is easier to be in a relationship if your beliefs are compatible. But remember that just because you are in the same religion, it doesnt mean you have the same morals at heart.
Its interesting that someones else beliefs "piss you off". There is a big world out there and most people are not going to believe in what you believe in... its better to realise that sooner than later because one day you will piss somebody else off and you will realise its best to be accepting....
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