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Member Since: February 15, 2008
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Last Update: February 15, 2008
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I'm so confused. Please don't tell me I'm a player or anything like that because it's not like that.

There's these three guys, JF, MN and MK. Well, JF and I were kind-of involved before he left for a three week training period for the marines. We talked about a week ago and I really really like him but since he's been gone I don't feel like he and I are really interested in each other. I'm into him but I don't feel like he's into me. So I've been talking to these other two guys, MK and MN. MN asked me to be his valentine, totally cute, so I said yes really not thinking much of it, just thinking that he was being cute. But then he told me that he made me a build-a-bear and it was the sweetest thing I have ever heard, no one's ever been so sweet unless we were dating. But MK asked me to be his valentine too. I know this is just a stupid holiday but what happens, what should I do after today is over? (link)
hi, this is reca well wat i got to say about dat is if you already said yes to the other guy den jus stick wit him and tell the other guy that your taken but yall can still talk sometimes if he want!!!!cuz if you say yes dat you will be his valentine den you would have 2 valentines den i would think you were a player so dats wat it think you should do!! :) you can ask me anything anytime!!!!


so my best guy friend and i are really close
and we even hooked up for fun
then i started to like him
but i didnt tell him
so he started liking this other girl
i ended up telling him that i like him
but now him and the girl are going out
i still like him
and they've been together for a month
i've tried getting over him but its so hard
and i cant forget about him because he is my best friend
and we talk alot
i was thinking that i could wait for the relationship to end
but it hurts when he talks about her
i usually help him with his problems
so he tells me whats going on
what do i do? :/
*confused&&inlove*
[15/f] (link)
Hi confused&&inlove this is reca i understand exactly wat ya sayin ive been thru this plenty of times but this is wat i think you should do.... you should call him 1day or wen yall on the fone you should be like ok look im not trynna interfer wit you and your girl cuz ya know thats not like me!! but theres something on my mind that i need to get off....and then he should ask you wat is is or something like dat.... and thats wen ya tell him how ya feel and let him know in the end that you not trynna get in between your relationship but to me i thiught you should know!!!! and thats wat i think you should do.... you can ask me questions about anything anytime!!!! :)




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