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love triangle :[
so my best guy friend and i are really close
and we even hooked up for fun
then i started to like him
but i didnt tell him
so he started liking this other girl
i ended up telling him that i like him
but now him and the girl are going out
i still like him
and they've been together for a month
i've tried getting over him but its so hard
and i cant forget about him because he is my best friend
and we talk alot
i was thinking that i could wait for the relationship to end
but it hurts when he talks about her
i usually help him with his problems
so he tells me whats going on
what do i do? :/
*confused&&inlove*
[15/f]
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Hi confused&&inlove this is reca i understand exactly wat ya sayin ive been thru this plenty of times but this is wat i think you should do.... you should call him 1day or wen yall on the fone you should be like ok look im not trynna interfer wit you and your girl cuz ya know thats not like me!! but theres something on my mind that i need to get off....and then he should ask you wat is is or something like dat.... and thats wen ya tell him how ya feel and let him know in the end that you not trynna get in between your relationship but to me i thiught you should know!!!! and thats wat i think you should do.... you can ask me questions about anything anytime!!!! :)
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I use to have a best guy friend.
I know how you feel. Because i started to like my best guy friend too and eventually me and him started going out but then we just broke up because well....thats a long story lol. But anyway i ended up losing the friendship i had with this guy just bc we went out and me and him dont talk anymore. So that would be the negative effect of all this. But if i were you and you really wanted to get with him i would wait till him and the girl broke up because if you dont and u try to break them up karma will come back and bite you in the ass. So just stay his friend and hang in there.
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so he still knows you like him? well if its really too hard for you to listen to him talk about her then maybe talk to him about it and be like, you know, i really still like you alot and its just too hard for me to hear you talk about her...i still want you to talk to me about things and i want to talk to you too, but can we just talk a little less about her... see what he says... most guys should be pretty cool with that...if you dont like that idea then maybe start focusing more on your other friends (maybe even another guy?) that way your attention wont be so wrapped up on your crush and his girl... find something that will take your mind off it...at least for a little while...and who knows, he may come around and realize that its you he really wants to be with! :)
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There is not a lot which you can do. Ask him to help you get through this, you've helped him in the past, now it's his turn to help you back.
Explain that you're finding it hard to let him go because you love him so much. Allow him to help you even if it seems bad advice, but he needs to understand that it's hard for you to see him going out with somebody else when you've got feelings for him, very strong feelings i might add.
If you don't want to do this, then try another option. Hang out with the rest of your friends, have fun, enjoy life. Don't get suppressed because he's going out with somebody else, live life to the full before going into a realtionship and see how you feel afterwards. Don't expect any results to show to quickly, remember, the more time you have fun, the less time you've got to think about him.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Dont mess with them because if you think of it, would you rather have a friend or a worst enamy. A worst enamy is what your going to get if you mess with them. Just be happy you have a great friend.
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