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So this kid found out that i thought he was hot about a few months back. we never really talked in person but he asked me to hangout, but we never really did and stopped talking within like 2 weeks. (and he had a new girlfriend like the next day). Now, for about a little over a month, hes been talking to me again. and like aims me ALL the time and still wants to hangout and shit. i see him in school and smile and say hey whats up and stuff, but we dont really have time for conversations.
At first i thought he only wanted to like hookup, and i told him i was cool by that, but just tell me what he really wanted so i dont start liking him and get hurt. but it turned out he wants to date me.
However, he still trys to talk to sooo many other girls. so i dont know if hes only talking to me to get some because he cant find it anywhere else, even though he's trying so hard to talk to all these other girls?
im sooo confused. he seems really nice. i asked him why he wanted to date me if we could just hookup instead, and he said because "we have alot in common, get along great, and because hes really attracted to me". he said he "wants to do right by me" haha what does that mean?!
i have no clue how to take this, like, why is he still trying to talk to so many other girls then?
then i thought he might just be using me, because he thinks like im in the "in-crowd" and he has like no friends, soo i have no idea. what do you guys think? should we end up hanging out? or no? thanks!
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Umm. Well you wouldn't really know if he's using you or not until you give him and chance and find out, but if he does then he's just a jerk and needs to get BEAT UP! Haha
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Ok, it seems you already like him so hooking up just to hook up is the wrong thing to do. If he wants to date you tell him it's either now or never! He has to prove to you that he wants you and only you so he has to stop persueing other girls. Unless you don't care about that stuff but it seems like you do.
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