Question Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 5:29 pm
This is absoutly killing me, and I'm sorry If It's too long but I'd appreciate lots of responses beacuse all of my friends think different and I just dont know. Here it goes-
I'm a freshman (girl) , he's a junior. At the begining of this school year one of his friends (junior, girl) came up to me and told me how hott he thinks I am. No big deal, I laughed it off. Then one day he IMed me (beacuse he wanted to tell me not to go out with one of his friends who liked me) but thats beside the point. Ever since then he's IMed me ALMOST everyday and texts me a couple times a week. We dont asociate too much in school beacuse we barely see each other but sometimes he'll wait outside my classroom and I'll skip class and I'll walk through the halls with him for a bit. (He makes fun of me if I dont, and says I'm too scared to skip class). He drinks, and smokes pot occasionaly (I dont, not even drink I'm not like that) But some of my friends do and It's no big deal. He makes fun of me (in a cute way) beacuse I'm not as "badass" as him. We flirt a LOT btw. So a couple weeks ago he asked me who I liked and I told him I didnt like anyone, and he said if I told him who I liked he'd tell me the two girls he has crushed on. So I figured okay, I'll just tell him. I was bascily like welll I kinda have a thing for you, (and this other kid but that doesntmatter ) And he was just like oh, and he told me he had a crush on this senior girl (gorgeous btw) and someone else but he couldnt tell me. So maybe that girl was me? I dont know. I tried to get it out of him forever. We've been talking since the begining of the year and he always makes little comments like, "I'm glad you appreicate our friendship" Or , " Haha , whatever you loveeee me" . But he told me he liked another girl? So maybe he doesnt like me. Maybe he thinks I'm an immature freshman. I'm not cocky not at all but.. I can usually get who I want. I dont know how to tell if he likes me. What do you think?
Really sorry about the length of this, haha.
xoxo
karenR answered Sunday February 17 2008, 1:48 pm: OK here comes the old lady with advice!
First, I think he likes you. You just don't
talk with people you don't like. Weather he
likes you as girlfriend material, I just don't
know.
You told him you liked him and he didn't come
back with, "I like you too". It would have been
the perfect opportunity to do so. Makes me
wonder what his intentions are. It also makes
me think that second girl wasn't you.
Could be you are the only one who will skip
class and keep him company. Could be he is
a player like the the adviser before me said.
I know it is just a thing with us girls to
like the bad boy. It isn't always the wise
choice though.
As someone older than your friends I will
advise you to be careful and think about
it before getting involved with this guy,
even if he does like you. He is encouraging
you to skip class, He drinks and smokes
which you aren't into. One of two things
will happen. You will get into doing those
things with him so you don't feel left out
or you will feel left out and it will lead
to heartbreak in the future.
orphans answered Sunday February 17 2008, 12:30 pm: He seems like he could be a player. But I'm not
positive, as I don't know himm. He also kind of
seems to be leading you on, seeing as he likes
the senior girl. Truee, he could like you, but
unless he doesnt tell you straight up then it
could totally nott be youu :(
You need to get a friend to find it out for youu.
I've been in this situation before, and being
led on suuckkss. He seems very flirty, but then
again so do you! Haha.
It is a very common question on advicenators,
asking if he likes them. But only YOU can figure
it out, because everybodyd is different.
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