Question Posted Saturday February 16 2008, 5:07 pm
im 14/f, and i really like a few guys. So:
guy 1- he is nice, sweet, funny, has a job (DJing) easy to talk to and hes adorable. I liekd him for a year and asked him out before, but he said no, but that was like two years ago. Well i was crushed by him, but i got over it and now were really close but im starting to like him again and my friend tells me he likes me but idk because he always liked this girl, but wont admit it.
Guy 2- Hes sooo cute, funny, fun to flirt with and be around, and he just takes my breath away. The problem is my friend told me he told her he likes her, but i dont believe my friend because shes always lieing but i dont want to be a bad friend and be like wtf i bet he didnt.
Guy 3- He is cute, funny, and called me beautiful. He doesnt really hang out with my group and i'd be his first gf, but hes adorable!
Guy 4- hes funny, but kinda annoying and really lieks me, everyone thinks so, and he is cute.
so those are the reasons i like ALL these guys.
I dont want to like 1 because im afraid to get hurt. I dont want to like 2 because of my best friend. I dont want to like 3 because i would never see him (dif friends and classes). I dont want to like 4 because a lot of my friends hate him. Which one should i use all my attention to, and try to get to go out with? i know you dont know them, but i really want a bf, and dont want to spend all my time thinking about 4 guys and losing them all. THanks!!
KraziMisty15 answered Sunday February 17 2008, 12:54 pm: As for guy 1, if your honestly THAT scared to get hurt, why bother taking the chance? & how do you know he's always liked this girl if he never admitted it? You can't always believe what you hear.
Guy 2, honestly, if your bestfriend is always lying to you, she's clearly not a good bestfriend. Why would she lie about something like that if she knew you were thinking about having something with him?
Guy 3, if he doesn't hang out with your group it might cause problems because your friends might not accept him, so I would think about that a little more before you get any further into it. Also, it's always hard being with a guy who has never had a girlfriend, then he doesn't know how to act, or how to be in a relationship.
Guy 4, if hes annoying theres no possible way you could be in a long term relationship with him because you would get sick of him.
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