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its the guy's job...
well there is a guy that likes me and i like him back. we are both 16. but he wont do anything about it and im not really sure what to do about it either because i like to play hard to get and i think it is the guy's place to go after the girl but at the same time i really like this guy so i dont know what to do. this really hasnt happened to me before...we arent that close, but we have a few of the same friends and we talk just as friends whenever we see each other
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you can't always have the guy chase you because sometimes the guy plays that game too. if you really like this guy you should go after him first, switch it up a little. if you go after him, maybe you can play hard to get after you already have him. and if you have some of the same friends, that works out even better because you guys can all hang out together!
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Since you have a lot of the same friends then getting a group to go to a movie or have a movie night or game night as a group would be a good idea. Make sure you sit next to him, and flirt it up! this had worked for me before and i hope it does the same for you.
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There is always a first time for everything.
Now, some guys like to chase after girls who like to be hard to get, some don't and it seems that this guy doesn't like to play this game.
Talk to him about it because only when you've expressed your feelings for one and another, you can move on with the relationship.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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if you really like him then he should be worth pushing your dignity aside for a minute and putting yourself out there despite the whole stereotypical 'its the guys job' theory or your playing hard to get method because clearly niether of those are working here anyhow. i say you take a chance with this one and go for it. you say he likes you so what do you have to lose? and if worst comes to worst, atleast you wont have to wonder what if could have been.
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hey hun... we are in the 21st century so if you really like the guy just go for it. If there is a connection between the two of you, I say you should tell him how you feel and ask him if he feel the same. You said that he wont do anything about it, from my experience he might have (like little things you wont notice) but you haven't look closely, look harder babe. =]
I have been through what you are experiencing, and if you don't do or say anything you might lose a good relationship. But hey you're still young like the saying "there plenty fishes in the ocean"
good luck hun
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Maybe it was back in the 50s. If you like him tell him. I'm old fashioned so I always was asked girls out. However, this day and age I don't see a problem with you asking. If you want to prod him into asking pose this question, "So if you really liked a girl, how would you (or would you) ask her out?" He might actually get the hint. If not ask him this, "So is there any girl you really like?"
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