so there is this girl in all my classes that im not really friends with.well shes been going with this boy for like a year who went to our school last year but left this year.they still go out but i swear she doesnt act like it.there is this boy in one of my classes that she always use to ake to pick her up(like a hug).well i started to like him and he deff didnt like that girl as more then maybe a friend.i asked him out and he said yes.so we go out now and the hugging between them has stopped ofcoarse.now she keeps making these comments like he was my man first or he told me he liked me better then you and all this other crap which ofcoarse isnt true.then on valentines day she comes up to me and tells me that my bf got her a valentines gift and its her locker and i was like whatever you say!then she was like no im serious he did(which he didnt)!then i just walked away!well the other day my bf tells me that way before we went out she had put her hand on his penis.he jumped up all shocked and she just laughed!i was just like what a slut!!!i mean she has a bf and i just wish she would stop messing with mine!!!i just feel like telling her off the next time she makes a comment about my bf again.i just so badly want to say"dont you have a bf,well then why the hell do you keep messing with mine"!!!its just so fustrating!can someone please tell me how to deal with this before it goes to far!!!thanx!!!
schochie16 answered Monday February 18 2008, 10:09 pm: WOW! this girl sounds really weird! first of all your boyfriend should have told her to stop. thats his fault for letting it get pretty far..but anyway. 1. don't start any bad rumors or anything it will just lead to trouble. and i really think that you both should just ignore her. i think that shes jelous that she doesn't get the attention that she wants from her guy so she wants your guy. now that he is going out with you he doesn't want to give her the attention hes giving you it. so i think she just wants all that attention to be back on her. Have your boyfriend ask her to knock it off. or just ignore it don't belive it cuz it will just ruin you and your boyfriends relationship--which is just what she wants
karenR answered Monday February 18 2008, 3:36 pm: Best thing to do is for your
boyfriend, not you, to tell
her to knock it off.
I say this because she knows
she is getting to you and she
gets off on the drama. You
do your best to ignore her.
Have the boyfriend tell her
to stop.
If she continues, and she just
might, Both of you ignore her.
Don't talk to her, don't look
at or acknowledge her in any way.
A couple of days of it and she
will go pester someone else. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
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