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My bff and me
Well I like my bff (im m/14 my bestfriend is also m/14) and well he's unfourtunealtley strait, well i want to be able to go out with him. But i odn't want ppl knowing i'm Bi, anyways I found a way to get him to like me... well my friend used to do wicca stuff(spells) and she's finding me a love spell. I've seen stuff like this work before(she's done it) so i want to do it on him but i don't know if i should because I don't want to force him into this but i want to have him love me... what should i do should i use it or not?
I rate high...unlesss youre ignorant
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hmmm i dont think you should do that because you should let love do its magic. if he doesnt like you like that then you shouldnt force it. it would just be wrong. although it sounds tempting...you shouldnt use spells on people to get them to like you i wish i could but if they do not like you for you then it sholdnt be enforced. so hes straight try finding someone just as good as he with the same interests as you have. try personals and chat rms to see whos close to you or in your area that would be interested in you.
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Well even if the spell COULD work, I wouldn't use it. You can't make someone love you. It wouldn't be right. You should have them love you for real. And like you said, you don't want to force him into it. And if he's straight, then he's straight. I'd suggest try looking for someone else or something and just continue being his best friend. =/ I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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I think you should try talking to girls and see how you like girls before you move on to boys PLUS girls have more to offer you.
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So, you are mature enough to have discovered your sexual orientation, but you think love can be induced by magic? You are going to rate me low because of my ignorance, right? So why am I sending you this?? Because the ignorance lies with you, my friend, and somebody has to tell you.
For the sake of argument, if you COULD induce your friend to love you by using a magic spell on him, what sort of friend would you be?? You would be betraying his trust. You would be selfish. A magic spell would be the moral equivalent of using the date rape drug Rohypnol (flunitrazepam).
Dr. Chad
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ur just a really weird person...
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dont even try and if you do admit you like him it will screw up the relationship so get likeing girls better or your lifes gone
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I don't think you shoud do it..beacsue I don't think it's right to force someone into loving you..i mean you'd live your whole like knowing that he didn't really love you. I know it sucks that he's straight but you can't change that...and I'm sure it's hard to deal with him not liking you but people deal with that all the time. I'm sure there's someone else out there...but I'd say stick to girls for now since you're young and alot of people hav'nt "come out" yet! Well good luck! ♥ caitie
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in my oponion that is not the way to get soomeones affection. since he is straight, there is really no way to get him. i am sorry
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you never know the spell might back fire then what do you have to gain???
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I'm not ignorant, I'm just going to tell you the truth.
It wont work. Those 'spells' are complete shit. Move on. He's straight, you like it up the butt, big deal. Find someone else who does too.
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Using direct love spells is considered black magic and it will come back three-times fold. However, you can use a love spell to attract a mate with the same description as your friend.
I understand you like your friend, but you have to be understanding to the fact that he may not share the same feelings as you. If you're patient, you will most likely find someone who will feel the same about you as you do about them. I'm sure this is not what you wanted to hear, but magick won't solve as much as you think it will.
Just keep this in mind: boyfriends and girlfriends don't last forever, but friends do, and this is a fact.
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I think that you shouldnt. If she uses this spell then its her making him be in love with you. In way thats not as real as the real thing. It probably would work and stuff but could you live with yourself knowing that it isnt real? Just some spell that was cast. I am ot trying to be mean or anything. I think that you could probably get him to fall in love with you without the potion. It may take longer but at least it would be the real thing. Maybe you should invite him to the movies or something. At least you would be spending more time with him and starting the process of a relationship. If you use it to wouldnt that mean you are taking away his free will?
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Hi,
Well you can't force a person to love you by putting a love spell on him, if he likes he likes you if not then move on, be honest with yourself first talk to him and see what reaction you get from him if its positive then its great all round if not then at least you've made a friend
Goodluck
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