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hey everyone! my names amanda im 17 from ohio if u need any advice about anything Im a great person to ask because Ive been threw it all so dont be afraid to ask anything personal either!
Member Since: October 23, 2005
Answers: 5
Last Update: October 23, 2005
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i havent had sex and i dont masterbate, but i have a bump not alot, just one, on my pubic hair area. i dont know what it is or why its there but i noticed it the other day and its kinda iches. does anyone know what it is? (link)
if u shave there it could be a shaving bump or an ingrown hair jus put some medictaed cream on it and it will go away in a few days nuthing to worry about!


Well I like my bff (im m/14 my bestfriend is also m/14) and well he's unfourtunealtley strait, well i want to be able to go out with him. But i odn't want ppl knowing i'm Bi, anyways I found a way to get him to like me... well my friend used to do wicca stuff(spells) and she's finding me a love spell. I've seen stuff like this work before(she's done it) so i want to do it on him but i don't know if i should because I don't want to force him into this but i want to have him love me... what should i do should i use it or not?
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hmmm i dont think you should do that because you should let love do its magic. if he doesnt like you like that then you shouldnt force it. it would just be wrong. although it sounds tempting...you shouldnt use spells on people to get them to like you i wish i could but if they do not like you for you then it sholdnt be enforced. so hes straight try finding someone just as good as he with the same interests as you have. try personals and chat rms to see whos close to you or in your area that would be interested in you.


There's this boy that I've known ever since 5th grade (we are in 9th grade) we are very close besides the fact that I NEVER SPENT TIME WITH HIM BESIDES SCHOOL!!! Yea we would talk on the phone, text and stuff but, I would LOVE to go somewhere with him one day but there are 2 problems:

1.) I am afraid that if I am alone with him, he might put the moves on me and we might have sex! (Only a kiss will do)

2.) I am afraid that if I go to the movies with him or something, that he might try and play me by taking me somewhere far, leaving me alone or embarrassing me.

What can I do to overcome my shyness and how do I explain to him that I am shy?

P.S. I gave him some excuses! I don't want to seem like a liar or that I don't want to be with him because I DO! it would be like a DATE or something.. My FIRST date! (link)
wow i was the same way! well if you've known him since 5th grade you should kno him by now! why do you think he would leave you somewhere or embarass you? If he is that type of person then he is not worth your time..but if you really like him and you dont want to be completely alone with him invite him and a few friends over and just hang out or try group dating. on my first date i went with a group of friends and we had a blast! so I would try the group thing...tell him you are a shy girl and if you two ever dated you would like to take things slow.I was shy but You just have to be comfortable with that person and tell yourself he is just a guy. hes probably more nervous than you are because they have to make the first move so they probly are in the same position as you are in. and everyone gets over the shy stage it just takes some time until you get used to being around guys and know their actions and intentions


I'm thinking of getting a belly button piercing. I got a few questions... Does it hurt? Do they numb anything or no? How long does it take? How big is the needle? Would it bleed? (link)
hey my names amanda. i got my belly button pierced 2 yrs ago...it is scary at first but it is worth it trust me. just dont look at the needle and you will be fine. it feels almost like a bee sting but alittle worse and i couldnt sit down after i had gotten it done. it bleeds alittle bit afterwards from the needle. the needle is like 2 and a hald inches long and alittle thick. they do not numb it and it only hurts for a minute. dont worry because after you get it done you can show all your friends and they will be jealous of how sexy you look with it afterwards! so it is completely worth it. but you will have to clean the piercing like crazy! it is so painful when it is infected! so be sure you clean it regularly and play with it a lot also


I am over weight and i have tryed exercise and diets and im only 13 so i cant do anything like pills. But i seriosly need help im like 5 2 and 150lbs please please help! What do you think i should do?

~overweight

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Try and moderate your food intake and excersise regularly...it might be helping and it keeps you in shape also so keep it up...u might also be overweight and cant help it because of your family history maybe you should look into that..sometimes you just have to be comfortable with urself. look in the mirror and focus on the beauty of urself. find things your good at and focus on the important things in life. no one cares if your overweight and if they do they are not very good people. whats important is whats inside that counts. so your overweight that doesnt matter. i bet you have a great personality and you are a fun person to be around. plus your only 13 and you will have groth spurts so dont let this overweight issue get you down!




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