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is he gay?
hey
well basically ive got a best boy mate. i think he might be gay?
there has been several hints, we were talking about will and grace and the characters in it and i said i love will hes is so fit and he was yeah he is.
and the other day he wouldnt answer me on msn then he said he was watching porn and i said ok then and he said i like willys (OMFG)
he walks kinda campish and he squeeks when a leaf or something falls on him.
i have asked him a few times in the past and we talk about sex alot and i said can i sleep round .. i was joking of course and he was like erm.. no so i dont know if he his or not
o yeah this morning he asked to borrow my mirror :| yeah....
so i think he might be gay but i feel if i ask him i might offend him.
all GOOD help will be rated 5's
thanks in advance xx
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You should ask him, be straight up, him sure he wont get mad.
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well i think he is but iwould atleast ask him but i no its kinds risky but ask and then you will no
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I have a friend like that, and he isn't gay. Some guys just aren't as macho as others and joke around alot. It doesn't mean that they are gay. And guys ask for mirrors all the time. He probably wanted to see if there was anything on his face he should know about or fix a contact or something. Again, it doesn't mean that he's gay. And one thing you should not do is ask him. If he is gay then he might not care but if he isn't then I can imagine him getting upset.
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Well, here is what you have to do. First off, he sounds JUST like my friend David (who is gay).
Anyway, hang out with him one day at a mall and if you see a guy even remotely goodlooking, be sure to point it out to him. Say OMG that guy is SO hot! See what his responce is.
Also, point out a few girls that you think are pretty and say [insert best friend's name here] she's so pretty! I could see you with a girl like that.
If you go into a clothing store, and you see a shirt you like, rant and rave about how cute of an outfit it would be on you. See what his response is then.
After a while, go get a bite to eat and then you should say, [insert best guy friend's name here], look, I really don't mean to offend you in ANYWAY, but we've been friends for a while and I know you very well. You know you can tell me anything, ask me anything, etc, and I hope I can do the same for you. But, I have a question for you. Again, I don't mean to offend you... but I've been noticing how you act around me alot, and just how you act in general.. It's making me believe you might be gay, unless you are just metorsexual (straight men that act like gay men). You don't have to answer me, I'm just curious.
If you two are close enough friends, then he should tell you. However, if he DOES admit to it and he's not ready to come out yet you MUST give him your word you will not say anything or you could potentially end your friendship with him.
He does sound gay to me. He acts just like my best friend David. JUST like him!
Best of luck to you!
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Sounds to me like he likes to joke around. He said he likes willies? Ok, I tell my friends about how me and my friend Matt have wild anal sex all the time. It's not true though, it's all in good fun. I'll make stupid sounds when stuff hits me, I love the glances I get from people. And you think he's gay because he asked to borrow your mirror...but wouldn't that make you gay since you had it to begin with? I seriously doubt he's gay, so don't ask him. Unless you want to. Then do it.
Haha, sorry. I should have paid for attention to what my little info box said.
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