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My name is KatLynn. Not "Kat" or Kaitlynn"; CAT-LYN. ♥ MERRY CHRISTMAS ♥
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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?
I spend more time with my friends. But only because my boyfriend lives 3 hours away.
My boyfriend and I are constantly getting into debates about everything, especially religion and politics. We usually don't get that worked up, but I'm afraid it's going to do our relationship damage in the long-run. Is debating normal? Or should we avoid doing it in case we start fighting and potentially ruin our relationship? Do other people have experience with this...?
16/f
It's not going to hurt your relationship. Debates are fun. Well, not fun but people like to argue. My boyfriend and I debate on things all the time and we've been together for almost 2 years.
whats a handjob?
It's like a boobjob but for your hands. If you don't believe me, there's a wonderful site out there so you can find out for yourself-- www.urbandictionary.com
Well I met this guy on advicenator's and I really really like him..... but I want him to know, and Im wayyyyyy to shy to tell him... wada i dooooo!!!??
Unless he lives in the same city, don't. It wouldn't work out.
Well,i recently asked about how to get rid of dark circles,people suggested clinique all about eyes,it looks like it works,i just need some more feedback? also,do you know where they sell clinique products? i live in USA,Massachusetts.
My mom uses that junk. Seems to work wonders for her. Dillard's is where I get all my clinique stuff.
Ok I don't really get this so could someone please explain to me how to do it thanks...
Rewrite the equation in slop-intercept form.
y-3=-2(x+1)
Thanks!
That is point-slope form. In that, you have the slope and a point but not the y-intercept. In slope-intercept form, you have the slope and the y-intercept. All you have to do is solve that problem for y. When you do, you get--
y=-2x+1
It's a fairly simple question (I think) but I need some help! You could say I'm a pretty preppy girl... not like (omg I'm really flippin annoying and too perky and I'm stuck-up!) not that kind of preppy. But, I wear polos, jeans, cute shirts from like... american eagle, aeropostale, abercrombie and fitch etc., sweatpants all that stuff that's so called, "preppy". I also like chucks... converse, whatever you would like to call them! But... some people say that converse don't really go with the whole preppy look.
What do you think? Would it be okay if I got them?
Thanks always, Christine
I wear preppy clothes with converse all the time. I like them and they look cute. Everyone wears them now.
Edit: Me saying that everyone wears them now didn't mean that you're like everyone else. It means that everyone that dresses in all black to dressing in colors as bright as the sun can wear them and do wear them. And you say you want to be yourself yet don't want people thinking you're a poser? How is that possible? If you care enough about someone calling you a "poser" that you won't wear a certain type of shoes without the approval of 50,000 people then that isn't being yourself. It's trying to get everyone to like you. Thanks for the rating, it was appreciated. The feedback however, was not.
i was on birth control for about a year and i just recently stopped because me and my boyfriend broke up. i figured i didn't need to be on it if i wasn't going to be sexually active. so now that i'm not on it is my period going to be really messed up? i'm just wondering so i'll be aware of this..
Yeah, it might take a few months for it to get back to how it used to be.
Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.
Yes. But, if she wants to go to court about it then it'll be a harder case to win because she said yes to him before. If she said no though, it is still rape.
ok i shave down there and its nice and smooth for a bit but then the next day it grows back again and all prickly, and i always cut myself and it goes rashy sometimes how do i get it smooth and to stay like that for longer coz im going away on holiday with my boyfriend and we might have sex (for my first time)and i dont want it to grow back the next day and him see or feel it all rough.
please help ill rate high thanx
xxx
When you shave, use a NEW razor (every time if you can) so you know that it isn't dull and use lots of shaving cream. Go really slow but don't push down too hard. Pushing down won't be a problem if you use a new, good razor.
You can't stop the way it comes back. But you can stop it from coming back so fast. WAX. It'll last much longer (although hurt much more--but it's worth it).
Does anyone know a Katrina H. She use to go to CHS and graduated in 99. Well we were friends for a couple of years but then all of a sudden she wanted to stop being friends. I mean she didn't call me anymore and didn't come by my house. It has been five years since we have talked I wrote her a letter to see what would happen and she didn't reply so I don't know what to do. I mean you would think that she would be friend enough to tell me why she no longer wants to be friends instead of having me wonder if I did something wrong or what. What do you think I should do? and if you know her could you get back to me too.
There's probably 100 CHS's across the country. You could alwasy try calling her if you know her last name.
18/f. I have a very close guy-friend. Occasionally when he comes over to mine (or I go to his), and he (or I) can't get home (e.g. he comes to my place on his bike, I don't like him to ride home at 3am, it's not too safe around here) then he stays over. He'll sleep in my (single) bed, and we usually end up snuggled up to close each other (e.g. both lying on our sides facing the same way with his arm around me).
My question is - is this ok for our relationship? - I don't want to date him, I don't want our friendship to turn into something further. We are both single. Is it ok to sleep together like this, or will it damage our friendship in the long run?
Well, it won't ruin your friendship or anything but it might change it into something more. I know that if one of my close single guy friends and I spent a few nights together like that I'd probably end up with some feelings for him.
Well, last week, I got into a car accident. It was just me driving.
This guy was drunk, and speeding. He ran a red and smashed in the front of my car. He hit me, and then he ran. His plates were from April of 2004!
The policeman came back, telling me that he didn't catch him, but it is my fault, and they are going to send me a citation in the mail.
Should I go to court? Or just pay off the money..
It's not fair that he hit me.. and then ran, and didn't get punished, but I did. Now, I have to pay 500 dollars to fix my car, ontop of the citation...
Help?
How do you know that he was drunk if he ran off? Just because he ran a red light was speeding doesn't mean he was drunk. But whatever.
What was the citation for? It never hurts to go to court to see if you can get off.
Hey there this is nothing serious but I just hit the random Columnist feature and landed on you. Growing up I was in a bad area so everyone I knew was like a bad ass or druggy. I was the goodie goodie perfect kid never in trouble good grades. So here I am and like the only people I know aren't to great to chat with cause they only care about themselves or stupid stuff. I was wondering if it would be possible for us to chat on AIM or something. My AIM is dinohunter4L. Hope to hear back. You got my 5 when you do.
sure my sn is xokatlynn
Im going to buy myself a pay as you go phone, and I was wondering if I got this perticular phone, if I could use any brand phone card (like an at&t phone card)
http://www.t-mobile.com/prepaid/starterkits.asp
The Motorola V330 - prepaid its the 4th one down the blue one
Nope, if you buy a t-mobile phone then you have to use a t-mobile card.
OK, the story goes like this. I go out with my ex-girlfriend and she says she won't ever leave me, and BANG. A week later she leaves me(she's f/17). I tried to call her...a lot for two weeks. I then decide not to contact her anymore but it's been two months and i'm still not over her. Must i contact her or must i just accept that she will never come back?
Accept that she doesn't want you. Calling her like that will just get her annoyed. If she doesn't like you then she doesn't like you. Sorry but it's her choise not yours. And she's 17; when a 17 year old girl says she will never leave you, it isn't true...ever. Good luck with that.
my guy friend..(not boyfriend) wants to finger me tonight..im nervous..i dont know how to prepare myself..any suggestions?
(my first time)
I have one:
Don't let your horny guy friend that you don't have feelings for finger you. Specially when it is your first time.
edit: I never said you didn't want it. I said a guy that you don't have feelings for. Don't put words in my mouth. kthx
Ok well see I am a 13/f and my dad like hits me all the time with like eather a wooden stick or his hands or whatever he has in reach and it usually leaves bruises.....and like he always tells me when he does it that I could never call the police and get him in trouble because he will just say that it's his way of "punishing me". And like I always ask him why doesnt he just ground me or something else and he always says that he thinks this will work better.....but I really don't think it does. What should I doo?? Is this considered abuse or not??
thanxxx
Yes and no. It isn't against the law for a parent to spank, slap, hit, etc. their children. Just because you have bruises on you doesn't mean that the police will listen to you. They won't because sometimes kids will put bruises on themselves and say their parents did it. So, the cops aren't and can't do anything about it. THEY WILL NOT ARREST HIM OR PUT HIM IN JAIL! Who ever said that has no idea what they are talking about. You can't get him in trouble that way so he is right about that. What you should do is tell your mom is you can. I don't know what your situation with your parents is so I'm not sure if she can do anything about it or not. If they are together she should do something about it. If they are divorced, maybe you could move in with her.
I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!!
Yeah, that can be hard but just because you go to a new school doesn't meant that you can't still see your old friends. If the new school is better for you then give it a shot.
Hi everyone!
I feel terrible. Allow me to explain. I'm Todd, and I'm 15. A friend of mine (female) was cutting herself and that she was really depressed. I went to the counselor at my school to make sure that she didn't do anything hurtful (like suicide).
When she came back the next day after I told the counselor, I found out that she was on a new anti-depressant: Zoloft.
On Friday, I found out that the principal called her down and said that she wouldn't be allowed back in school unless she had a note from her psychiatrist. She told me she might be out for a while. :-(
Some of my friends said I shouldn't tell the counselor (on the day before I told the counselor), but my parents and several people said that I should. I was pretty nervous, and I didn't want her to commit suicide or do anything terrible.
I feel terrible, like I made her go away. ;-( She's not sure when she'll be back, but I feel like I committed a crime or killed someone. :-(
I'm also afraid of what my friends might say when I go back to school tomorrow. Most of all, I feel terrible since I won't see her, and I don't know how long I won't see her either. :-(
Any comments, advice, please feel free to say so.
Thanks,
Todd
I hate when people know someone is cutting themselves and doesn't do anything about it. You did do the right thing. And I'm not just saying that to be gay either. I've witnessed many kids that said their cutting was "harmless" and ended up suicidal. If your friends have a problem with it simply respond with, "You’ll be thanking me when she doesn't kill herself." She needs help and she's getting it all thanks to you. Good job. Try calling her house and asking her parents if you can see her. I'm sure they'll let you once you tell them you care about her and want to see how she's doing.