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What must I do to get her back?
OK, the story goes like this. I go out with my ex-girlfriend and she says she won't ever leave me, and BANG. A week later she leaves me(she's f/17). I tried to call her...a lot for two weeks. I then decide not to contact her anymore but it's been two months and i'm still not over her. Must i contact her or must i just accept that she will never come back?
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Im sorry but If she hasnt called you, i don think shes comin back.. but you should call her and see why she just kinda abandoned you! you at least deserve to know why,what,when,how you know..
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you need to move on! if you didn't do anything, and she still just did this, then she just stopped having feelings for you. i know that kinda sucks but the sooner you try to move on, the sooner you will get over her, and you can live your life again. hope i helped! ♥
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I'm sorry she did that to you. But I think it's really nice that you keep calling her and trying to get her back. It shows that you really care, but obviously she doesn't feel the same way =/ Sorry to say but I think you should accept the fact she's never coming back and move on. =/ Show some other girl how much you care for her but only this time, she'll return it and she won't leave you =] This girl doesn't know that she's missing out on a great guy. =D I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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i think that its really cool that you could like someone so much but if she dosent feel the same way as you do then i think you should reward some other gurl with your sweetness!! hope i helped
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i know what your going through and i read peopels advice to take it for myself..my fiance left me after 2 yrs and i want him back--he told me he is never coming back--you did good by not calling her--i still text him --being 17 is just starting life and exploring--i dont know how old you are but if your the same age maybe you may want to do some exploring yourself--there may be someone else out there and you wont know if you dont give it a chance--im 27 been through enough and its hard to listen to peoples advice b/c it is your heart that is hurting..so if you need to talk more hit me up email or im we can chat about it and maybe we can help each other understand the opposite sex!lol
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keep trying but dont leave her like 50 messages cause that gets annoying if u leave her a nice message that she can think about that really tells her who u feel than she might come back but dont put pressure on her but dont just take no for an answer
hope i helped
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Accept that she doesn't want you. Calling her like that will just get her annoyed. If she doesn't like you then she doesn't like you. Sorry but it's her choise not yours. And she's 17; when a 17 year old girl says she will never leave you, it isn't true...ever. Good luck with that.
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if it's still bothering you after two months..i think you should at least try to get an explanation. you haven't called her in a while so that's good cause its given her space. but it also raises the probability very high that she has definitely moved on. call her..but don't expect that she will come back to you. just tell her that you still have feelings for her after all this time and all you need to know is what went wrong..and you will feel a lot better. be prepared that what she may tell you might not be what you want to hear, but you can't go on wondering forever.
drop one in my inbox if you need anything else. =).
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I would try to call her and if it didn't work...well all I have to say, is that unfortunately, we all have to come to accept things, even if we don't want to. I know it sucks, but you just gotta get out there and live your life. It's too short. So get out there and meet people and stuff! :)
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Ok honestly the more you try and push on her for her to come back teh more she will push away you are showing her taht you are still there so she doesnt want you if you show here that you arent there and you have a great life going and honestly your just ebtter off without her then she will want you but honestly do you really want her back i mean if shes gunna b like that to u shes not worth it just lose her but if you really cant try that and tell me how it works out i hope everything goes better let me know!
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It depends...do you REALLY love/fancy her? If so, you do anything to make it work. If not, then there's plenty more fish in the sea..maybe you'll find your Nemo. I know it hurts to be dumped, don't worry, the pain fades...even if it takes a few months. Chin up and stay strong!
x Steph x
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Quite obviously, something went -really- wrong somewhere.
Well, you've tried your best to get in touch with her. Call her one more time to see if she's calmed down from whatever she was going through and see if she'll talk to you. Don't worry about looking desperate, she told you she wasn't ever going to leave you and then she up and leaves. For god's sake, you -deserve- to know what the hell happened.
If she doesn't want to respond. Just forget about it. The ball is in her court. It's a very sad situation but there isn't really anything you can do about it.
Best Wishes.
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if youve tryed to call her alot and over a long period of time like you did...then id suggest forgetting about her. i mean if she hasnt contacted you then she isnt interested
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call her again!! she'll be suprised nd then she'll know that you still care about her!!
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