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Alright here is the story. I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 days ago because it didn`t feel right and I kinda wanted to explore with other guys. The problem is I still like my now ex alot and I dont want him to get with another girl! I Don`t know if I should go back out with him or just explore or what to do at all! Any ideas?
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Well obviously you should explore a bit becuase that's what you wanted to do in the first place, and you should also see if you really really wanna be with him. And then also if you do want to get back together with him, then you should talk to him and everything first and see if he wants to get back together with you because he might not want to after you broke up with him. I hope I helped.
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MELii
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tell him what you did was a mistake and wait and see what he says.
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I would reccomend to you to keep doing what you're doing. You obviously didn't like your ex well enough to want to keep calling him your boyfriend, so being jelous when you see him with another girl is something you're probably just going to have to deal with. You can't treat the guy like he's a toy you can pick up and put back down whenever you get sick of him. If experimenting with other guys is something you really wanna do, I say go for it. Let your ex do his thing while you go off and do your thing. If you guys want to get back together later, by all means do so. It sounds like you guys might need a little break, though.
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well its not fair that you want to explore with other guys but you dont want him to be with other girls. i dont think you should go back out with him right away. its normal for you to miss him, but you broke up with him for a reason. go out and have fun with other ppl for awhile and if you still feel like you really miss him, try to go back out with him
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ask your self this do you really like him that your heart pounds when u hear his name or are you beenig selfesh?
if you like him go get him back but tell him that you want alittle space to explore but still stay together and let him have the same privlage
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If I were you, I'd give it time. You broke up with him only 3 days ago, of course some feelings are still going to be there. You wouldn't have broke it off with him unless it didn't feel right to you at the time. If you got back together with him.. do you think you'd feel any different? Chances are, it'd be the same. I'd give it a little more time first to decide what you really want. If in a few weeks you still feel the same then tell him how you feel and take it from there. But I think you'll find that in time you won't feel the same way. Perhaps exploring with other guys might do you well for now.
Good luck.
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Not bothered about the rating! :)
It'd be hypocrisy if you went out with someone when you want him to stay single, you need to think if you want to make it work or try with other people. If you try with other people, he will probably follow. So, it's up to you, just becareful and make a wise decision! :)
x Steph x
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It's three days, it's not too late. If you want him back, go back!
I would say run over to him and apologize. Tell him that you made a big mistake and you were acting foolish because of all the crazy emotions you're going through. Basically, ask him if he'll take you back and grovel if you get pretty desperate.
Next time, think carefully before you break up with someone. And exploring is good but if everything is going fine with one guy, you shouldn't really throw it away just out of curiosity.
Good luck.
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If hes willing you could still be friends with your ex.
If you think you made a mistake then you need to speak up and let him know that. If you aren't going to date him the he WILL find someone else.
That is what your plans were and he won't wait for you. He will date other girls. :)
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Why loose someone you really like, just to see what else is out there? I mean if he does get with another girl you might regret it and you will be sad. If you want to go out with other guys then go for it. I think you should go back out with your boyfriend since you really like him. Whatever choice you make, make sure it's what you want to do.
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see if he's the right person for you to go out w/..nd if you like hanging out w/ someone else better then it doesn't matter what he does..but still hang out w/ him because it's good if you stay friends w/ him! but if you go out w/ a couple people nd you like him the best then go back out w/ him..nd if he has a girlfriend then wait..if he likes you then him and his girlfriend won't last..and if he doesn't like you then he won't go out w/ you even if he doesn't have a girlfriend
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