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theres this boy called Aaron i feel alot for him but he doesnt like me and hes going out with one of my best friends i dont no what to do because i want him to like me and i want him to be mine!
thankyou Natalie x
uhh, well you just gotta get over him b/c if you don't your bff will PISS!
lilyyyy!!! i love you so much so you gotta help me. ok. here goes. so theres this guy i like. omg hes soo awesome. hes a really good friend of mine but he doesnt know that i like him. how do i take it farther? how do i let him know without freaking him out or ruining our friendship? love ya soo much. mwa
you gotta find out if he likes you and if he does just be like I like you and he'll be all I like you too and then you'll be all wanna go out and it'll be really cute but if he doesn't like you then just flirt alot not alot alot though and not like hey sexii but like you know what I mean.
Ok so I really love my GF right now (I don't go to your school by the way, got this from a friend) and I sort of feel like I'm ready to have sex. Yes I'm only 12 but the feelings I have for her are like huge! I really want to, and I talked to her and she thinks so to, but I also don't want people to think I'm a perv, what should I do? And also would you have sex at this age?
-Thanks so much! from a friend of your friend ^_^
in my opinion you're too young but it's really up to you and your gf. i wouldn't have sex at this age...and in my opinion you shouldn't, but the choice is yours. just consider what could ge wrong if you do decide to, though. hope I helped. xoxoxo
Lily
hey lily well, i have a few problemos first i kinda like 2 people rite and so liek i no 1 likes me back but the other one that i like even more has a boyfriend so like it kinda sux and theres another girl that really likes me and i kinda liked her 4 a week but then she kinda got annoyin adn i stoped and now i reduced my likin people to only 2 people so like she still really likes me and so i dont wanna hurt her er anything but yah and so like and then theres another girl that kinda likes me and so i dont no if i like her er not and everyone in the skool is sayin i do and every1 says she likes me but i dont even no if i even like her tho so like u no.... and so like i really wanna another gf and uve always been in my heart too tho lol hehe so i need uyour help to like make me a btter person and im am not pothetic if any1 thinks that cus im ritin here so if you do your a shell sea er sea shell er waterver they are so thanks lily
ok...I totally didn't get that...can youy please try to make it a little more clears? thanks! xoxo
Lily
this is the girl that asked u about the whole mike thing(about us hanging out and what not) but anyways i wanted to start out by saying thanks for the help..it meant a lot! but anyways i have another problem! well last night i talked to him and it went HORRIBLE! i imed him and was like this is a little weird and hes like yeah i know what you mean..so then i was like what do you mean, why do you say that? and he was like same reason as you probably, why do you? and i was like well all my feelings came back and he was like its just weird thats all (well if his answer was gonna be the same as mine and he knew that..i know..why was it totally different..doesnt make sense..dunno if he was hiding something or what) well then i asked him why he did it and he said i suck and i was like well why do you say that? and he was like cause i do i wanted you to stop me..i was like what the heck you wanted me to stop you from kissing me when you know i love you..it just didnt make sense to me..how could you seriously do that to a person? so then i was like do you like doing this to me and he was like no no no no no and i was like why do you? do you like me crying all the time? and he was like no actually i find it kind of annoying! so i was like you know what fine sorry for being annoying and sorry i came into your life ill just leave! well he ended up blocking me for like 30 minutes and took me off his friend on myspace! i know i reacted a little harsh but after him being like this for 9 months and even telling me 6 months after we broke up he loved me..it causes a lot of pain!ive told a lot of my friends i give up and im done cause i know i deserve better! but they keep saying we know he loves you, you can tell he just doesnt wanna admit to it! but no one knows but him! i told them hes not the one crying all the time but they said you dont know that..and i guess they have a point! i guess my question is what do i do from here? do you think hes playing hard to get or scared to tell me his feelings? should i give up or what? sometimes i just think it isnt worth it anymore! thanks so much
he sounds like a jerk...he's not good enough for you...i don't care who you'he is!
hearts.Lily
Okay, so i have a boyfriend that i reeeeeally like!! So like i'm not sure if i should kiss him or not. i mean, everyone's telling me that i should kiss him but i dont want it to seem like i just did it cause people told me to. so anyway i guess i want to...but i don't know like people have kissed other people but i dont know, i guess im not too young, because i'm 12, and i want to i guess...but i just dont know whether i should or not...i mean everyone's telling me to and saying that i definitely should, especially cause i REALLY like him, but i still don't know what to do!! I don't want to miss my chance and stuff...please help me lily!!
~Kiss or Miss~
go for it babee!
haha...just do it...you def. don't wanna miss your chance!love ya!!!hearts.lily
Okay so yesterday i had this halloween party and my bestfriend made out with the guy i like...asfter i told her i liked him! and now shes beign a whore about it and i just feel like crap because everyone knows about it. she said she pulled away and she did, but still! She didnt even say anything to me untill i was balling an hour later. IT WAS MY PARTY!
~thaaaaanks
hmm is says to include age and gender im 12 and a giiirl!
aww, it's ok babe...that's a little bitchy on her part...not talking to you about it...and it was YOUR PARTY! but you shouldn't be mad at her for making out with him because it sounds like she didn't want to but if you're going to be mad, just think about the not talking to you for an hour part. It's not fair to blame her for something she didn't want to do, but she could have at least talked to you. I think you guys should talk it out...b/c thats no reason to ruin a friendship. hope I helped.
hearts.Lily
ok, so like this guy hu i've had a crush 4EVER has recently decided to like me now......i mean like if i wasn't goin out w/ ne1 i'd TOTALLY ask him out but like i have a bf i reeeeeeeeeely like! but the old crush i still have feelings for and i reeeeeeeely liked him before....like love...and then he woodn go out w/ me and that wuz reeeeeeely hard but now he likes me! except the only thing is that i don go to the same school as the old crush so now it'd be sort of weird to go out w/ him but i just like him sooooooo much!! and then like.....i dunno....and on top of everthing my ex-friend who went out w/ him last year but only because every1 else liked him is gonna ask him out but hes gonna say no because he told me because he likes me and he sed hed wait 4 me to be ready (like wen me and my bf eventually break-up) which wuz like reeeeely sweet but like my bfffff and my other close friend both like him but he duzn like my close friend like that and him and my bfffff r just gud friends so he duzn wanna go out w/ her either. my bfffff and i were talkin and neither of us wanted my ex-friend 2 get him again (especialy 4 the wrong reasons) so i asked her if she didn want ne1 else to go out w/ him if she cant or if she just didn want my ex-friend to go out w/ him. she sed "it'd be reely cool if _____ (my close friend) went out w/ him i just dont want ____ (my ex-friend) to. so then wen my old crush told me he liked me and he'd wait 4 me i wuz like sweeeeeeet and i didn think my bffffff wood care because thats like wut i basically thot she sed....so then i went to tel my bfffff but she got reeeeeeeely pissed at me because she doesn want me 2 go out w/ him and i wuz like wth?? but like she woodn even listen to me she just like started ignoring me wen i told her.......but like i gess now that im writing this it sounds stupid and i shood just stay w/ my bf....its just that i've liked him sooooooo much for soooooo long!! u'll prolly say to just stay w/ my guy because that wuz ALWAYS my advice and i think friends r just soooo much more important than guys so like you TOTALLY shoodn fight over them but w/e......help pleez!!
~cOnFuZlEd~
p.s. sorry if that wuz a tad bit on the confusin side......
ok... I think that you should tell your bff that you don't think she shoud care if you go out with him. you've liked him for so long and you finally get your wish. she should know that that's important to you and she should be happy for you, not mad at you. and it's obvious that she's a little jealous of you. she should know what's important to you and if she lets that get between your friendship then she's not a true friend. I've done that so many times and although I always make up with my friends, some people aren't that lucky. so just tell her that and see if she reacts. if she doesn't then just find some new friends. she's not worth it.
about the bf thing...who makes you happier? think about that for a few days and the person who makes you laugh and who warms you heart *nerdy moment* most when you're around them.
hope I helped!
xoxo
Lily
*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much
well...I dunno...It seems like he likes you but he doesn't want to. i don't know what you should do. I think that you should just give him some time. wait for him to talk to you. i don't know what else to tell you...sorry.
xoxo
Lily
okay so i am suppose to go trick or treating with my friend and thats cool but she wants to invite her other friend too . i dont know this friend and also she doesnt go to the school. i dont really want her to go because i just want to go with my friend. how can i tell my friend that i think we should just go together not with the other girl!
thanks
just tell her straight out. say I don't feel comfortabe going trick or treating with the other girl that you want to invite. If you want to go with her, then I guess I can go with someone else because I just really don't want to go with her.
Hope I helped!
xoxo
Lily
One time i talked to this girl and she said hi and i said no and she said what and i said nose car. that dosent make sense right so i got jealous and punched out her boyfriend and now im in jail. How do i get out of this place?
umm...you don't...
OMG! ok, so like my BFF 4life decided that she didn't want to be BFF's nemore. and i was like totally devestated! but then my crush found out and told me he was so happy we weren't friends nemore cause he likes me better when im not around her. and i got like really mad and yelled at him. but then i realized he was complimenting me, so i went to gor appologize, and maybe like ask him out or someting. but then i saw him making out with this other girl so i walked away.
NEway, i made a new BFF now and we are like so tight. but now my old BFF wants to be bffs again. i dont no wat to do cause we cant be a threesome cause thats just like totally social suicide! omg! and i like my old BFF better but i dont want to desert my new bff cause i no how it feels! please help me. im so confused.
xoxo
confused
ok...well I'd stick with your new bff...because your old one sounds like a bitch!!! but it's totally not social suicide to have 2 bff's...i do...and i'm not totally hated or whatever....but if you have to choose go with the new one...the old one needs to know how you felt. and about your bf...he seems like a jurk...if you catch him making out with anouther girl he totally doean't deserve you....no matter who you are.
Hope I helped
xoxo
Lily
ok so i walked into the bathroom at school and i saw these two girls makin out and finguring eachother and one of the girls was my bestfriends gf. should i tell him about this or should i let him find out on his own??
uhmm...let him find out on his own...he won't believe you and he'll just get mad at you...
xoxo
Lily
so i'm in 8th grade at a public skool and its the last year and me and my parents were thinking of my going to a privatie skkool
when i tlel my friends there all like omg you cant go i really wanna go but they make it sound so sad!! help!
if you wanna go then you should. but still keep in touch with your friends. hang out with them every weekend you're frre and stuff. hope i helped!
xxxooo
Lily
hey babesies! I REALLY like this guy like super a lot and i dont think he likes me. no one has ever liked me except for like one person, maybe two. He told me that he likes someone but i know its not me, because why would he tell me he liked someone if it was me? okay i know that sounds stupid, but still!! i REEEEEEEALLY like him! i haven't liked anyone this much since my boyfriend. help me! and i think you might know who this is, but just please help me! give me some self-confidence or find out once and for all if he likes me or something...please??
xxxoox .:obsessed with no chance:.
ok babee, I'll doo what I can! but I definately think that you have a chance with him! and if he doesn't like you, then he's a re-re b/c you are so beautiful! ok, well I'll get back to you on the liking part, but for now I LOVE YOU and I hope I helped!
*kisses*
Lily
i am going to make one like you but
-how do i sign up. and
-how do i ask questions to the public not just you. and
-how do i view questions from the public. and -whats a favorite columnists. thanks.
thanks
-on the homepage, there's a link that say's Register, It's Free or something like that. click it and fill out the formie thing but you have to be like 13 or something so if you're not, just lie...
-i don't know...i just answer questions, i don't ask...
-once again, I don't know. sorry!
xoxo
lily
Hey lily! Anyway there is this guy i like but i dont know if he likes me and i dont want to ask him out first because that just dont want to. Anyway and im too embarassed to tell that i like him. What should i do. Thanks lily...love ya.
~help with love~
ok...tell one of your friends who's friends with one of his friends and ask her/him to talk to him. then when she tells you if it's yes tell her to tell him that you like this guy and that he should ask you out. wow...that doesn't really make any sense but whatever...hope you get it and I hope i helped!
xoxo
lily
uh the computer attacks again........
hoo-kay, so, like once i was like sitting with my girlfriend, and i was like, "ommg, r u cing the show 2nite" and shes all like "poatato, potato" and i'm like wat and shes like "potatoe, potatoe". then i heer dis big gie\ant sound dat was like "snee-oozle", and it turns out to be another 3 nosed, 4 eyed computer from arabia. Den, i was lyke, ommg, i shud like kill dees compooter. dat was like the seqund worst day of mah intyre lyfe.
ommg thnx,
eli and herbie
wow. you guys have no life. jk! love you guys!
kay so i reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeely like my bf and like im ALWAYS thinkin about him and stuff and then i'll talk about him a lot and if hes not in skool i get reely worried cuz i don want him 2 be sick. well, i'm gettin worried some of my friends r getin sick of me....cuz like im constantly talkin about him and stuff like i sed and i can like see them gettin bored....how do i check if their bored or not and try to NOT talk about him so much if they are bored.....
~wOrRiEd BuT iN lUv~
ok, well i think you have to stop worrying so much! and also, just let your friends pick some topics to talk about. try to think of other things sometimes so that you're not constantly thinking about him ALL the time. it's ok to like him, but you don't want to be obsessed!
hope I helped!
xXx
Lily
hoo-kay, so, one time i was like ommg, the sky is falling. so den mi amigo waas like, dude ur krazy. and im all like, CHAIR!!! so hes like wut? and im like, CHAIR!!!!! den, i heeeeer dis big giant sound dat was like "snee--oooozle" and im like ommg wat de hel was dat. it turned out to be dis giant 3 toed and 4 eyed computer from arabia. mia frienda as not any longer here today. he was killed by a giant 3 nosed liger. OMMG that was like the worst day of mah in-tyre lyfe.
ommg, thnx
herbie and eli a.
Brick wall, waterfall.Herbie and Eli think they got it all but he don't, and I do, so Boom with that attitude. Peace, punch Captain Crunch. I've got something you can't touch. Bang- Bang choo-choo train. Wind me up I do my thing. Reeses Pieces, 7-Up. You mess with me, I'll mess you up.
haha.jk. love you guys!!!
xXx
Lily