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friend or boyfriend??????
ok, so like this guy hu i've had a crush 4EVER has recently decided to like me now......i mean like if i wasn't goin out w/ ne1 i'd TOTALLY ask him out but like i have a bf i reeeeeeeeeely like! but the old crush i still have feelings for and i reeeeeeeely liked him before....like love...and then he woodn go out w/ me and that wuz reeeeeeely hard but now he likes me! except the only thing is that i don go to the same school as the old crush so now it'd be sort of weird to go out w/ him but i just like him sooooooo much!! and then like.....i dunno....and on top of everthing my ex-friend who went out w/ him last year but only because every1 else liked him is gonna ask him out but hes gonna say no because he told me because he likes me and he sed hed wait 4 me to be ready (like wen me and my bf eventually break-up) which wuz like reeeeely sweet but like my bfffff and my other close friend both like him but he duzn like my close friend like that and him and my bfffff r just gud friends so he duzn wanna go out w/ her either. my bfffff and i were talkin and neither of us wanted my ex-friend 2 get him again (especialy 4 the wrong reasons) so i asked her if she didn want ne1 else to go out w/ him if she cant or if she just didn want my ex-friend to go out w/ him. she sed "it'd be reely cool if _____ (my close friend) went out w/ him i just dont want ____ (my ex-friend) to. so then wen my old crush told me he liked me and he'd wait 4 me i wuz like sweeeeeeet and i didn think my bffffff wood care because thats like wut i basically thot she sed....so then i went to tel my bfffff but she got reeeeeeeely pissed at me because she doesn want me 2 go out w/ him and i wuz like wth?? but like she woodn even listen to me she just like started ignoring me wen i told her.......but like i gess now that im writing this it sounds stupid and i shood just stay w/ my bf....its just that i've liked him sooooooo much for soooooo long!! u'll prolly say to just stay w/ my guy because that wuz ALWAYS my advice and i think friends r just soooo much more important than guys so like you TOTALLY shoodn fight over them but w/e......help pleez!!
~cOnFuZlEd~
p.s. sorry if that wuz a tad bit on the confusin side......
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ok... I think that you should tell your bff that you don't think she shoud care if you go out with him. you've liked him for so long and you finally get your wish. she should know that that's important to you and she should be happy for you, not mad at you. and it's obvious that she's a little jealous of you. she should know what's important to you and if she lets that get between your friendship then she's not a true friend. I've done that so many times and although I always make up with my friends, some people aren't that lucky. so just tell her that and see if she reacts. if she doesn't then just find some new friends. she's not worth it.
about the bf thing...who makes you happier? think about that for a few days and the person who makes you laugh and who warms you heart *nerdy moment* most when you're around them.
hope I helped!
xoxo
Lily
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