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I'm 13 and am here to help. Don't get on my back if i screw up though, we all make mistakes. I am a huge christian and if you are too, i'd be pleased to know you, just i/m me some time.

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okay well i really like this one guy.. and i mean hes like soo soo perfect... and i know hes noticed me and i think we might have a chance of going out cuz were already friends and i just dont know what to do.. i mean i no i cant ask him out soo please help me please hes soo important to me but he just doesnt know that..
signed so so confused..
*I RATE* please answer me soon*

well, every girl is like this. give him loads of hints that your crushing on him, like flirt with him and just have friends tell him that you like him. Or try inviting him to the movies, if he agrees to go, then that's a clue that he likes you, because he can always disagree and not want to go. hope helped a little..

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my dad has never told me he's loved me until last week when we were on the phone. I said it first, but i am glad he said it back. it is awkward to say it again. My question is...is it normal for dads not to say he loves his daughtor and should i keep on saying i love him when i see him or talk to him on the phone?

well if you tell him u love him more often, maybe he will start to say it back to you. It's always nice when you hear that someone loves you. it's basically normal for loving dad's to say i love you. but in some places its not always so popular. be glad your dad finally let you know how he feels about you.

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my birthday is coming up soon.
i want to rent a limo.
but the only problem is . .
i dont know where it would take us!
does anyone have any ideas of places to go? thanks!

out to dinner, bowling?, a game, anywhere you think you and your friends would have a fun time!

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i bought a really cute sweatshirt at aeropostale but when i tried on at home it was too small. i bought it at an outlet mall in st. augustine but i'm not there anymore. can i return it at a normal aeropostale store??

u can return it at the nearest aeropostale store closest to you. they wont mind, its the same products, just a diff store. :-)

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well im 14 and my parents got divorced a few years ago and my dad married this person i hate! she is seriously like the wicked step mother and it blows. She always talks bad about my mom too and my mom is the sweetest person in the world. How can i tell her to shut the hell up without getting grounded forever. help! P.S. sorry its so long!

well i can relate, my parents got divorced when i was in 4th grade and my dad was cheating on my neighbor, and now there married. she can get on my nerves too. i kno this might be hard, but your gunna have to let your feelings out to her, maybe not as harsh as you want to, but in nicer words and ask her what you'd like her to stop doing. try to be open to her and dont always think of the negative of her, try to remember the good things she does.

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ok well..im 11 yeears old, and like.. im 115lb. and im 5'2 and i abouslty hate it. People say im fat, behind my back..and im always hungry ..and i try to eat healthy but i still gain weight ..help?

get involved with things, and maybe it will help you stop being always hungry. hide all the fattening food in the back of your pantry or refrigerator that way you'll be less tempted to eat it. get involved with a sport and keep up with it. hopefully i helped

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how can i make my butt smaller? and the top of my thighs?

push ups really help some times and so does well when you bend your knees when you have weights in them. i dont think i'm really helping, you could most likely find excersizes in magazines for teens or any magazine. or look up on the internet for butt excerizes. good luck!

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whats a chi? i read it in one of ur answers. thx

its a brand of straighteners! it works EXTREMELY well! it's one of the top ones! i kno tons of people that use one and LoVe them! i advise you to buy one!

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i need help in my spirtul life with god. im a christian an all that but i wan to grow mor with god!
how can i get closer to god?

i would suggest to get involved with a church or a youth group! read your bible more often and pray to God, he's really the one that should give you the answer, not a bunch of teens and adults that dont know the future! God can tell u everything if you listen, he most likely wont tell you in words, but maybe when you read the bible he'll guide u to a verse. God works wonders on people like you! He loves you!

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I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again.

grow stronger in God, you always have room for growth. and dont just lay around the house, share God's love with others, join your church's youth group, since ur almost 18 i bet you could find a job up at the church too. get involved with God and maybe you wont feel so alone and you'll be able to relax more.

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Are there any true Christians on here?????? Christians who belive that Christianity isn't a religion, but that it's a relationship between you and Jesus and a lifestyle. Are there any Christians out there that Love Jesus Christ with their whole heart and want to serve him NO MATTER WHAT????

what is it?(s/n-stronginHIShands)

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school is starting in a lil bit, and i wanted new hairstyles and outfits and stuff. last year, i wore my hair up every single day. for the whole year! I want a new hairstyle that everyone will love! I have really thick hair and whenever i brush it, it gets REALLY poofy. thats why i wore my hair up all the time. and when i get it wet, it dries and poofs. same if i use a hairdryer! help me please. will rate 5 for any answers!

omgosh i had the same problem! my hair is extremely thick and curly! okay so i got a chi! i kno there expensive but save up your money b/c its definantly worth it! and even if u have thick hair the straightener works wonders! oh and to help keep down frizz shower with cold water! it seriously works! getting your hair thinned out helps too! get some straightening mousse ((pro-v has one that i use)) and blow dry, then straighten! if your hair\'s curly, let it curl and put gel and mousse in it! who cares if its big, it\'ll look cute with those curls!

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This previous year I was new to a school and made friends with all seniors. Now, that im a senior and they all graduated, i dont know ONE person. I'm not exactly good at making friends, i was lucky enough to meet them last year. (People at my school have already formed their cliques and dont really accept anyone.) I used to be extremely outgoing and have tons of friends at my old school, but im a completely different person now that im in an unfamiliar place. So now that school is coming up, im not sure what to do the first couple weeks of school. I know it'll take time before i make friends, because thats just me. So in the meantime, do I just sit by myself during lunch and hope that someone will come up to me? I'd rather be the one to go out and make friends, but it wont happen. Also, if you saw someone sitting by themself would you honestly go up to them? Any advice?

well my advice is to join clubs at your school, you could make some friends there, and like another person said, just be friendly and get up the guts to talk to someone. Ask about homework for a class you have with some one, or ask about there summer, make any sort of small talk and maybe it will lead to a friendship, but the best thing is to be yourself

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