okay well i really like this one guy.. and i mean hes like soo soo perfect... and i know hes noticed me and i think we might have a chance of going out cuz were already friends and i just dont know what to do.. i mean i no i cant ask him out soo please help me please hes soo important to me but he just doesnt know that..
signed so so confused..
*I RATE* please answer me soon*
im_falling_4_u answered Thursday August 11 2005, 8:33 am: ok well, hmm this is kind of hard...
1) You can ask him out...some guys like it, others just think its weird so i would wait for him to ask you out
2)Tell him how you feel be like, "You mean the world to me, i jjust wanted to tell you and im not expecting a responce, so yeah and i hope that we can still act the same around each other as we did before"...BUT if he is going to say something let him say it before like say you mean the world to me and im not waiting for a respoce then have a pause so if he is going to say something he can and you will know if not then just go on saying that you hope that you can still be good friends as you were before this
Teza answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:04 pm: Since you think you might have a chance with him just wait until he asks you out. There isnt anything else to do but wait and be patient. Keep flirting with him and do whatever you always done. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
DeeSireDiOr answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:53 pm: Hey
If you really like him as much as you say you do then talk to him about it. Being honest is the best way to go here. No your not asking him out your just letting him know your true feelings. If you don't do it now then you might never know how he feels about you. If your just going to wait for him to express his love to you then it might not ever happen because just like you, guys dont want to risk being rejected. If both of you don't say anything you might lose something both of you wanted. Then you could possible find out that he did in fact like you at one point in time but he moved on. That would suck. But if you tell him NOW how you feel two things might happen. He could either say he likes you too which im hoping for or say he likes you only as a friend . But would you have rather lived your life not knowing how he feels. Its up to you. Your going to want to find out how he feels about you at one point anyhow so why does it matter when you ask. The sooner the better. You dont want him getting a girlfriend! do you?? Just be honest! I'm sure he likes you just as much or even more then you like him.
orphans answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:34 pm: Yes you can ask him out, otherwise you'll never know if you could have had a chance with him. I say take it like a woman, lol and be the brave girl that you are, if he sees that you are interested in him then he'll know for sure that you like him and he'll show you that he likes you too... HOPR I HELPED if you have any more questions send them to my advice column or email me!!! :)♥ [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
jazabelle answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:23 pm: Could you try and hint to him? Ask him to see a movie, out for some food? You don't have to outwardly tell him you like him, but just make it clear?
Maintain eye contact, talk to him a lot, laugh at his jokes, spend lots of time with him.
devilspawn_666 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:19 pm: If you really like the guy that much, it's okay to ask him out. It's not like it's the 1950's anymore. I don't blame you for not wanting to make the first move, though. I don't usually like to either. If you guys just started hanging out together, maybe you should wait until you know him better before getting into a relationship. You might find out that you'd rather just have him as a friend, as opposed to a boyfriend. These things take time, and if it's real, you'll know it after awhile. It's sometimes really hard to tell the difference between love and lust. [ devilspawn_666's advice column | Ask devilspawn_666 A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:12 pm: Hey. I know how you feel. And, i've regreted not telling guys that i like them. If you think you have a chance with him, then i say go for it. Let him know the true you.You can ask him out! Dont be afraid to either. Not only guys but girls can be the ones to ask out also. Tell him that he's important to you. Hopefully he'll be good about it. He most likely will ask you out. Good Luck.
~Brina [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
ADViCEx4xY0U answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:08 pm: Ask him who he likes. Hint around about who you like without giving away that it's him. Maybe he'll catch on & maybe he even likes you! If he doesn't give you a straight answer about who he likes, just try talking to him & tell him how you feel. I know that you might be shy or afraid of what happens at first, but you only live once. Life is too short to let the people that you care about slip away. I hope everything works out for you!
TennisGirl2213 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 8:47 pm: Ask him if he likes you. Yeah it IS embarassing...but if he's your friend, he won't care. If he does, you really should ask him out.
xosweetiepiexo answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 8:46 pm: Aww, well first of all.. since you guys are friends i'm assuming you feel comfortable around each other. Being friends before being boyfriend and girlfriend is always goood because you will feel comfortable around each other and be able to talk about anything
You said he noticed you which is good because it means he's interested <3. SO just flirt a little =] let him know that you're interested in him.. but don't come on too strong.
"i mean i no i cant ask him out" ... hunnie, of course you can ask him out.. i understand that its hard since you like him so much but your afraid he won't like you back <|3.. but after you've flirted with him and gave signals that you like him, he'll already think that you like him. When the time is right and you feel like he feels the same about you, thats when you ask him out.. i mean would you rather not ask him out and never ever be able to be his girlfriend, or ask him out and have a chance of going out with him. I mean who knows, maybe he has feelings for you, but is just too shy to show them because he's afraid you don't like him.
shutupnkissme98 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 8:40 pm: make it obvious that you relly liek him and that you want him to ask you out. flirt with him alot and give hints that you relly like him. u can also ask a friend to talk to him and ask him if he likes u.hope i helped XoXo [ shutupnkissme98's advice column | Ask shutupnkissme98 A Question ]
preciouswaste answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 8:34 pm: hey. =] ok well my advice is..you don't have to ask him out. you can tell him you like him. or you can have a friend be like "so i was talking to blah the other day. i think blah likes you." & see what he says. my friend had her friend do that & she's going out with the guy now so yea. IM me if you want more help.
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