Hi I'm Julie. I go to a small private school. Socially, i'd probably give the worst advice because i just don't make the effort to talk to people. With seeing everything, that's not true for me. I can help with boy problems for sure though. No, i'm not good in the fashion area either. For me, the idea of an amazing outfit would be a band tee & jeans or something. I don't wear makeup. I don't do drugs, drink, smoke or any of that stuff. I'm on the computer too much. I've had heartbreak a ton of times & it's horrible. Currenly, I have a boyfriend & he's amazing. I guess you could say I'm good at giving relationship advice [love life, friends, or family] because I do know about friends & how people can be mean & stuff. I know about overprotective parents since I have them, but not abusive ones. Feel free to ask me anything. I'm here to help. ♥ Julie
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how do i factor this trinomial :
18y squared - 23y -6 (link)
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so i have no life. i worked on this a longgg time til i figured it out. so as one person said the answer is;
(9y+2)(2y-3)
then you just FOIL it to make sure.
[first (9y*2y), outer (-3*9y), inner (2*2y) & last (2*-3)]
& it comes back out to;
18y^2-23y-6
hope i helped. :]
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Okay there is this kid, and hes so adorable; sweet; romantic; funny; and all those other things, like everyday before school i make sure my hair is perfect my make up is perfect and make sure my outfit is okay. Well when first period comes; he looks at me i smile at him he doesnt smile back. but he tells his friends that he likes me and all this other stuff. but durin class he doesnt show it..Why? Pleasse help..
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i think he doesn't show it because he's nervous to. i'm not a guy so i can't tell you what they think but um yea. i think you should talk to him & tell him about what you heard & ask him if it's true & tell him to be honest & you promise not to hurt him if he does [mentally of course] & care if he doesn't. it's the only way to get that sorted out. you need a direct source, not a rumored one. =/ i'm having a problem now too, not like yours, with this guy who i like a real lot & i talk to him online & stuff & i think he blocked me & i'm really scared [cause i have linked s/n's & he's on on one & not on the other, which is the one i talked to him on & he doesn't have b-list only] so idk what's going on. it's scaring me though since i just got hurt & i don't feel like getting hurt again. but anyways, sorry for my pointless ramble! good luck.
♥ Julie
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ok, ever since kindergarten, i have ALWAYS been the only girl at pretty much everything. most of my friends are guys and they're kind of like my brothers. i have about 38 guy friends right now, we hang out alot and stuff but a couple nights ago (the evening of the day before school) atleast 10 of them asked me out. i asked them how long have they liked me and like 5 of them said since 2nd grade. so yeah...i'm kinda stuck. i like 3 of them, Brandon, Jordan, and Chase, i don't know what to do, cuz if i go out with one of them, then they'll all get in a big fight and i'll be in the middle and i HATE it when that happens! i don't know what to do, i've been trying to avoid them as much as possible at school and we don't hang out as much as we used to so things have changed quite a bit. if they were just my regular friends then i wouldn't be too worried but they're my BEST friends and i've told them some secrets and stuff, i really trust them but i don't want our friendships to end and i don't want to get in a big fight. i miss seeing them and playing games with them but now, i can't even talk to them because i don't know what to say. most of them are on the football team too and they're i guess you could say popular. and i'm kind of confused why they waited until now to tell me, and i know they're not lying cuz they would never lie to me. i don't know what to do, can someone please help me?
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well tell them you don't feel the way about them they feel about you. & you WANT to be their friends. & there's gotta be someone out there better than you for them that way. but liking someone is always gonna change the friendship, unless they learn to get over you. & who cares if they're popular? that doesn't have to do with anything. i mean..unless you like any of these 10 guys i'd go out with one;; but then that WILL affect the friendship because they'll be all sad & stuff & then that guy would probably brag. so i'd just tell them all. get them all together in one room. so that you did everything for them all equally. but gosh, with all those guy friends it'll be hard to date. good luck.
♥ Julie
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I have this cousin that I hate. I tell my mom that but she always says " Nikii, she is your cousin you have to love her" but I always get in trouble at school ( she goes to the same skool as me) because she is the biggest tattle tale and i have told her that if she keeps this up im not gonna treat her the way she wants to be treated because she makes my life miserable. she also lies about things and all the teachers love her. when i try to tell everyone the truth they dont listen to me beacuse in their opinion shes always right and im always wrong. she always does things to get me mad and she wont stop.what should i do? (link)
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wow. that must stink. i'm sorry to hear that. but i basically hate my cousin too;; except she doesn't go to my school [thank god]. but i get along with her sometimes. have you tried telling the teachers about it? if not, you could write a really long note explaining everything & how you feel & whatnot & express your grief & show it to your mom & say "this has NOTHING to do with loving her. this has to do with my life, which she is ruining. please, don't think i'm over-reacting. read this. i wrote it. it should explain it all." don't even talk to your cousin about it. she won't listen. if your friends don't believe you, they're not good friends, are they? good luck & hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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hey theres this girl who is rlly mean to mme!she doesnt get off my back..shes a total biatch..can you help me make her get off my back but dont say ignore who that never works
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tell her how you feel. tell her to stop. if it happens more, tell an adult. get a restraining order if it gets THAT bad. tell friends about it. etc. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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im really really really really really really really really really fat i need serious help im olny 5'and 1" and i weigh near 200 pounds and i need to get in shape cause there is this supa dupa dupa hot hot guy and im twice his size its really not my falt that im this big cause when i was 12 (now im 16) i was anorexic and i barly eat ate anything 4 51/2 months and i was only 53 pounds and gettin smaller but when i was just about 13 i stated eatting massive amounts of food and i gained about 29 pounds in a mouth alone and i couldnt stop and now im way over weight and i need you to tell me who to eat right and make myself look hot help me please and i need a place shop 4 close to fit my huge hiney
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eat healthy & exercise. that's it. kthx.
♥ Julie
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hey julie. my friend stole this quote from this girl who worked really hard on it. and i said it was wrong for her to do that, & she like didnt make a big deal cause i was like nice and all. and if i say im not going to be her friend, shes gonna tell her mom cause she tells her mom [everythingg]. && she keeps on stealing stuff from others. please help !! thanks (link)
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well then you can't do much about it. she's just dumb. but if she tells her mom that, you're not gonna have anything happen to you. i mean, come on, you didn't do anything. maybe that other girl will realize how horrible she's being. she can only stop on her own. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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Hey..i dont need advice right now...but i think yuhh give great advice anyway! (link)
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ok......uh thanks...
♥ Julie
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okay well i really like this one guy.. and i mean hes like soo soo perfect... and i know hes noticed me and i think we might have a chance of going out cuz were already friends and i just dont know what to do.. i mean i no i cant ask him out soo please help me please hes soo important to me but he just doesnt know that..
signed so so confused..
*I RATE* please answer me soon* (link)
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hey. =] ok well my advice is..you don't have to ask him out. you can tell him you like him. or you can have a friend be like "so i was talking to blah the other day. i think blah likes you." & see what he says. my friend had her friend do that & she's going out with the guy now so yea. IM me if you want more help.
♥ Julie
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umm i'm not trying to be mean, i'm trying to say this in the nicest way possible, but can you be a bit nicer when you answer our questions sometimes? by always saying umm and things like that it gives me the impression that you don't really care and you just think these questions are stupid. and don't get me wrong, i would probably be so bad at giving advice and you are great at it. you really helped me get through too of my problems so i'm not saying that you don't give good advice or anything. just can you please cut back on the negativity? i'm sorry if i offended you in any way because you are so great. thanks. (link)
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ummmm ok that was interesting. oh gosh i said umm! you seem to have some mood swings there. "i like you, but you're mean to other people." if you knew me, you'd know i'm half depressing & half happy. depends on my day. i do think some of these questions are quite stupid. so do some of my friends who read them. i will speak my mind & if you don't like it, then don't ask anymore questions. there's other people in the world better than me with a plastic smile on their face. kthxbye.
♥ Julie
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hi umm julie well i really like this boy....he is really nice and sweet and i kinda thinks he likes me cuz he would always stare at me and smile and ya but i'm not sure but anyways he is from my camp and unfortuantly my camp is over and and i mean i got his screen name and and i wanna tell him i like him but i dno how to tell him....plz i'm just a lil confused...plz help (link)
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you talk to him on IM & tell him..or you call him. no matter how nervous you are, that's how you have to do it. it will feel better once you get your feelings out. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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hi am 16 and im a lesbian and i dont knoe how to tell my mom b*c she is a christian and they dont believe in lesbiens or gays...so can you please help me tell my mom? (link)
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aww that is really tough. my mom is catholic & stopped going to church because of that. but i would just tell her openly & tell her how you feel & tell her it doesn't make you any different & no one has to know if she doesn't want them to. because, if she does anything wrong to you after you tell her that, it shows the world is going upside down. but you really need to tell her, no matter the consequences. =/ Good luck.
♥ Julie
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Hey Julie -- I'm in need of some advice.
My so-called "best friend" is being not so much of a friend ever since she has been going out with this kid. everytime i would call her to make plans or something she would go "WHAT DO YA WANT" and that REALLY bothered me. and all these other people that I'm friends with she's making them hate me. (i found this out from a real friend) and I feel like I've lost many good friends. I'm not so sure what I should so -- say "screw 'em" and go on with life, or deal with all of her not so friendly ways. I'm afarid to talk to her because i think she might go telling people!! OH and one more thing -- she only calls me when SHE'S bored and has nothing to do. I really hope you can help me. (link)
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say "screw 'em" and go on with life. my advice exactly. there's better friends. if you can make one person ruin your life, that's horrible. there's got to be other people out there who won't.
♥ Julie
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What color backpack shld i get from llbean the campusbookpacks?? (link)
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umm your favorite color? most go for blue. if you're girly, go for pink, although dirt will be visible. but i'd say go for blue.
♥ Julie
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okay.. i kinda have two problems rolled all into one::
1) i am 13 years old and have a bf, zach (yes that makes me a girl), and i really like him! but my friends hate him... and they try to convince me that he is like really annoying, a jerk, and not good enough for me... you know the usual. but i know a complety different side of him. i know him as smart, funny, nice, everything that makes him perfect. what should i do to make them see this??
2) one of muh friends hates him so much that she is trying to tell me that he is gonna dump me!! i know how much he loves me and that he would tell me himself, not make her tell me. i have fallen for this trick before and lost a really great bf and friend. what she does is:: she tells me that he will dump me so i should dump him first... and she plans it out perfectly about lyke who he lykes and all that. i know it is an act, but i dont what to do!! please help!! (link)
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ooh i see. that's pretty horrible. for problem 1, go out on a date with him & bring your friends along. show them how he truly he is & how much you two care about each other. if they don't like, screw em all. for problem 2, tell your friend she needs to get a life. because she's not a good friend if she does that. tell your b/f about what she's trying to so he can straighten her out. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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okay im 13 and all my friendz are 14 but all of them are alwayz like wanting to get boyfriendz and thinking they wont find the perfect one and i alwayz tell them that itz to early to worry about that and just have fun with your life now but all of them say the same thing about each bf they have and they say he is the one and then they brake up and they r really hurt n i dnt like them alwayz getting hurt and they never listen to me cause they move on to a new guy right after i jsut dont like them alwayz crying over one lil guy and worring about not finding the perfect one can ya help me please (link)
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well basically, get used to it. that's what most teenaged girls do. some are good at getting over guys, some others aren't. but me, i`m different. i want to find the one. i know i haven't yet. but i NEVER had a boyfriend before. i know you don't like watching your friends get hurt but you can't tell them to stop dating. if they want to date, they just will. you can tell them how you think it's dumb how they go through guys like water, but they`ll just look at you weird. trust me. my cousin is like that. except she doesn't cry over guys. she usually dumps them. lol. but she knows what's right for her & whatnot. i hope when they get older, they find someone better. i wish you luck. IM me if you need anything.
♥ Julie
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heyy julie .. uhhh ok well here's my question:
ok so .. the first day of school is coming up and my friendS are helping me become more prep and like popular instead of dorky science freak !! i was wondering if you could give me some tips on how to be preppy because i dont understand what my friends are saying at all !! please help me =[ I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO !!! (link)
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wow. do i hate these questions. sorry but you're an idiot. dorky science freak = school is easier & loads more money for a job. prep = clothes, snob, & lose money on clothes. think about it. don`t label yourself. if you`re friends are trying to change you, they`re assholes. the end.
♥ Julie
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well im really not asking advice i just wanted to tell you that all your graphics are soo cute.. have you ever thought of going back at b4u to make grapics? i requested a few things from you a long time ago & theyre like by far the best ones & im not just saying that well good luck with your advice colom =) (link)
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heh thank you. no i probably won`t do graphics there much anymore. i don`t have time. with all the websites i have now. & highschool next year, there`ll be no time for buddy4u. sorry.
♥ Julie
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okay im 14 and im a gurl im dating this one kid and hes like really likes me and hes really nice but i dont really wanna be with him because i wanna be with this other kid but i dont know how to dump my b/f.....can u help me? (link)
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just say to him "i really like you, but not the same way you like me. i just want to be friends. i know this sounds lame, but it's the truth. please don`t feel bad. i will always be here for you. just not in the way you want me to. i hope you find someone new who loves you as much as you love them." yea. hope i helped.
♥ Julie
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hi julie. well, how am i supposed to shop at american eagles or whatever if my parents only will take me to the salvation army and i dont have friends to go to the mall to shop with and i didnt get my license to drive because i am not old enough? and i already made an appointment for my nosejob but now i do not want to go and what am i supposed to tell my parents? help! and i really want to try and make friends. but i think i have trouble in that area. ill post again soon. thanks for your help, julie! (link)
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you cancel the appointment. tell your parents nothing. nothing happened. then it's not lying. if you ask, you can tell them, but they`ll go all "omg why would you do that?!" on you. it's easy to make friends. you`ll get one eventually. & salvation army is fine. it`s cheap, & it`s nice there. someone today told me they liked my shirt & i looked down forgetting what i had on & was like "oh, thanks." cause i could really care less. keep shopping there. maybe if you get friends, you can go shopping at ae or w/e you want to do with yourself. but please..you're scaring me with the whole nose thing. if you want to see a bad nose, check out my mom`s sometime. WOA!
♥ Julie
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