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my fwends
ok, ever since kindergarten, i have ALWAYS been the only girl at pretty much everything. most of my friends are guys and they're kind of like my brothers. i have about 38 guy friends right now, we hang out alot and stuff but a couple nights ago (the evening of the day before school) atleast 10 of them asked me out. i asked them how long have they liked me and like 5 of them said since 2nd grade. so yeah...i'm kinda stuck. i like 3 of them, Brandon, Jordan, and Chase, i don't know what to do, cuz if i go out with one of them, then they'll all get in a big fight and i'll be in the middle and i HATE it when that happens! i don't know what to do, i've been trying to avoid them as much as possible at school and we don't hang out as much as we used to so things have changed quite a bit. if they were just my regular friends then i wouldn't be too worried but they're my BEST friends and i've told them some secrets and stuff, i really trust them but i don't want our friendships to end and i don't want to get in a big fight. i miss seeing them and playing games with them but now, i can't even talk to them because i don't know what to say. most of them are on the football team too and they're i guess you could say popular. and i'm kind of confused why they waited until now to tell me, and i know they're not lying cuz they would never lie to me. i don't know what to do, can someone please help me?
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well tell them you don't feel the way about them they feel about you. & you WANT to be their friends. & there's gotta be someone out there better than you for them that way. but liking someone is always gonna change the friendship, unless they learn to get over you. & who cares if they're popular? that doesn't have to do with anything. i mean..unless you like any of these 10 guys i'd go out with one;; but then that WILL affect the friendship because they'll be all sad & stuff & then that guy would probably brag. so i'd just tell them all. get them all together in one room. so that you did everything for them all equally. but gosh, with all those guy friends it'll be hard to date. good luck.
♥ Julie
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