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Alright, well i've been talking to this guy online for awhile and he has to be the sweetest guy i've ever met. He's perfect, he looks good, hes there for me when i need him, i can talk to him, hes alwaysss making me smile and it seems so prefect. We talk on the phone and everything hes smart, funny just everything i want. but he doesn't live in the same state as me. Me and him have talked in the past and we both agreed that we didn't want a long distance relationship because it's too hard. But i can't help but want him to myself i don't want him to end up dating someone where he lives, hes so prefect i just want to be with him i can never stop thinking about him and i just want to get out of highschool so i can go whereever and just see him. I know it may sound kinda stupid but you don't really understand unless your in the situation. I don't know what i'm supposed to do, if i'm supposed to forget about us having anything until we're older and just accept things and stay single or try it with someone up here but thats the thing i don't really want anyone around where i live. Or should i wait and just see what happends or what? I'm so confused, what should i do?
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Okay, yeah I know that can be a tough situation. I think that this is something you and him have to decide together. There are positives and negatives of being together and there are positives and negatives of waiting. If you got together now, you would rarley be able to see eachother but you still would be able to talk to eachother and you have to accept the fact that if you got together now then there could be a chance of some girl hitting on him. (i'm not saying that he would go for her and leave you or anything but.. I still wouldn't want girls hitting on my boyfriend.. ya know? but another positive is you sound like you really like him, and it's good to have someone that you really like that makes you feel good about yourself. and if you decide to wait, you both will probably find other people. I think that if I were you in your situation, I would ask him if he wanted to try the long distance relation ship and if things don't work out that way, just wait until you get older and hook up with him if there isn't anybody else in the picture.
*Hope I helped and good luck !
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