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there is this guy that i have known for a while and he is hott and everything but he is like a brother to me and he asked me out should i do it or should i just say no?
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Well if you like him back, then I don't see why you shouldn't go out with him! Because my best guy friend asked me out and we went out, and then whenever we broke up, we still stayed friends and it seemed like it never happened, so if there ever was the chance you guys broke up, it can always work out. I hope I helped!
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MELii
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you should go out with him only if you like him and you think that he's gonna be a good boyfriend. also, check to see if hes still friends with some of his exs.. that's always a good thing because it shows that you guys still might be friends after you guys break up.. that is if you actually want to be friends with him. and you shouldn't just go out with him because he's hott. hott guys most of the time are assholes..
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well if you like him you should say yes but if i was you ii would talk to him about you guyses rilationship tell him you dont want your relationship to change hope i helped xOxO//&hearts\\
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Well, if you decide to go out with him, when you all break up, it will be TOTALLY different. Im sorry to say it, but it is. Some people can have a friendship still liek my friend, but she has to work extremely hard for that. I went out with my best friend (who was a guy) for about 10 months, and now, he wont talk 2 me or even look at me. So, if you want to go out, you can, just know that when you break up, it will be hard to keep a friendship after!! Hope I Helped and Good LUCK!!
~*RaY JaY*~
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Well if you like him as more then a brother then go for it.. if you just think of his as like a brother then i wouldnt go cause that would be akward.. ♥ Dez
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Well its your choice wud you rather have him be a boyfriend to you or a good friend If you decide that you dont wanna go out with him tell him you want to be good friends
Good Luck
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if you think it would be wierd to date him ... just tell him that .. but if you can picture yourself and him together then you should definitley give him a chance ... and if you dont want to date him ... tell him that he is like a brother to you and it would just be awkard ... after all ... if he is like a brother to you ... he would understand
hope we helped you !!
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If you are asking whether or not you are in love with this guy, only you would know the true answer. Being in love means you can say anything, and do anything in front of this person and not feeled judged! You should be able to talk to this person about anything and trust him with everyone. (if the feeling is mutual!) You should feel nothing but happiness when you are with this person, talking to this person, or even when you simply hear his name! There should be no secrets between the two of you, b/c if you LOVE him, why should there have to be? I don't think people fall in love til they are older and more mature, but it all depends on who you are I guess. I am constantly telling people that they can't fall in love til they're out of school, or older..but so many people think that they are, so I dunno, maybe I'm wrong! But anyways, if you like this guy and think he would be a good b/f for you..go for it!! Be careful when you make your decision tho! Make sure it is what you want, b/c you don't want to end up regretting it later on. Good Luck!
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from my experience.. never date a good friend! it just ruins things between you two. however if your really close.. then i bet you can always fix things. so i think its deffinitly worth trying! just dont date him because of looks. make sure the chemistry is really there.
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If you enjoy his company then go ahead and give it a try. If you still feel only a brotherly affection for him after a couple of dates, go back to being just friends. I say this because it is very common for a girl to say no and then later regret not saying OK! After hes asked you out you start thinking of him a little differently and feelings may change. Very hard to then say I changed my mind! Not impossible but it could be awkward for you. So, give it a try. :)
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What have you got to lose? It isn't like you're marrying the guy. Let him take you out. Any good relationship is built on friendship to begin with anyway. Before she was my wife, she was my best friend... I mean, love is friendship and friendship is love... it is just that love can take on differing forms and change over time.
Will going on a date with this guy destroy your friendship? It shouldn't. If you feel that from a romantic point-of-view that it is just too awkward to doesn't feel right, that doesn't mean you need to stop being friends, nor does it mean that it will continue to feel wrong in a few months - lots can change and you might suddenly feel differently about him.
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