Okay well today, i found out that the guy i've been talking to and basically dating the past few weeks is playing his ex on the side of me. now ik i should be mad and hate him for it but the more pain he puts me through the tighter i hold on and the more i need him and love him. all i can do is cry, and after me and his ex found out he ended up calling her and begging for her back and not me. It seems like every guy i start to exrememly like i get played off and hurt i just can't take it. he made me feel so good, so happy. and now without him i'm going through hell. I need him back in my life nobody understands that i probably would take him back after this because thats how much he means to me and they all get mad at me.. what should i do about everything?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? fallenxfor3ver answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:53 am: okay.. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear. But, I think what everyone is telling you is true. I don't think you should hate him but I deffinetly don't think you should want to be with him. I know you really like him but why be with a player? And oviously he doesn't really think too much of you if he begged his other girl back and not you. All I know is that if he got back with you theres like a 75% chance that he would just go and play you again. Players almost never change. You don't need a player in your life. And you said that you're going through hell without him? Hun, i would say you were going through hell with him. People cheating on eachother just isn't right. Go try finding somebody who can make you feel good, and happy, but won't play you.
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