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jealous boyfriend
Over the summer I lost a few pounds. I wasn't big before or anything I just kind of toned down. Well, a few guys have noticed and commented to me. My boyfriend gets really jealous when anyone (by one I mean guys. I don't know what to do about it. It isn't that big of a problem to where we need to break up but it upsets me when I see him like this. Today, I saw one of my really good guy friends that I didn't have a chance to see during the summer. We talked for a few min. and he asked me if I lost weight and I said yes and he told me that I looked great. My bf was standing with us and when my friend said what he said, my bf walked away. Does anyone have any idea what I can do/say to him? I'm 17 and he's 18 if that helps.
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I think your boyfriend's just afraid that you'll leave him for some other guy now that all these other guys are noticing you. Make sure you tell him that you're not letting these comments go to your head and that you want to stay with him. (Don't tell him that unless you really do)He's probably just jelous that someone else was looking at his girl... Guys can be stupid and over react when they think someone's going to invade upon "their territory". (I know that sounds really bad, but I couldn't think of any way to put it.)
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I think your 'bf' has a serious jealousy problem as you said. He thinks that you'll dump him for one of the other guys. He just doesnt want to loose you because your really special to him. So the best thing to do is talk to him about it. Hope I Helped!
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i think your bf is a little scared he'll loose you to someone better than him so i suggest you talk to him and tell him that you are not going to wnader off to some guy and that if he keeps acting like this that maybe you just might dump him
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What you should tell your boyfriend is that he's the one you care about,just because your talkin to a friend doesn't mean your doing something bad,that he should trust you because it's important for a relationship,and that if you saw him talking to a friend who's a girl you won't start to get jealous,and that you would trust him.Have a long discussion if you have to but make sure you go to a place you can talk without your friends there.Another thing you should definitely tell him that you really want things to work out with him and want to save your relationship with him.Try not to worry the attitude of his will pass.
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Just explain to him that you can be trusted...after all you picked him instead of the thousands of other guys out there...
chao for now
a friend of meli's
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You need to just straight up and talk to him. I get like that sometimes, and as much as my boyfriend doesn't want to admit it he does it to. But yeah tell him that it bothers you that he get's jealous and that he should know and trust you that you only want him and that you mean so much to him and would never want to break up with him. Tell him he shouldn't have to worry and you don't want to have to see him going through what he's doing (meaning what he does when he gets jealous). He needs to slow his role ha, ha. He should like it when people compliment you by saying good things about you because that means your really pretty, beautiful, hott or whatever. Oh and if you didn't lose that much weight then people wouldn't have really noticed but still. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Make sure he knows you still love him, and just try to talk it out with him. Your getting in shape, and people are just complementing you. If he acts too jealous, I think you should start seeing other people who can accept what your doing for yourself.
hope i helped
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