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Guys?


Question Posted Thursday August 18 2005, 9:05 pm

Okay, what are some turn ons for girls?
WHat does a girl look for in a guy?
what do they like in a conversation??

thanks lots!
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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Sunday August 28 2005, 10:40 am:
Hi wel be you self n dont like show off r anithin we hate that dont act though hehe! and dont talk about sex maybe when you get to no us better wel thats all i got for now oki hope i helped mwaz!!xOxO//♥\

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modelkate11 answered Thursday August 25 2005, 11:58 pm:
just don't act stupid or try to impress a girl because you will probaly end up making an idiot of yourself. and for conversation, don't talk about sex or anything related to that until you're friends with a girl.

be yourself
modelkate11

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Stefiny answered Saturday August 20 2005, 11:33 pm:
WHO CARES! be yourself! if you're doing what everyone else says, you'll never know if a girl really likes you or not. Relax and be yourself. (ask her questions about herself ;)

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partychick101 answered Saturday August 20 2005, 8:21 pm:
I look for...
someone i can trust
someone that can make me laugh
someone i can talk to easily
someone cool
someone that cares about me
someone that will make the first move
someone that will always be there for me
someone i can have fun with
someone that likes me for me
someone that has a good personailty
just basic stuff i guess

Usually to me it doesn't matter what a guy looks like as long as there not a complete dork. They have to have a good personality and stuff.

As for the conversation. Just someone I can talk to and have a good conversation with!

Good luck with the ladies ;)

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Courckypooh answered Friday August 19 2005, 7:31 pm:
K,

for me:
I like guys who like to smile and have fun.

I like guys to make the first move.
If you wanna kiss me, hold my hand, put your arm around me, sure fine. Just know I probably won't do it before you do.
I like guys that are comfortable with just hanging out and being themselves. If I like you how you were a week ago, don't change yourself just because we're going out.
I also like guys who go out of their way to do stuff for me. I also like them to appreciate me, and my intrests. They don't have to go shopping with me, they just have to reckognize that i like shopping and not to dis it or make stereotypes about girls that go shopping..
ALso I LOVE compliments when they mean it.
I don't care what they talk about, as long as they can carry a conversation and don't talk about things that girls wouldn't know too much about ex. sports stats and v8 engines and such..

Good luck!
<3 Kylie

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BkrShaker answered Friday August 19 2005, 6:59 pm:
Girls look for someone in shape and some like humor. Also some girls like smart guys.



Hope Advice Helps!!!!

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mooch789 answered Friday August 19 2005, 1:36 pm:
A girl looks for good looks and if they treat her right. She also looks for kindness, respect and consideration. In a conversation, they like to be noticed ans have a lot of sweet things said to them. They also wanna know that you love them. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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rockergurl36 answered Friday August 19 2005, 11:40 am:
i look for
great eyes
sense of humor (always makes me laugh)
tells me how he feels
confident (but not too confident)
sensitive
etc.
When a girl talks to a guy, she wants him to ask about her and like... how she's doing. And If she's worth it she'll ask about you too.
If you need any more advice, leave me one in my box.
hope i helped!

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BrokenWings answered Friday August 19 2005, 8:38 am:
Umm well most girls like guys kissing their neck, and it sounds a bit ick but ears too, biting them.

A girl looks for personality and looks usually but it depends on teh girl in what ratio they are in.

They like a normal relaxed converstation, like they woulr have with one of their mates.

Take care

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TRiSHx0xL0VE answered Friday August 19 2005, 12:13 am:
umm here are some turn ons for me..and for what I look for in a guy..
`the smell of them..like really nice cologne:)
`for me..i really like when their hairs grown out but not to like their shoulders cuz thats nasty lol
`their smile
`them bein taller than me
`being nice and respectful
`joking around with you while being serious too
`you can tell them anything without them blabbin it to anyone
`havin the guts to say "i love you" or saying they care for me without actin like a wuss
`their eyes
`not forcing to do stuff with him..i havent had a problem with that but it'd bother the crap outta me
`a nice personality
`them being truthful to you
`i hate it when your with a guy and their like "dude that girls so hot" thats a wicked turnoff and being a wicked jerk..
**we basically look for an all-around awesome guy whos sweet, funny, serious, and hott/cute

as for conversation..
I don't care what I talk about with the guy i like as long as im talking to him..It's just extremely annoying when a guy cant carry on a conversation

If you need anymore help then feel free to leave one in my inbox! <3

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FunnyCide answered Thursday August 18 2005, 11:51 pm:
Well, you have to remember that every girl is different. Some girls like guys who are very forward and will kiss them on the first date, while other girls will only hold your hand. Some girls will make the first move, others want the guy to make the first move. It just depends on the girl. Me, specifically though :


I look for

- A Christian guy
- Sweet
- Caring
- Actually listens to me
- Shy, but not too shy to share what's on his mind
- Doesn't push me further than I feel comfortable
- Will come to church with me
- Actually knows WHO I am, not just who I appear to be
- Is a super good friend
- A sense of humor
- Mature
- Sensitive, but can joke


"Turn ons"


- Smells good. [I'm so serious.. I like it when guys smell good]
- Clean cut.
- Holds my hand.
- Puts his arm around me.
- Introduces me to people.
- Eye contact.
- Big hugs.
- Telling me how he really feels.
- Clothes that fit well (I don't like it when guys wear clothes that are 20 times too big for them).
- Smiles alot.
- Puts up with people who are more than slightly annoying.
- Will dance with me. :-)
- Makes the "first move."
- Tells me nice things that are HEARTFELT. (cheesy compliments are very annoying.)
- Honest.


"Likes in Conversation"


- Honesty.
- Variation.
- Things he's interested in.
- Things I'm interested in.
- Movies.
- Music.
- The weather. (seriously... especially storms!)
- Pets.
- Family.
- God, church, religion.
- School.
- Likes / dislikes.
- Tells me how he really feels.


Other stuff :


It is greatly appreciated when a guy will hug/hold my hand when I am noticably nervous/scared/anxious/sad. Tells me he loves me, or misses me - and means it. Puts up with my family when they're being less than nice and understanding. Holds my hands when they're cold; is not ashamed of giving me a hug/holding my hand/putting his arm around me when we're around his friends. Notices the small things (wearing my hair a different way, or getting it cut, taking time to look nice, or smells nice etc.) Makes me feel very special, sometimes sensual. Deep conversations, sweet smiles, romantic hug, loves me for who I am, not what I look like. Explains things when I don't undersand them, but isn't haughty or "I'm-holier-than-thou". Rubs my arms when I'm cold, pulls me close. Whispers "sweet nothings" (but only at the right times and not too often of course). Is sentimental, romantic, sweet, kind, loving.. and LIKES ME! [Which happens to be very important.]


Not every girl is like me, of course. I am a hopeless romantic; and I appreciate a guy who recognizes that and is supportive, sweet, and ... well, is kindof the same way. :-)


I hope this helped you some; but you have to remember that each girl has different preferances. None of us are the same.
-FunnyCide

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:58 pm:
well i go for the eyes, hair and personality.
some turn ons? shyness, eye contact, guitarist or a sports guy. Umm.. a nice voice and someone whos easy and great to talk to.
and the conversations really depend on each girl. i like to talk about music and sports. or even like traveling and different places ive visited or filing or something lol.
h.i.h.
<3 simone

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orphans answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:38 pm:
turn ons...

hug her from the back
hold her hand
kiss her neck
tell her she is beautiful do not say hott

different girls look for different guys....i like funny creative and athletic guys...i like them to be able to defend me....some girls like sensative guys who are in touch with the feminine side....most girls deffinantly dont want a jerk like i said say she is beautiful dont say hey homie id like to grab dat ass so hard...etc. none of that gangsta shit it makes them mad and feeling like they are treated like crap

in a conversation ask them how they are what is oging on in their life and what they would like to do if they feel uncomfortable with making decisions they will say i dotn know and that is when your opinion comes in....but likei said not all girls are alike...and do give your opinion somtimes and if you want more go to this website its all true [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:35 pm:
* great personality

* funny

* good looking

* noes how to have fun

* doesnt only go out with a girl to get in her pants
* Don't ever lie to us. We always find out.

* We don't enjoy talking dirty as much as you enjoy listening.

* Don't say you understand when you don't. Ask us if you would like to know. We love explaining things.

* Girls are pretty; get over it but that doesn't mean you should look at other girls besides me.

* You don't have PMS. Don't act like you know what it's like.

* Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get off the hook.

* If you talk about having a big dick, we know you don't.

* Size does matter.

* We don't like it when you act like Mr. Big. We like it when you are Mr. Big.

* A system in your car only impresses your homeboys.

* No matter what you say, your ex girlfriend is a ho.

* It's good to be sensitive sometimes.

* If you did something wrong or even if you didn't... apologize.

* Be spontaneous, dinner & a movie won't always cut it.

* We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it.

* We are drama queens.

* We like it when we know you're paying attention to us when we talk on the phone.

* Sometimes when playing a game with us, let us win but don't let us know you're letting us.

* We absolutely do not care about monster trucks, paintball, or anything you and your friends talk about like how much you now about the east or west side, sex, computers, Star Wars, & video games. (Just because you may know more than us, don't rub it in.)

* Hugs & kisses must be given at all times. We love it when you can hug & kiss us in front of your friends!

* We don't shave our legs everyday. Get over it.

* Don't make bets about us; we always find out. Plus that's just wrong & mean!

* Shave-no matter how cool you think it looks, we hate it.

* Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it's not.

* Don't compare our breasts to Pamela Anderson's. Hers are fake & ours are real & you'd probably be able to get closer to ours then you ever will to hers!

* It is not cool to shoot snot rockets.

* We are beautiful, but make-up helps. (Some us don't like make-up but hey!)

* We will always think we are fat so humor us and tell us we aren't.

* You can shoot hoops, score a goal, knock down big fat guys, and hit a little baseball with a stick so why the hell can't you piss in the toilet and not on it?

* Most importantly-we are always right-so don't forget it. (At least 3/4 the time-haha)

* Call us. Don't always have us call you. It makes a feel like we shouldn't call at times.

* You can make the plans sometimes too you know.

* We don’t really mind if you invited yourself over.

* If we're scared & you can tell, give us a hug or just hold our hand.

* We love it when you hold us.
hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Shortcake22 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:26 pm:
I LOVE a guy who can make me laugh. Thats number one for me. But know when to be serious. Listen to what she has to say. Ask her questions. Give her compliments, but dont give too many, its obvious. look (really look) into her eyes. DO NOT be a pervert. Sometimes a little bit is funny but mostly its just gross. be nice to her friends. Girls like to talk about just about anything. By asking her about herself, that should give you ideas for conversation topics.

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sweetjewel answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:48 pm:
girls just like guys who are good- looking and have a nice personality. as long as your not a jerk or perv its pretty easy to find a girl that likes you. girls will talk about anything but try to direct the conversation towards them

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PussycatDollLatina answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:47 pm:
dont be a chavenisitic pig like most guys!!!! that really helps. be nice...approachable....funny....charming....and most of all actually CARE about what she has to say...or pretend at least. i personally look for mexican guys...but otherwise...honesty....kindness....smart....sense of humor. talk about something they can relate to...not last nites game or something. figure out some of her interests and if u REALLY like her....study up! it will work wonders... hope i helped!
DontChaWishUrGfWasHotLikeMe ; )
X0X0, Valeria

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xomegaroni answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:36 pm:
hmm since i'm a girl i think i can help =) well see..girls all like diff things in a guy, but here are some basics you can start with.

-friendly guys!
-funny [remember if you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything]
-personality is a big thing, even though most girls say looks, if you don't have personality you don't have anything. by that i mean always try to be in a good mood if you can
-axe spray =) haha it's one of my favorites and it smells really good! cheap too!

basically girls look for nice guys that can still protect her. it's not all about looks either. for conversation, you juss gotta keep it going and not too boring. no awkward silences. sometimes random is good.

-hope that helped!<33

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o0xQTpiex0o answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:35 pm:
flirt with them
usally they look for a good personality and that a guy treats her right and doesnt ignore her in front of his friends they like to talk about stuff like what did you do today and are you going to the game this weekend or like we should hang out some time or compliment them oh you hair looks good tonight your eyes are soo pretty well hope i helped you=)

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DeeplyInLove102203 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:32 pm:
Turns on-nice body,nice eyes,nice lips,tight ass, when guys kiss girls necks stuff like that.
all girls like different kinds of guys some like humorous,smart,nice stuff like that girls like anything in conversation just not like gross stuff unless she likes it when you talk like that! well hope i helped need anything ask*

Caitlin&hearts;

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