How do I ask a very popular boy (Im not that popular) to slow dance with me? I really like him and we flirt alot, Im just so afraid of rejection! Hes popular but hes never had a gf (And ive never had a bf) Should I ask him to dance? What do i do if he says no??? WHat do i say?
karenR answered Thursday April 7 2005, 12:49 am: You just go up and ask he'd dance with you. If he flirts with you then I don't know why he would turn you down.
If he says no well you tried.Try to notice if he's dancing the slow ones...he may say no just because he isn't a slow dancer. So check that out ahead of time! Good luck, I think he'll say yes.:) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
sshelbyy answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 10:23 pm: I think u should!!!! If he rejects you, atleast you wont go on wondering what would have happened if you wouldhave given it a shot. Also, you'll probably be over it in a couple of days, so who cares. And he will be wishing he went out with you when you get really hot. lol. mwahaha good luck [ sshelbyy's advice column | Ask sshelbyy A Question ]
xoxbellabebexox answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 8:55 pm: just say hi and start talking to him if the conversation goes well you should take a risk of asking. what would life be without a risk or challange in your life. beisdes if it wasnt for the bad stuff the good stuff wont be that great.
ask me again (im always on!)
duzzie19 answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 8:37 pm: You don't have to rate this, I'm just telling you what I'd do: (I'm not like *oh so popular* but guys know me and like me)
plan a.) take your friend and ask the dude you like in a cute and open way if she can dance with his friend. that will drop him a little hint, and if he doesn't ask u, say casually, do u wanna dance?
you could also do this vice versa or without a friend...just be nice and polite, and not too trashy
plan b.) (what i use more often) start getting into dancing and dance really sexy but not slutty. near the dude, of course. if he doesnt come up and start grinding u....u can grab his hand and be like shall we? or u can kinda just go up and start grinding him...VERY effective
JLesSwan answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 7:00 pm: the best thing to do is to go up to him when a slow song comes on (make sure hes not dancing w/ anyone) and say "hey, do you want to dance?" its easier than it sounds, to tell you the truth. hell probably say yes, and if he doesnt, you can hate him forever (or still like him) [ JLesSwan's advice column | Ask JLesSwan A Question ]
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