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well where do i start? im going out with this boy right,(let call him sam) anyway. and of course im atracted to him. but we sed that we were going to try and have an open relationship to bring us closer because weve done everything with each other and he suggested that if we got with other people then it would make us appreciate each other more. and so far its working. we dont share what we have done but we tell each other that we are doing it. so far it working. when we het back together its amazing (just thinking about it and im short of breath if you know what i mean? lol!) nyway ppl found out about it and keep telling us that we dont care bout each other and that its disgusting. we have tried explaining but no-one else seems to understand. what do you think? is it right?
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Unless you are having sex with all these diffrent people I don't see a problem with it.I think it's great.
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Well, I guess that is a good idea in a way. Nothing is more important than cherrishing the other person more and more. But be careful about getting with other people. In the end it might hurt the relationship. Now that you know that you have strong feelings for eachother, you can probably stop getting with other people because you appreciate eachother more. Ya know? Your friends arent completely right, its not that big of a deal, but just be careful.
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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I think you shouldnt listen to those people ok you do whatever you want with your life and your relationship dont let ppl tell you something is wrong just because it dosent work for them.
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I say if it works for you, to hell with them. This is about you, and anything that can strengthen your relationship with someone has to be a good thing. Just be careful not to stay apart for too long or do this all the while or you'll grow apart.
It's just...it's a shame that you need other people to make your relationship work, you know? There are people out there who have 'done everything' together sexually and still find ways to make it work. Maybe you should try doing other new things together - non sexual things, like hot air balloon riding. Or even something as simple as watching movies together. ANYTHING that you haven't done together - try it.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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I think that it's a great way to show how much you care for eachother...maybe at the time ya'll were growing apart and BOTH felt you needed to get closer, but in a way of... getting further apart! It WILL show both of you that you miss eachother too much to be away from eachother!
*!*I HoPe I HeLpEd*!*
-*Marissa*-
P.S.- just make sure it doesn't go TOO far that what you do with other people will break you APART!*
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